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Master Don Juan
Hi fellow DJs, have any of you read this week's 'how to suceed with women' newsletter? There was an interesting article I thought you'd find interesting. Any comments? Here is the article:-
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We have an important message for you today--
a message that will make the difference between
getting what you want with women, or simply
wasting a lot of time and energy.
It's simply this...
There's a "dirty little secret" that most
so-called "Dating Gurus" have in common.
That secret is the "big lie" that is at the core
of almost all of the programs most "Dating Gurus"
teach.
That "big lie" is making you fail with women --
and is causing you pain and making you feel bad
about yourself.
When you believe the "big lie," you make a mistake
so fundamental that it causes more failure with
women, more problems, and more out-and-out PAIN
than any other mistake men make.
But it's the most popular, favorite mistake for
men to make. And a lot of scam-oriented dating
teachers make a lot of money teaching it to men
like you.
But before we get to what the dirty little secret
is, we have to talk about its effects.
Have you tried manipulative approaches with women
-- perhaps trying
- "being ****y and funny"
- hypnosis
- or "patterns"?
and have you been left feeling like you were doing
something wrong?
You probably have.
Did it feel "unnatural" to try these things?
It probably did.
And worst of all -- did you feel bad about
yourself, as if it was YOUR fault that those
approaches felt wrong, and that they didn't work?
Well, it's not your fault. It's the fault of the
scam artists who sold you on the "big lie."
So what is the "Big Lie" -- and how can your get
what you want with women by understanding and
avoiding it?
We want to explain the "Big Lie" in an unusual way
-- by talking about the movie "Groundhog Day."
(Don't worry -- we're going to let you in on the
secret that will let your interactions with hot
women be easy, automatic, and overwhelmingly
successful. This email is, in fact, a fast way to
do it.)
The other night we watched the film "Groundhog
day."
Have you seen it? It stars Bill Murray as a man
who gets caught living the same day (it happens to
be February 2nd, Groundhog Day), over and over.
He can learn and change his behavior each day,
but, no matter what he does, the next morning
everything around him resets itself, and it's the
previous day all over again.
Have you ever felt that way with women? Have you
ever felt like, no matter what you do, the same
thing happens again and again with women? If so,
this will make sense to you.
You see, when Bill Murray's character discovers
that he's living the same day over and over, he
realizes it's a chance to try to "get" a woman
he's attracted to.
He decides to become the best manipulator he can.
He starts collecting information about her, and
starts to figure out "the perfect thing" to say to
her.
And he falls into believing the "Big Lie": the
belief that, if you can only become manipulative
enough, and controlling enough, you can get what
you want with women -- and be happy.
So Murray tries to become the expert manipulator
of this woman. He finds all her weak spots and hot
buttons, and slowly develops a routine he can go
through with her. He tries to find the mechanical
path that will get him into bed with her.
Because each morning she's forgotten the day
before, he can test, over and over, different
"scripts" with her, until he finds the script that
works best.
But no matter how good his manipulation gets, she
feels it. She feels manipulated. She pushes him
away.
And he stresses, too. The more he treats her like
an enemy he has to outsmart, outmaneuver, and
defeat, the less happy and successful he is. (Does
that sound familiar to you?)
He bought the "Big Lie" that some manipulative act
is the "answer" with women.
Most so-called "dating gurus" make their living by
selling a bogus "bill of goods" to unsuspecting
men. They sell this crap to men who just want to
have relationships that they enjoy with women they
are attracted to. But these men get sold on the
"Big Lie."
If you've tried to be "****y and funny" and ended
up just feeling like a jerk, then someone sold you
the "big lie," too.
If you've tired hypnosis, NLP or "patterns," and
ended up just feeling like there was something
wrong with you, then you also got sold the "big
lie."
We didn't become the original, best-selling and
best-respected dating gurus by "selling the big
lie."
Our book, "How to Succeed with Women" is in seven
languages with more than 200,000 copies sold
worldwide because we teach men the simple core
principles of succeeding with women.
We teach the simple principles that will NEVER GO
AWAY. We teach the principles that will always
work,naturally, because our approach IS natural.
And that's why our work has been so successful,
all over the world. And that's why it will work
for you, too.
We won't give away the end of the movie, but will
simply tell you this:
Finally, for him to get what he wanted, he had to
stop focusing on manipulation and strategizing and
learn to discover who he was and to express his
natural romantic self.
That's what you must do, too.
While it is true that there are some tools and
techniques that can help you bring out your
romantic self so you can easily get what you want
with women -- there's a world of difference
between that and simply focusing on becoming a
better manipulator of women.
In fact, as you read these words, men who are no
better than you are getting the women YOU desire.
