Ronin
Senior Don Juan
I happen to work at a golf course. One of my bosses is a handsome looking guy that at first seemed really quiet but profesional. He seemed pretty reserved at first but caried himself well. He dressed well and you could see that he had confidence.
ANyways upon first workin with him I had no idea that he was the biggest player ever. he seemed like a reserved, fun kinda guy.
Lately I had been hearing stories of him being a wild partier and stuff and so I talked to him about it. He started tell me stories about what he did at the bar last night. So he starts tellin me what happened last night. he starts off by tellin me that he walked inthe place took one look around and went straight up to the best lookin girl in the bar. So I asked him " what did u say to her?". He says " I don't know...I think I asked her what's goin on". I found that kind of interesting. (this guy was seemind more and more dj bye the min) So he goes on and tells me that after getting the blonde girl's number he had a few drinks.
He then spotted some sexy girl walkin by. So he walks up to her with a straight face and says " excuse me...you are so sexy, there's just somethin about u.....cya"..he begins to walk away and she pulls him back and starts convo and heavy flirting. Anyways he gets caught by that girl making out with some other girl later and then takes a different girl home later that night.
So I start asking him how he does it. Because I have heard other people talkin about how pro he is. He just keeps on sayin " I dunno...I dunno..I ...I just dont know". So finally he tells me another story about how he tried to give a girl the "come here" finger from across the room and he got shot down. He then shrugged and laughed it off and went onto the next girl with the knowledge that "the finger" didn't work.
So i ask him again what he dose to get these girls and he says " I just don't care...". I ask him, "what do u mean" even though i already knew. He says: " I just don't care what anyone thinks...when I'm out I just want to have fun."
So my other budy asks him "yeah but how do u know what to do.?"....so he says " Ive been shot down so many times, and because i don't care, i have gotten so much practice and eventually you learn what works and what doesn't. I've learned that being yourself works. I like to have fun and I guess thats why the ladies like me."
Anyway to sum this up. This is a guy that acts profesional around work, is a gentlemen to everyone, is dedicated to his work and his golf game, but knows how to be fun and likes being himself. This is a guy that sleeps with 2 or 3 different girls a week and doesn't even remember their names. And the most important thing was he said to forget about what everything thinks and just have fun. GO outwith that attitude and u will be sucessful.
DON'T WORRY ABOUT A THING. JUST HAVE FUN!
With the lack of careing comes approaches, with the approaches comes being shut down, with the shutdowns comes sucess. MAD SUCESS!
So try it guys. GO out with the attitude that all you want to do is have fun and just be yourself.
Sean
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Never foget your ABCs': Always Be Closing.
[This message has been edited by Ronin (edited 08-21-2002).]
ANyways upon first workin with him I had no idea that he was the biggest player ever. he seemed like a reserved, fun kinda guy.
Lately I had been hearing stories of him being a wild partier and stuff and so I talked to him about it. He started tell me stories about what he did at the bar last night. So he starts tellin me what happened last night. he starts off by tellin me that he walked inthe place took one look around and went straight up to the best lookin girl in the bar. So I asked him " what did u say to her?". He says " I don't know...I think I asked her what's goin on". I found that kind of interesting. (this guy was seemind more and more dj bye the min) So he goes on and tells me that after getting the blonde girl's number he had a few drinks.
He then spotted some sexy girl walkin by. So he walks up to her with a straight face and says " excuse me...you are so sexy, there's just somethin about u.....cya"..he begins to walk away and she pulls him back and starts convo and heavy flirting. Anyways he gets caught by that girl making out with some other girl later and then takes a different girl home later that night.
So I start asking him how he does it. Because I have heard other people talkin about how pro he is. He just keeps on sayin " I dunno...I dunno..I ...I just dont know". So finally he tells me another story about how he tried to give a girl the "come here" finger from across the room and he got shot down. He then shrugged and laughed it off and went onto the next girl with the knowledge that "the finger" didn't work.
So i ask him again what he dose to get these girls and he says " I just don't care...". I ask him, "what do u mean" even though i already knew. He says: " I just don't care what anyone thinks...when I'm out I just want to have fun."
So my other budy asks him "yeah but how do u know what to do.?"....so he says " Ive been shot down so many times, and because i don't care, i have gotten so much practice and eventually you learn what works and what doesn't. I've learned that being yourself works. I like to have fun and I guess thats why the ladies like me."
Anyway to sum this up. This is a guy that acts profesional around work, is a gentlemen to everyone, is dedicated to his work and his golf game, but knows how to be fun and likes being himself. This is a guy that sleeps with 2 or 3 different girls a week and doesn't even remember their names. And the most important thing was he said to forget about what everything thinks and just have fun. GO outwith that attitude and u will be sucessful.
DON'T WORRY ABOUT A THING. JUST HAVE FUN!
With the lack of careing comes approaches, with the approaches comes being shut down, with the shutdowns comes sucess. MAD SUCESS!
So try it guys. GO out with the attitude that all you want to do is have fun and just be yourself.
Sean
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Never foget your ABCs': Always Be Closing.
[This message has been edited by Ronin (edited 08-21-2002).]
