The Best Ways To Get Over A Girl
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broken dreams
Senior Don Juan
OK Guys On my previous post I was wrong, I posted temporary training wheels but the problem if it is emotional investment I agree 100% with DEREK EFFECTs.
I started to autospy my FB GF whatever relationship and it was looking pretty bad, I put myself too available for her to take advantage.
I see it now like if I got rejected on an appraoch, which doesn't matter.
What matters is how you feel, or what some guys call INNER GAME.
Also, I noticed when you go thru something ****ty like this your deep feelings and sad emotions come out like waves of energy and women smell that since the have these antennas radar sensors.
So I recommend derecteffect's way of going through. before you step out to go bang another chick read it internalize and you'll understand why you felt "needy" or got used to that pvssy.
I read it today and it help me alot I really know that I dont miss her or neede her , I just got used to her ol' raggedy gangbang pvssy.
Its time to upgrade to younger and hotter chicks , but most importantly get your emotional side a tune up and deal with the pain, let it go, talk to someone post it up, air it out. reverse frame it and say it to yourself.
Instead of saying " why Im I soo sad, why do I feel sad about her?"
you say to yourself " Why am I so happy, I feel lvcky today, I will be the coolest social fun guy , who cares what people think of me as long as I am happy and take care of my self, I love m,yself and respect myself ...the rest is BULL S H I T !
S
I started to autospy my FB GF whatever relationship and it was looking pretty bad, I put myself too available for her to take advantage.
I see it now like if I got rejected on an appraoch, which doesn't matter.
What matters is how you feel, or what some guys call INNER GAME.
Also, I noticed when you go thru something ****ty like this your deep feelings and sad emotions come out like waves of energy and women smell that since the have these antennas radar sensors.
So I recommend derecteffect's way of going through. before you step out to go bang another chick read it internalize and you'll understand why you felt "needy" or got used to that pvssy.
I read it today and it help me alot I really know that I dont miss her or neede her , I just got used to her ol' raggedy gangbang pvssy.
Its time to upgrade to younger and hotter chicks , but most importantly get your emotional side a tune up and deal with the pain, let it go, talk to someone post it up, air it out. reverse frame it and say it to yourself.
Instead of saying " why Im I soo sad, why do I feel sad about her?"
you say to yourself " Why am I so happy, I feel lvcky today, I will be the coolest social fun guy , who cares what people think of me as long as I am happy and take care of my self, I love m,yself and respect myself ...the rest is BULL S H I T !
S
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broken dreams
Senior Don Juan
You feel bad , depressed and upset about the situation when she brakes up or cheats, right.
OK
It is better to Let the anger go , let it go. use it as energy boost for your recovery.
How ? by talking about it with YOURSELF and trying to get a positive feedback experience by posting up here.
DO NOT TALK ABOUT IT AT WORKPLACE OR FRIENDS!
They will think you are a PATHETIC LOSER.
YOu will lose your friends.
REFRAME your life and priorities First before thinking about getting another GF or whatever. You will end up stuck in the same problem in your next relationship if you dont get your s h i t straight first.
Dont be too needy to hook up w a GF.
tell yourself :YOU ARE #1
YOU LOVE N RESPECT YOURSELF and WILL WORK FOR YOURSELF IN FEELING GOOD.
STAY POSITIVE -positive thinking will shift you to speed recovery.
YOU WILL NOT GET BACK TOGETHER, IT WILL NOT HAPPEN CAUSE IT WILL NEVER WORK.EVER.
If you see her dont talk to her.If she calls dont pickup, she is seeking your energy and it will fvck you up.
You should focus on areas on life maintain focus. Create a better self to the cost of extreme (controversial)
because NOW is your chance to step up and be free to really be a BADASS.
Start talking to women, even if you dont have any intention of sleeping w them socialize.
like THEDERRECTEFFECT mentioned you miss the attention, the sex.
There are different ways to solve this problem if you want pvssy.
Don't try to over analyze what happened
for her IN HER MIND she did what she did because she felt like it !
plus its none of your business whether or not she is seeing someone.
Its an opportunity to fine tune yourself with life and your goals
Build a support team in areas fo your life : example is trainer for gym,etc.
IF NOT?!
She will have control of you , IN YOUR MIND.
It took me 6 months to recover from my ex wife but I want this experience now and make it a leverage to recover faster to help other guys.
OK
It is better to Let the anger go , let it go. use it as energy boost for your recovery.
How ? by talking about it with YOURSELF and trying to get a positive feedback experience by posting up here.
DO NOT TALK ABOUT IT AT WORKPLACE OR FRIENDS!
They will think you are a PATHETIC LOSER.
YOu will lose your friends.
REFRAME your life and priorities First before thinking about getting another GF or whatever. You will end up stuck in the same problem in your next relationship if you dont get your s h i t straight first.
Dont be too needy to hook up w a GF.
tell yourself :YOU ARE #1
YOU LOVE N RESPECT YOURSELF and WILL WORK FOR YOURSELF IN FEELING GOOD.
STAY POSITIVE -positive thinking will shift you to speed recovery.
YOU WILL NOT GET BACK TOGETHER, IT WILL NOT HAPPEN CAUSE IT WILL NEVER WORK.EVER.
If you see her dont talk to her.If she calls dont pickup, she is seeking your energy and it will fvck you up.
You should focus on areas on life maintain focus. Create a better self to the cost of extreme (controversial)
because NOW is your chance to step up and be free to really be a BADASS.
Start talking to women, even if you dont have any intention of sleeping w them socialize.
like THEDERRECTEFFECT mentioned you miss the attention, the sex.
There are different ways to solve this problem if you want pvssy.
Don't try to over analyze what happened
for her IN HER MIND she did what she did because she felt like it !
plus its none of your business whether or not she is seeing someone.
Its an opportunity to fine tune yourself with life and your goals
Build a support team in areas fo your life : example is trainer for gym,etc.
IF NOT?!
She will have control of you , IN YOUR MIND.
It took me 6 months to recover from my ex wife but I want this experience now and make it a leverage to recover faster to help other guys.
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