The Biggest Obstacle Members on this site face

[Epicurus]

Inaction.

Getting caught up in the what if’s, whatnots, and how’s. Instead of getting in the field and failing, succeeding and seeing for themselves what truly works and fits their own personal lifestyle. Instead they sit here and have others rate their every little reply and move. Nothing more than scripted robots instead of masters

 

[resilient]

How have your actions served you lately, OP? I would say that it's healthy to get real world experience, have introspection, and receive feedback. It's valueless if members seek advice and then sit on it, or just do what they were going to do anyway (which could be inaction).

 

[Epicurus]

How have your actions served you lately, OP? I would say that it's healthy to get real world experience, have introspection, and receive feedback. It's valueless if members seek advice and then sit on it, or just do what they were going to do anyway (which could be inaction).

I’ve had sex with 22 women in the past 6 months including a 7 month fwb and I’m also completely STI free. Now, that doesn’t take into account kisses or other acts that aren’t quite sex. Thanks for asking, how about you?

Sex doesn’t impress me anymore. I’m much more invested in my career and finishing up medical school for psychiatry. Only two people are impressed by sex
1. Horny teenagers
2. Guys who don’t get sex.

It’s not hard in any way. Smell good, go out, don’t be a ****INF creep and the rest will be history. But posting about every interaction you have on a forum will surely not get you there

 

[resilient]

Congrats on all those hookups. It sounds like you met your goal in notches as sex no longer impresses you. Not being sarcastic btw.

My action goals have been different. I was in monk mode for a year following a bad rejection/depression episode. I’ve written about it in other threads. I lost nearly 20 lbs following a bad ski accident. I gained the weight back, worked hard in the gym, started getting looks again. I bought better fitted clothes.

I took the time to graduate with my undergrad last summer. I had to retake a hard prequisite for grad school. I spent half of my days studying in the library, working weekly with a tutor to achieve my academic goals.

I’m applying to more schools again, and looking to get more work and volunteer experience.

Tbh, I’ve been working hard on spinning plates yet have struggled to get women out for drinks or a date in general.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I’ve had sex with 22 women in the past 6 months including a 7 month fwb and I’m also completely STI free. Now, that doesn’t take into account kisses or other acts that aren’t quite sex. Thanks for asking, how about you?

Sex doesn’t impress me anymore. I’m much more invested in my career and finishing up medical school for psychiatry. Only two people are impressed by sex
1. Horny teenagers
2. Guys who don’t get sex.

It’s not hard in any way. Smell good, go out, don’t be a ****INF creep and the rest will be history. But posting about every interaction you have on a forum will surely not get you there

I thought you was gonna say 22 in a 6 week period. But good job.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I’ve had sex with 22 women in the past 6 months including a 7 month fwb and I’m also completely STI free. Now, that doesn’t take into account kisses or other acts that aren’t quite sex. Thanks for asking, how about you?

Sex doesn’t impress me anymore. I’m much more invested in my career and finishing up medical school for psychiatry. Only two people are impressed by sex
1. Horny teenagers
2. Guys who don’t get sex.

It’s not hard in any way. Smell good, go out, don’t be a ****INF creep and the rest will be history. But posting about every interaction you have on a forum will surely not get you there

I get it. Your in puzzy. There's nothing to talk about.

 

[Epicurus]

I get it. Your in puzzy. There's nothing to talk about.

Forgot to switch accounts huh

I thought you was gonna say 22 in a 6 week period. But good job.

 

[Epicurus]

Congrats on all those hookups. It sounds like you met your goal in notches as sex no longer impresses you. Not being sarcastic btw.

My action goals have been different. I was in monk mode for a year following a bad rejection/depression episode. I’ve written about it in other threads. I lost nearly 20 lbs following a bad ski accident. I gained the weight back, worked hard in the gym, started getting looks again. I bought better fitted clothes.

I took the time to graduate with my undergrad last summer. I had to retake a hard prequisite for grad school. I spent half of my days studying in the library, working weekly with a tutor to achieve my academic goals.

I’m applying to more schools again, and looking to get more work and volunteer experience.

Tbh, I’ve been working hard on spinning plates yet have struggled to get women out for drinks or a date in general.

That’s what’s important. Setting ourselves up for future success and becoming the best versions of us. I quenched my thirst for lays. Lays are easy, now finding a good woman that’s a real challenge

 

[skinnyguy]

That’s what’s important. Setting ourselves up for future success and becoming the best versions of us. I quenched my thirst for lays. Lays are easy, now finding a good woman that’s a real challenge

When you go out, is your goal just to get laid, or is it to get the hottest girl possible?

My goal is to get the hottest girl possible which is why most nights I do not get laid. If my goal was only to get laid regardless of looks, I'd be banging a different chick every week at least. Lots of women are interested in me but often I'd rather watch porn.

I recently went 3 months without getting laid. I think I don't value getting laid that much - I care more about the quality of the woman particularly looks and also how she treats me. Abundance, for me, doesn't mean **** if the girls aren't hot and quality.

 

[jacketrunner]

When you go out, is your goal just to get laid, or is it to get the hottest girl possible?

My goal is to get the hottest girl possible which is why most nights I do not get laid. If my goal was only to get laid regardless of looks, I'd be banging a different chick every week at least. Lots of women are interested in me but often I'd rather watch porn.

I recently went 3 months without getting laid. I think I don't value getting laid that much - I care more about the quality of the woman particularly looks and also how she treats me. Abundance, for me, doesn't mean **** if the girls aren't hot and quality.

Lol when I’m single I just sorta get drunk at the places with the hottest, thirstiest girls; and the best guy:girl ratios.

I A/B test clothes to see what gets me the most attention, and introduce myself to a cute enough girl who makes positive eye contact.

The “sniper” mentality is super impressive if you can pull it off, but it could also prevent you from having fun, and could make you needier bc you’re trying to get with certain girls rather than reciprocating interest.

If you can draw the attention of many different girls, you can choose the ones who you think are the cutest.

Guy:girl ratio is key.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lol when I’m single I just sorta get drunk at the places with the hottest, thirstiest girls; and the best guy:girl ratios.

I A/B test clothes to see what gets me the most attention, and introduce myself to a cute enough girl who makes positive eye contact.

The “sniper” mentality is super impressive if you can pull it off, but it could also prevent you from having fun, and could make you needier bc you’re trying to get with certain girls rather than reciprocating interest.

If you can draw the attention of many different girls, you can choose the ones who you think are the cutest.

Guy:girl ratio is key.

"Sniper" is highly ineffective. It's better to have abundance and social proof in that particular environment and be aware of whose choosing you.

Females are more keen to want a man who has at least one woman vs the man who has none.