They are doing it by bringing out their natural,
romantic selves.
You can do it, too.
********************************************
We have an important message for you today--
a message that will make the difference between
getting what you want with women, or simply
wasting a lot of time and energy.
It's simply this...
There's a "dirty little secret" that most
so-called "Dating Gurus" have in common.
That secret is the "big lie" that is at the core
of almost all of the programs most "Dating Gurus"
teach.
That "big lie" is making you fail with women --
and is causing you pain and making you feel bad
about yourself.
When you believe the "big lie," you make a mistake
so fundamental that it causes more failure with
women, more problems, and more out-and-out PAIN
than any other mistake men make.
But it's the most popular, favorite mistake for
men to make. And a lot of scam-oriented dating
teachers make a lot of money teaching it to men
like you.
But before we get to what the dirty little secret
is, we have to talk about its effects.
Have you tried manipulative approaches with women
-- perhaps trying
- "being ****y and funny"
- hypnosis
- or "patterns"?
and have you been left feeling like you were doing
something wrong?
You probably have.
Did it feel "unnatural" to try these things?
It probably did.
And worst of all -- did you feel bad about
yourself, as if it was YOUR fault that those
approaches felt wrong, and that they didn't work?
Well, it's not your fault. It's the fault of the
scam artists who sold you on the "big lie."
So what is the "Big Lie" -- and how can your get
what you want with women by understanding and
avoiding it?
We want to explain the "Big Lie" in an unusual way
-- by talking about the movie "Groundhog Day."
(Don't worry -- we're going to let you in on the
secret that will let your interactions with hot
women be easy, automatic, and overwhelmingly
successful. This email is, in fact, a fast way to
do it.)
The other night we watched the film "Groundhog
day."
Have you seen it? It stars Bill Murray as a man
who gets caught living the same day (it happens to
be February 2nd, Groundhog Day), over and over.
He can learn and change his behavior each day,
but, no matter what he does, the next morning
everything around him resets itself, and it's the
previous day all over again.
Have you ever felt that way with women? Have you
ever felt like, no matter what you do, the same
thing happens again and again with women? If so,
this will make sense to you.
You see, when Bill Murray's character discovers
that he's living the same day over and over, he
realizes it's a chance to try to "get" a woman
he's attracted to.
He decides to become the best manipulator he can.
He starts collecting information about her, and
starts to figure out "the perfect thing" to say to
her.
And he falls into believing the "Big Lie": the
belief that, if you can only become manipulative
enough, and controlling enough, you can get what
you want with women -- and be happy.
So Murray tries to become the expert manipulator
of this woman. He finds all her weak spots and hot
buttons, and slowly develops a routine he can go
through with her. He tries to find the mechanical
path that will get him into bed with her.
Because each morning she's forgotten the day
before, he can test, over and over, different
"scripts" with her, until he finds the script that
works best.
But no matter how good his manipulation gets, she
feels it. She feels manipulated. She pushes him
away.
And he stresses, too. The more he treats her like
an enemy he has to outsmart, outmaneuver, and
defeat, the less happy and successful he is. (Does
that sound familiar to you?)
He bought the "Big Lie" that some manipulative act
is the "answer" with women.
Most so-called "dating gurus" make their living by
selling a bogus "bill of goods" to unsuspecting
men. They sell this crap to men who just want to
have relationships that they enjoy with women they
are attracted to. But these men get sold on the
"Big Lie."
If you've tried to be "****y and funny" and ended
up just feeling like a jerk, then someone sold you
the "big lie," too.
If you've tired hypnosis, NLP or "patterns," and
ended up just feeling like there was something
wrong with you, then you also got sold the "big
lie."
We didn't become the original, best-selling and
best-respected dating gurus by "selling the big
lie."
Our book, "How to Succeed with Women" is in seven
languages with more than 200,000 copies sold
worldwide because we teach men the simple core
principles of succeeding with women.
We teach the simple principles that will NEVER GO
AWAY. We teach the principles that will always
work,naturally, because our approach IS natural.
And that's why our work has been so successful,
all over the world. And that's why it will work
for you, too.
We won't give away the end of the movie, but will
simply tell you this:
Finally, for him to get what he wanted, he had to
stop focusing on manipulation and strategizing and
learn to discover who he was and to express his
natural romantic self.
That's what you must do, too.
While it is true that there are some tools and
techniques that can help you bring out your
romantic self so you can easily get what you want
with women -- there's a world of difference
between that and simply focusing on becoming a
better manipulator of women.
In fact, as you read these words, men who are no
better than you are getting the women YOU desire.
They are doing it by bringing out their natural,
romantic selves.
You can do it, too.
