The idea of "nexting" women is frightening to a lot of guys because they believe they are going to lose their chances with a girl. Instead they keep persisting until they drive her away or at least keep hanging on and making themselves available on her whims. Afterall, what's to lose?
The problem is, when you persist with a woman who's giving you the brush off or showing you disrespect, you are not only playing to her whims, but you are developing a habit of swallowing your pride and putting yourself in a supplicating role with women. You might think you have nothing to lose by persisting with a girl, but this habit has a lasting and negative effect on your mentality. As long as you think this way, you will be looking at women as the prize.
However, when you get into the habit of nexting girls (with good reason), you are reinforcing a strong and positive mentality. You are taking away womankind's power to reject you and thus eliminating the fears; you are standing your ground and refusing to take any sh1t and developing the ability to move on. As a result you will build your confidence and realise that you won't be taken for granted and that YOU are the prize.
The idea is to change your perception of yourself from the selected/rejected to the selector/rejector.
Speaking from my own experience, I've nexted a number of hot women, including a lingerie model. I gave some a second chance, but they blew it, and I met someone else.
Maybe she's flakey, ignores your calls, flirts with other guys etc, but when you next her, you are affirming that she is not good enough (or just not suitable) for you or that she has blown HER chance to be with YOU. This is a positive habit that will help overcome your fears, build your confidence, open up more opportunities and reinforce your role as a man. As a bonus, it also makes you more desirable to women.
Sidenote: Don't get too trigger happy with nexting. It should only be done with good reason. Expect all women to have some faults.
The problem is, when you persist with a woman who's giving you the brush off or showing you disrespect, you are not only playing to her whims, but you are developing a habit of swallowing your pride and putting yourself in a supplicating role with women. You might think you have nothing to lose by persisting with a girl, but this habit has a lasting and negative effect on your mentality. As long as you think this way, you will be looking at women as the prize.
However, when you get into the habit of nexting girls (with good reason), you are reinforcing a strong and positive mentality. You are taking away womankind's power to reject you and thus eliminating the fears; you are standing your ground and refusing to take any sh1t and developing the ability to move on. As a result you will build your confidence and realise that you won't be taken for granted and that YOU are the prize.
The idea is to change your perception of yourself from the selected/rejected to the selector/rejector.
Speaking from my own experience, I've nexted a number of hot women, including a lingerie model. I gave some a second chance, but they blew it, and I met someone else.
Maybe she's flakey, ignores your calls, flirts with other guys etc, but when you next her, you are affirming that she is not good enough (or just not suitable) for you or that she has blown HER chance to be with YOU. This is a positive habit that will help overcome your fears, build your confidence, open up more opportunities and reinforce your role as a man. As a bonus, it also makes you more desirable to women.
Sidenote: Don't get too trigger happy with nexting. It should only be done with good reason. Expect all women to have some faults.
It's such a good reminder to see that a man really shouldn't tolerate disrespect/disloyalty and he has the power to walk away anytime she starts crapping all over the carpet.
