The biggest myth on Sosuave: THE ANTI SLUT DEFENSE

[lookyoung]

Everyone that says when you encounter Anti slut defense, relax, restart, simply try again has it all wrong. There is no such thing as Anti slut defense in that respect. Listen very carefully guys IF A GIRL WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU SHE WILL NOT PUT UP ASD A girl knows before she sees you that night if she is open to having sex with you.

The real ASD is when a girl will wait 3 or 4 or 5 dates before fvcking you. That is the real ASD. When you are with a girl and groping her, fingering her, sucking on tits, and she doesn't fvck you. IT iS BEcause she is not open to having sex with you that night.

In my d1ck tease thread I had a girl that was supposedly using ASD on me. It wasn't ASD, she just didn't want to fvck me that particular night. If she wanted to fvck me there would be no ASD.....


Think back of all the girls you guys fvcked. Did they pull ASD on you for the first night you ended up fvcking them. Probably not?????????? Girls Know exactly when they are ready to fvck a guy they are open to it.

My experiences with ASD go out with girl. You want to fvck her she says no. 2nd date says no again. 3rd date says no. 4th date is open to it and there is no ASD. It is liking taking candy from a baby. Sometimes woman will even tell me they want to have sex with me.

You will not fvck a girl 98% of the time when she is using ASD against you.
1. Girls do this because when you try to fvck them it gives them a sense of power and makes them feel wanted even though they know they will not fvck you.

2. GUYS THE most important thing when you have a girl halfway naked and she doesn't want to ****, this is a SH1T TEST. It is not ASD. She wants to see if you get frustrated, how you run your game..
She gets a kick out of this.

Best thing to do when you encounter this is....

1. Place her hand on your ****. There is a descent chance that she will give you a BJ or a hand job. The reason why girls give guy Handjobs and BJ's first without fvcking them is because they don't want to fvck the guy, but at the same time they respect you and don't want to upset you. They don't want you to stop talking to them.

So they will do the next best thing which is BJ or hand job...... Always try the place on your hand cvck trick. This has a pretty good success rate from my real life experiences.


Lets discuss if you disagree than please give me a real life example of your situation with ASD and how you got laid. Thanks guys Peace I am out:rockon:

 

[muttley]

Everyone that says when you encounter Anti slut defense, relax, restart, simply try again has it all wrong. There is no such thing as Anti slut defense in that respect. Listen very carefully guys IF A GIRL WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU SHE WILL NOT PUT UP ASD A girl knows before she sees you that night if she is open to having sex with you.

The real ASD is when a girl will wait 3 or 4 or 5 dates before fvcking you. That is the real ASD. When you are with a girl and groping her, fingering her, sucking on tits, and she doesn't fvck you. IT iS BEcause she is not open to having sex with you that night.

In my d1ck tease thread I had a girl that was supposedly using ASD on me. It wasn't ASD, she just didn't want to fvck me that particular night. If she wanted to fvck me there would be no ASD.....


Think back of all the girls you guys fvcked. Did they pull ASD on you for the first night you ended up fvcking them. Probably not?????????? Girls Know exactly when they are ready to fvck a guy they are open to it.

My experiences with ASD go out with girl. You want to fvck her she says no. 2nd date says no again. 3rd date says no. 4th date is open to it and there is no ASD. It is liking taking candy from a baby. Sometimes woman will even tell me they want to have sex with me.

You will not fvck a girl 98% of the time when she is using ASD against you.
1. Girls do this because when you try to fvck them it gives them a sense of power and makes them feel wanted even though they know they will not fvck you.

2. GUYS THE most important thing when you have a girl halfway naked and she doesn't want to ****, this is a SH1T TEST. It is not ASD. She wants to see if you get frustrated, how you run your game..
She gets a kick out of this.

Best thing to do when you encounter this is....

1. Place her hand on your ****. There is a descent chance that she will give you a BJ or a hand job. The reason why girls give guy Handjobs and BJ's first without fvcking them is because they don't want to fvck the guy, but at the same time they respect you and don't want to upset you. They don't want you to stop talking to them.

So they will do the next best thing which is BJ or hand job...... Always try the place on your hand cvck trick. This has a pretty good success rate from my real life experiences.


Lets discuss if you disagree than please give me a real life example of your situation with ASD and how you got laid. Thanks guys Peace I am out:rockon:

you are totally and utterly misinformed. She wont fvck if she doesnt have rapport of comfort. That is why ASD is present, girls do not want to fvck ANYBODY! that is the difference between the genders. Men will do it straight up, women need comfort and rapport. Can u fvck a girl on the first date? yeah, of course u can. Why? cos u have built enough rapport with her and comfort. Why does it take u 4-5 dates? cos it takes u that long for them to feel comfortable with u and then they are relaxed enough to have sex.


