I think I can reconcile this.
All things being equal, finished product works way better.
Ambition IS appreciated by most women(besides gold diggers), but there is an opportunity cost to ambition. You are spending time on your career and education rather than running game in clubs.
Guys that are financially unstable but run game in clubs 3 nights a week(often losers) will slay 10x more poon than the ambitious man, especially the one that hasn't achieved success yet.
