So reading most of the posts here it really does my head in. There is all these stupid posts asking questions that just make me go “what the ****” combined with all kinds of lingo that just make things seem complicated and unnatural. And most of all overanalyzing everything!
And guys putting up with all kinds of drama from crazy girls that they should just get rid of. I get it, i’ve been through all of it myself. I used to attract a major amount of drama but now I attract very little of it because I worked on my own programming and my beliefs.
I used to overanalyze everything myself but I have improved majorly. It is one thing trying to change your beliefs and programming by brute force by going out and doing 1000’s of approaches, and unfortunately you can’t just never go anywhere and only work on your beliefs and get as far either.
I’ve been to both extremes and found working on my internal programming while also going out so you can test the new beliefs and programming your building in the real world is the ideal. Though I admit I should do that more again.
BUT there is something that has helped me improve majorly, that has got rid of a lot of insecurities and made me a much stronger, secure and confident man.
And they are subliminals by a guy called Shannon Mattheson, specifically his Alpha Male program which is 6 stages and each one builds on one another. I did the 2011 verson and am currently on Stage 2 of 5.0.
So it’s probably a good idea to mention some of the stuff I noticed doing the Alpha 2011 program. At the time I was bouncing in a club, which is a reference for some of what I am talking about.
-I anaylze things much less and it is way easier to go with the flow which is much more enjoyable and gives much better results.
-One of the big things I noticed is I got a lot less crap. Both from work mates and the customers. A few of the guys I worked with, one especially would give me crap and do stuff like slap me in the face and such and I did nothing about it but during this program I really started standing up for myself and giving them crap back and I due to the improved assertiveness and confidence I went from hating this guy to actually being friends with him now and him showing me respect. I got comfortable with the whole groups of guys giving each other crap as a bonding experience thing which I was never comfortable with that dynamic before. I actually enjoy it now.
-As for the customers I noticed them listening to me much more as in some way my authority had increased. I even found that a lot of times I was just able to be like “mate it’s time to leave” with a head tilt and they got the idea. I couldn’t do this before and it would be a much longer thing. I also had a lot of problems with attracting fights in part due to how I reacted and becoming more confident and authoritative, I dealt with things differently, become way more calm and confident and had MANY less fights. The guys I worked with commented several times how much I had changed for the positive.
-I also used to attract a massive amount of drama from girls as I mentioned. During this program I initially got much more annoyed at this and started to call girls out on this (aswell as other people on their crap) and I stopped tolerating it. There was some conflict at first due to making these changes but then it evened out and I get little drama now.
-I become a lot more confident socially, could hold my own better. I actually lost a few friends because of the changes but I made others that better supported the changes I was making.
-I definitely got noticed a lot more by girls and I dealt with any bs they tried to give me much better by not caring as much. There was several that tried to give me crap and I called them out on it. They tried to act like I was this big a-hole like they hated it, but the next time I seen them they were showing big attraction for me.
-My standards went up a lot. I refused to sleep with fat or ugly girls like I had too many times in the past and girls who caused bs and massive drama I got rid of. I’ve had several of them try to come back and contact me but I have refused to let them back into my life, in the past I would have continually had the pattern of “I let them come back” “they cause lots of drama” “I get rid of them” “they come back again” where now I was able to interrupt that and not have the drama. And instead attract girls that don’t give me that.
-I feel much more comfortable talking to girls in general and the creepiness I used to have seems to have disappeared a lot and I don’t get that weird reaction I used to of them thinking I’m creepy.
Anyway as I mentioned I’m on the latest version (Alpha 5.0) so far I noticed my assertiveness is increasing again but in a much more tactful way, that I have the increased urge to go out and do stuff like last weekend I went out by myself and had a very fun night. I actually had a girl telling me she had no underwear on and was all over me and I decided I didn’t want to sleep with her because of my increased. I also had an ex try to come back wanting to “catch up” but I tactfully replied to her that it’s not such a good idea.
This is also because of my increased standards and knowing I deserve more now. (of course I didn’t tell her that bit).
Anyway, it is a 6 month program and it is one of the best things I’ve done for my improvement in years after trying many things EFT, Sedona Method, Affirmations, Hypnosis and a lot of other stuff.
If your curious this page has more details on the program, as here I’ve just talked about my personal experiences with it. Basically it will help you disconnect from dysfunctional and negative programming and beliefs and reprogram yourself to be more confident, dominant, masculine and powerful as a man.