Goodbye

 

[lookyoung]

You misunderstood what I am saying........ If a girl wants to fvck you she will not put up an anti slut defense. She will drop her panties without hesitation. ASD is when the girls doesn't want to fvck you.

 

[Jay Jay]

I disagree.

I'll tell you why. Most girls I have slept with have said, "we can't do this" on the first night. And most of them relented after I made the obligatory sacrifices to the anti-slut goddess (demon).

In other words, they wanted to **** the entire time but put up resistance so not to seem like a slut.

JJ

 

[lookyoung]

I disagree.

I'll tell you why. Most girls I have slept with have said, "we can't do this" on the first night. And most of them relented after I made the obligatory sacrifices to the anti-slut goddess (demon).

In other words, they wanted to **** the entire time but put up resistance so not to seem like a slut.

JJ

I have had different experiences. Usually when I have a ONS with a girl, she will not put up ASD. However the next day whe will say something like
1. I never did that before.
2. I shouldn't of done it with you that fast.

Which are both BS excuses.

 

[Nighthawk]

The anti-slut defence is different to a last-minute-no-sex-shyt-test, though they often come together. In my experience, women that just want a night of passion will get over their ASD pretty quickly if you get them turned on enough. The real problem are the ones that see you as bf material.

Experience and society warn her that if she gives it up too quick you'll think she's too easy and not serious gf material. That you won't respect her in the morning.

Personally, I'm okay with a woman sleeping with me asap, but if she tried to make me wait too long I am likely to get bored or annoyed and next her c*ck-teasing ass.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

There are clearly cases when a girl has already decided and puts up no resistance whatsoever. That doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Because 90% of the time you are going to get a little ASD, a lot, or be forced to wait till date No. 4.

Even in the 10% of cases where the girl puts up no resistance, she is still going to want reassurance the next day that you don't think she is a slut.

Why not understand it and be prepared to do your part and make the girl feel okay about the encounter.

That is what ASD practises are all about, it is not all about just getting sex, it is also about making the girl feel okay with having sex with you that night, the next time and every time after.

It gives her positive feelings and gets you more better sex. That makes it more than worth understanding it.

 

[00Kevin]

You misunderstood what I am saying........ If a girl wants to fvck you she will not put up an anti slut defense. She will drop her panties without hesitation. ASD is when the girls doesn't want to fvck you.

wrong. Most hoes put up ASD. I've encountered it many times. They don't want to admit to themselves that they are hoes but they still put their legs up regardless.

 

[00Kevin]

These hors nowadays don't want to be viewed as hors yet they do horish things!!

There is no such thing as an anti slut defense because there is no excuse/defense for being a hor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Hors today want to be perceived as being so fvcking innocent for being a hor!!!

Biatch, if you want to be looked as a favorable specimen then quit being a hor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stupid irrational hors!!!!

very true. There are women however who want to change that and make ever guy think that it is ok for them to be hors

 

[Nico Suave]

Disagree lookyoung, its not a myth.

 

[PRMoon]

I don't know what most of you are talking about. I've had enough ONS's and sex on the first date becaue of my will and my will exclusively. For ONS's alcohol is the difference maker. A little (and only a little) loss of inhibitions and the proper coersion will get them in the right direction. Not saying you get some girl blasted and then rape her because who wants to spend time in jail? Just a few to loosen her up to suggestion, but is still able to walk relatively straight...maybe a little giggly.

Other times girls are into that "Girls can do anything guys can, and if I want to have sex with this guy then I will!" mentality. While I don't agree with this mentality (never make a girl like this your g/f), I will reap the benefits of it from time to time. It's refreshing for a girl to do ALL the work in her trying to lay you.

Well at least that's how girls act where I live. I'm sure it's not a universal truth.

 

[lookyoung]

The real problem are the ones that see you as bf material.

Yep this sucks, especially when you don't find her as GF material, but still want to have sex with her...

Personally, I'm okay with a woman sleeping with me asap, but if she tried to make me wait too long I am likely to get bored or annoyed and next her c*ck-teasing ass.

Amen, LOL

 

[lookyoung]

For ONS's alcohol is the difference maker.

Yes so true. However there are things that a girl must really like about you to have a ONS. She has to have a deep physical attraction towards you. For ONS looks do matter.

Other times girls are into that "Girls can do anything guys can, and if I want to have sex with this guy then I will!"

Exactly I have encountered this alot. That is one of the reasons the ASD is not what it used to be. Woman in todays society are not like they once were. Being a slut isn't like it was 20-30 years ago.

 

[Latinoman]

This is how I see things.

