Listen_to_Olly
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Much to the dismay of a lot of people on here, there are tons of young guys in their 20s who are sleeping with hot girls. In fact, there are a ton of younger guys who aren't all that rich but they still sleep with enough girls to the point that they are satisfied.
So what separates them from your average sexless 20 something male?
The answer is, those young guys have social value compared to the guy in his 20s that doesn't. This may seem a bit odd but it hints at status, a word we loosely throw around but do not really know the meaning of. In today's world, status a bit different and the answer is one you guys wouldn't like. Even though you won't like it, it is the truth and one all of us know deep down.
Lets look at a high status male in his 20s that gets laid a lot.
A high status male in his 20s, outside of a celebrity, is likely a guy who has friends and a big social circle to be a part of. He rarely heads out to bars or clubs alone, he has a group of people to go out with. The same guy is probably living in a big or cool city, working a job that pays well enough, and always has some friends to hang out with.
If you look at his social media page, he likely has a lot of legitimate followers and gets a lot of likes on his photos. When girls scroll through social media pages and see a nice photo with a lot of likes, that is social proof in today's world. The same guy has status to his crowd and he can easily branch out from there to other crowds if he pleases, meeting women and getting laid is no issue to him.
The fun girls see on social media?
They want to be a part of that in the same way a regular guy wants to be in bed with a hot girl. Girls imagine themselves being a part of that guy's life, being in pics with him, dating him, sleeping with him, and introducing him to their friends.
He might not be very rich but he still manages to have an awesome time.
Now lets look at a guy in his 20s that struggles.
The incel is likely a misfit that doesn't have that large of a social circle to go out with, hang out with, and stays in. He reads some "self-improvement" stuff and stays in on a Friday night because "bars and nightclubs are dumb". He struggles with social media so he doesn't get on it, often talking about how it is for self-centered morons.
Most of his time is spent in loner hobbies, he doesn't value social life. A lot of his hobbies are geeky and involve things like anime or board games, things that drive most attractive women away. The worst part is that the boards he visits will have PUAs telling him to "take pride in that", which is horrible advice.
He relies on the occasional cold approach hoping that some random woman will bite but most will tell you, cold approaching is a ton of rejection and the rare few women willing to say yes but most don't.
He also likely lives in the boring part of town, the suburbs, or a small town everyone that wanted to do something with their lives left.
No hot girl wants to be a part of that.
Not hot girl wants to be with the guy that hardly has any friends because that is the exact opposite of social proof.
What really separates the two from each other?
Compared to the high status guy, the incel sucks at selling himself to the world. Not to hot girls, but the world.
Important people, not just hot girls, want nothing to do with him.
Alpha males want nothing to do with him.
Hot girls do not want to be seen near him.
He is the product that no one wants to consider buying.
He is a brand with a bad reputation so hot girls and other avoid him like the plague.
There is nothing really going on in the life of the incel other than maybe work, he is a boring person to be around and a lame kid.
So what separates them from your average sexless 20 something male?
The answer is, those young guys have social value compared to the guy in his 20s that doesn't. This may seem a bit odd but it hints at status, a word we loosely throw around but do not really know the meaning of. In today's world, status a bit different and the answer is one you guys wouldn't like. Even though you won't like it, it is the truth and one all of us know deep down.
Lets look at a high status male in his 20s that gets laid a lot.
A high status male in his 20s, outside of a celebrity, is likely a guy who has friends and a big social circle to be a part of. He rarely heads out to bars or clubs alone, he has a group of people to go out with. The same guy is probably living in a big or cool city, working a job that pays well enough, and always has some friends to hang out with.
If you look at his social media page, he likely has a lot of legitimate followers and gets a lot of likes on his photos. When girls scroll through social media pages and see a nice photo with a lot of likes, that is social proof in today's world. The same guy has status to his crowd and he can easily branch out from there to other crowds if he pleases, meeting women and getting laid is no issue to him.
The fun girls see on social media?
They want to be a part of that in the same way a regular guy wants to be in bed with a hot girl. Girls imagine themselves being a part of that guy's life, being in pics with him, dating him, sleeping with him, and introducing him to their friends.
He might not be very rich but he still manages to have an awesome time.
Now lets look at a guy in his 20s that struggles.
The incel is likely a misfit that doesn't have that large of a social circle to go out with, hang out with, and stays in. He reads some "self-improvement" stuff and stays in on a Friday night because "bars and nightclubs are dumb". He struggles with social media so he doesn't get on it, often talking about how it is for self-centered morons.
Most of his time is spent in loner hobbies, he doesn't value social life. A lot of his hobbies are geeky and involve things like anime or board games, things that drive most attractive women away. The worst part is that the boards he visits will have PUAs telling him to "take pride in that", which is horrible advice.
He relies on the occasional cold approach hoping that some random woman will bite but most will tell you, cold approaching is a ton of rejection and the rare few women willing to say yes but most don't.
He also likely lives in the boring part of town, the suburbs, or a small town everyone that wanted to do something with their lives left.
No hot girl wants to be a part of that.
Not hot girl wants to be with the guy that hardly has any friends because that is the exact opposite of social proof.
What really separates the two from each other?
Compared to the high status guy, the incel sucks at selling himself to the world. Not to hot girls, but the world.
Important people, not just hot girls, want nothing to do with him.
Alpha males want nothing to do with him.
Hot girls do not want to be seen near him.
He is the product that no one wants to consider buying.
He is a brand with a bad reputation so hot girls and other avoid him like the plague.
There is nothing really going on in the life of the incel other than maybe work, he is a boring person to be around and a lame kid.