Alpha Male 5.0
And guys putting up with all kinds of drama from crazy girls that they should just get rid of. I get it, i’ve been through all of it myself. I used to attract a major amount of drama but now I attract very little of it because I worked on my own programming and my beliefs.
I used to overanalyze everything myself but I have improved majorly. It is one thing trying to change your beliefs and programming by brute force by going out and doing 1000’s of approaches, and unfortunately you can’t just never go anywhere and only work on your beliefs and get as far either.
I’ve been to both extremes and found working on my internal programming while also going out so you can test the new beliefs and programming your building in the real world is the ideal. Though I admit I should do that more again.
BUT there is something that has helped me improve majorly, that has got rid of a lot of insecurities and made me a much stronger, secure and confident man.
And they are subliminals by a guy called Shannon Mattheson, specifically his Alpha Male program which is 6 stages and each one builds on one another. I did the 2011 verson and am currently on Stage 2 of 5.0.
So it’s probably a good idea to mention some of the stuff I noticed doing the Alpha 2011 program. At the time I was bouncing in a club, which is a reference for some of what I am talking about.
-I anaylze things much less and it is way easier to go with the flow which is much more enjoyable and gives much better results.
-One of the big things I noticed is I got a lot less crap. Both from work mates and the customers. A few of the guys I worked with, one especially would give me crap and do stuff like slap me in the face and such and I did nothing about it but during this program I really started standing up for myself and giving them crap back and I due to the improved assertiveness and confidence I went from hating this guy to actually being friends with him now and him showing me respect. I got comfortable with the whole groups of guys giving each other crap as a bonding experience thing which I was never comfortable with that dynamic before. I actually enjoy it now.
-As for the customers I noticed them listening to me much more as in some way my authority had increased. I even found that a lot of times I was just able to be like “mate it’s time to leave” with a head tilt and they got the idea. I couldn’t do this before and it would be a much longer thing. I also had a lot of problems with attracting fights in part due to how I reacted and becoming more confident and authoritative, I dealt with things differently, become way more calm and confident and had MANY less fights. The guys I worked with commented several times how much I had changed for the positive.
-I also used to attract a massive amount of drama from girls as I mentioned. During this program I initially got much more annoyed at this and started to call girls out on this (aswell as other people on their crap) and I stopped tolerating it. There was some conflict at first due to making these changes but then it evened out and I get little drama now.
-I become a lot more confident socially, could hold my own better. I actually lost a few friends because of the changes but I made others that better supported the changes I was making.
-I definitely got noticed a lot more by girls and I dealt with any bs they tried to give me much better by not caring as much. There was several that tried to give me crap and I called them out on it. They tried to act like I was this big a-hole like they hated it, but the next time I seen them they were showing big attraction for me.
-My standards went up a lot. I refused to sleep with fat or ugly girls like I had too many times in the past and girls who caused bs and massive drama I got rid of. I’ve had several of them try to come back and contact me but I have refused to let them back into my life, in the past I would have continually had the pattern of “I let them come back” “they cause lots of drama” “I get rid of them” “they come back again” where now I was able to interrupt that and not have the drama. And instead attract girls that don’t give me that.
-I feel much more comfortable talking to girls in general and the creepiness I used to have seems to have disappeared a lot and I don’t get that weird reaction I used to of them thinking I’m creepy.
Anyway as I mentioned I’m on the latest version (Alpha 5.0) so far I noticed my assertiveness is increasing again but in a much more tactful way, that I have the increased urge to go out and do stuff like last weekend I went out by myself and had a very fun night. I actually had a girl telling me she had no underwear on and was all over me and I decided I didn’t want to sleep with her because of my increased. I also had an ex try to come back wanting to “catch up” but I tactfully replied to her that it’s not such a good idea.
This is also because of my increased standards and knowing I deserve more now. (of course I didn’t tell her that bit).
Anyway, it is a 6 month program and it is one of the best things I’ve done for my improvement in years after trying many things EFT, Sedona Method, Affirmations, Hypnosis and a lot of other stuff.
If your curious this page has more details on the program, as here I’ve just talked about my personal experiences with it. Basically it will help you disconnect from dysfunctional and negative programming and beliefs and reprogram yourself to be more confident, dominant, masculine and powerful as a man.
Alpha Male 5.0