I don’t categorize any woman into something just because she succumbed to my advances or seducing skills as I can be very insistent (but “no” still “no”) and recognize when a woman has LOT of chemical attraction for me. If I sense she is a “sl_ut”…then I simply don’t phuck. Plain and simple. Note: I don’t try anything with drunks.

But I know one thing for a fact…I would NOT engage into dating a woman that has not been intimate with me. I strongly believe that the “dating” to see if we “click” game is a waste of time and MANY times (not all the time…but most) a desperation move for men to gain (buy) women’s affection.

 

[azanon]

But I know one thing for a fact…I would NOT engage into dating a woman that has not been intimate with me. I strongly believe that the “dating” to see if we “click” game is a waste of time and MANY times (not all the time…but most) a desperation move for men to gain (buy) women’s affection.

Dating's a generic word for going out somewhere with another woman for the purpose of getting to know her.

That being said, how do you not date women until you f***** them first? The only way that's possible is that every one of your "relationships" started out as a ONS, or you got to know each other via the internet (which i know isnt true per another discussion we had).

Explain yourself.

 

[PRMoon]

This is how I see things.

I don’t categorize any woman into something just because she succumbed to my advances or seducing skills as I can be very insistent (but “no” still “no”) and recognize when a woman has LOT of chemical attraction for me. If I sense she is a “sl_ut”…then I simply don’t phuck. Plain and simple. Note: I don’t try anything with drunks.

But I know one thing for a fact…I would NOT engage into dating a woman that has not been intimate with me. I strongly believe that the “dating” to see if we “click” game is a waste of time and MANY times (not all the time…but most) a desperation move for men to gain (buy) women’s affection.

Okay now lets combine the two. I personally won't even take a girl out to dinner until I've had sex with her, and I imagine you have similar principles. So lets say I meet a girl who I don't detect is a sl*t, but via my gaming ability, she's coming home with me and I decide to date her. Low and behold, it turns out she is in fact a sl*t, always hanging out (f*cking) other guys while attempting to string me along. Should I feel regrets in the fact that I didn't sense she was a sl*t or should i be upset becaue a sl*t ran her sl*t game on me and it took me that long to figure it out?

 

[lookyoung]

PR MOON- Although it is sometimes hard not to get upset at woman. My rule is always be calm and don't get upset. When encountering a situation like this, It is best to be calm and learn from it. Usually from my dating experiences surprises don't happen. Usually when a girl is a slut, acts flaky, etc.............................. Whenever I look back on it, there were signs she was like that.


Believe what your eyes and your brain tell you, and not your heart.

 

[PRMoon]

Thanks for the tip, but I was just posing a hypothetical situation. I don't get attached to anyone regardless of their status. Whether it's a girl who isn't a slut who I've completely dominated in the game or a slut who I've had a ONS with and don't have too much contact with. Socilization is my specialty so I'm able to put things in perspective fairly easily and manipulate things at will.

 

[Latinoman]

Dating's a generic word for going out somewhere with another woman for the purpose of getting to know her.

That being said, how do you not date women until you f***** them first? The only way that's possible is that every one of your "relationships" started out as a ONS, or you got to know each other via the internet (which i know isnt true per another discussion we had).

Explain yourself.

Example (made up)...I meet woman at the bus station. She obviously likes me.

Talk with her a little. Flirt. Show CLEAR intentions. She gives me her digits (I never ask).

See her a couple days...sit by her again. More sexual innuendos.

Then in our way to the parking lot or whatever I grab her and kiss her. Or I simply tell her that I have nothing to do and would like to see her at my place to give her a "tour"...then wink.

Now...I don't have to have sex prior to dating. Although, many times that's how it happens. But AT LEAST I have to be involved in passionate kissing. And soon thereafter (no more than one simple date) sex.

So...I get to "know" her while we are sitting in the bus.

The trick in here is meet the type that you can see frequently...via mode of transportation or social events or dancing classes or whatever.

 

[Latinoman]

Okay now lets combine the two. I personally won't even take a girl out to dinner until I've had sex with her, and I imagine you have similar principles. So lets say I meet a girl who I don't detect is a sl*t, but via my gaming ability, she's coming home with me and I decide to date her. Low and behold, it turns out she is in fact a sl*t, always hanging out (f*cking) other guys while attempting to string me along. Should I feel regrets in the fact that I didn't sense she was a sl*t or should i be upset becaue a sl*t ran her sl*t game on me and it took me that long to figure it out?

In that case...you count your loses. And simply move on. You know...a learning experience. It can happen to anyone...me included.

Remember...it is the same as the man that gets in a LTR with a woman that sleeps around.

I cannot possibly respect that man. However, I would gain a LOT of respect for that man if he dumps her arse.