Hate the game..
Don Juan
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As all of us have experienced at one time or another there is an anxiety attached to texting. Worries about what to say, how long to wait to respond and a girls lack of response plagues the minds of many guys out there.
I was just in the same situation a few short months ago until I found the cure to these worries: mass texting.
Not only does mass texting reduce anxiety, effort and increase what I like to refer to as "texting comfort," but it also opens your world to a whole host of women that you may have never thought could be into you. I even use this method on numbers that have gone cold or girls I haven't talked to in weeks and it still is highly successful.
Keys to mass texting, DO NOT ASK QUESTIONS INITIALLY,
Questions insinuate that you are relying on them to answer
With statements they don't have to respond, so the next time you text them you don't look needy.
It's as simple as making a statement about what you're doing, the more benign the better.
Examples:
Always fun sitting by the pool all day and drinking beer
Always fun doing a paper in the library all day
I can't believe I just walked to work in a suit in 95 degree heat..
I've found that asking questions to open a conversation has about a 30% success rate, while statements like the one's above have an 80% success rate!
I texted one of these to 15 girls today and got 12 responses all within a half and hour of me texting them. So whether you are merely trying to maintain contact during the middle of the week so that it isn't completely random to text them over the weekend, or move towards a meetup, this method really works and makes the whole process a whole lot more fun. And by responding to a similar response over and over again you get more and more comfortable in responding. "Texting comfort" works just the same way conversation comfort does. If you have a long conversation with someone, your more in the mode to comfortably talk to girls afterwards for a short period of time because you are already conditioned to be in a more sociable mood.
Added bonus
You can also gain an idea of her interest level, if she initiates a conversation-friendly response you know she has at least some interest. And remember you don't have to respond to anything, if she's making it tough on you by being bland, unreceptive, or whatever, please by all means stop texting her and wait for another time.
Good luck out there guys and let me know what you think!
I was just in the same situation a few short months ago until I found the cure to these worries: mass texting.
Not only does mass texting reduce anxiety, effort and increase what I like to refer to as "texting comfort," but it also opens your world to a whole host of women that you may have never thought could be into you. I even use this method on numbers that have gone cold or girls I haven't talked to in weeks and it still is highly successful.
Keys to mass texting, DO NOT ASK QUESTIONS INITIALLY,
Questions insinuate that you are relying on them to answer
With statements they don't have to respond, so the next time you text them you don't look needy.
It's as simple as making a statement about what you're doing, the more benign the better.
Examples:
Always fun sitting by the pool all day and drinking beer
Always fun doing a paper in the library all day
I can't believe I just walked to work in a suit in 95 degree heat..
I've found that asking questions to open a conversation has about a 30% success rate, while statements like the one's above have an 80% success rate!
I texted one of these to 15 girls today and got 12 responses all within a half and hour of me texting them. So whether you are merely trying to maintain contact during the middle of the week so that it isn't completely random to text them over the weekend, or move towards a meetup, this method really works and makes the whole process a whole lot more fun. And by responding to a similar response over and over again you get more and more comfortable in responding. "Texting comfort" works just the same way conversation comfort does. If you have a long conversation with someone, your more in the mode to comfortably talk to girls afterwards for a short period of time because you are already conditioned to be in a more sociable mood.
Added bonus
You can also gain an idea of her interest level, if she initiates a conversation-friendly response you know she has at least some interest. And remember you don't have to respond to anything, if she's making it tough on you by being bland, unreceptive, or whatever, please by all means stop texting her and wait for another time.
Good luck out there guys and let me know what you think!