Todays topic is Kino. Touch.
Touch is essential to seducing. It is right on par with eye contact as an important part of your repitoire.
Its essential you get her used to your touch quickly. Right off the bat as soon as i establish that she's interested, im touching. First thing on a date when we greet I hug.
You see in the animal kingdom when courting to mate, the courtship is done through touching. They graze each others neck, they groom each other, they lick. We as humans are not that much different. Touching is essential in dating. You should find as many opportunities to touch her as you can.
This does not mean to be perverse. Infact the first date you should stay away from the red zone unless you feel she is really into you. Touching can send the wrong messages if used incorrectly.
The first date red zones are:
-breasts
-her butt
-her crotch
-upper thigh.
*** If you feel the chemistry is strong, and you can one night her, disregard. Go for it hard. If you want her to be more of an LTR or KNOW she won't one night you, follow the red zone rules.
You should avoid these areas until comfort is established. You'll know comfort is established because she will start to touch you as well.
A few good examples of touch usage would be:
-Always greet with a hug.
-When changing locations, grab her hand gently and lead her.
- When possible, instead of sitting across from her, sit beside her. Let thighs and shoulders touch.
-When she is walking infront of you, put your hand in the small of her back.
-Touch her shoulder when telling a key part of a story.
I also want you guys to start incorporating touch in your cold approach. For several reasons.
One it shows an abundance of confidence. "I don't know this guy, but he feels confident touching me"
When you exchange names, always reach for a handshake. When you depart, ask for a quick friendly hug. Here is a out of the box reason why:
We all know that scent is the sense most tied to memory, right? We also know that a mans strongest sense is sight and a woman's is scent. If you get close enough that she can get a good smell of you, she will remember you longer and more vividly. Touch also arrouses women. When you touch her and she is attracted to you, it turns her on. So if you are looking to get laid you should definitely touch her more often.
You should always think they are attracted to you., however when she starts touching you its a guarentee. Women do not touch what they do not like. Once she starts reciprocating and finding reasons to touch you, you know you are on the right track.
You should also pay attention to her hugs. There are different types of hugs. The one hug you want to pay attention to is the hug accompanied by pats on the back. This hug may be acceptable on your initial cold approach, however if you get that hug on a date that's s bad sign. This means she is not comfortable with you hugging her. Its a huge red flag.. you want a nice firm hug similar to a handshake.
The way you touch her is also essential for staying out of the friend zone. For instance, if we are out with a female "friend" we are generally not going to put our hands in the small of their back. Touch shows interest. So make sure if you want more than a friendship you touch.
Colas super tip: Train her by using touch as a reward system. When she does something good, or is behaving well she gets a touch. When she's not behaving well, withdraw touch. Make her earn her touches. This is another way of grooming them. Once you know she likes your touch use them like a treat for good behavior.
Touch is the way to go for sexual escalation.
Once she is isolated you start to touch her. Take baby steps. Say your home watching a movie. Put your arm around her.
You get up to go to the bathroom, gently touch her thigh as you get up.
As your arm is around her pull her close to lay on your chest.
While she is laying on your chest start gently rubbing her rib cage.
If she has a shirt on gently rub on her stomach.
Colas super tip: Treat it like a game of ping pong when trying to escalate sex. You touch her stomach, WAIT for her to subtly touch something on you. She may put her hand on your thigh. This means ADVANCE to the next move.
You keep escalating till it turns to a make out. Makeout turns to sex.
I can go on in more detail, but I want to keep the basic editions very basic. So I'll end it here.
As always if I helped one person it was worth writing and
Feedback is welcomed.
Thanks
Touch is essential to seducing. It is right on par with eye contact as an important part of your repitoire.
Its essential you get her used to your touch quickly. Right off the bat as soon as i establish that she's interested, im touching. First thing on a date when we greet I hug.
You see in the animal kingdom when courting to mate, the courtship is done through touching. They graze each others neck, they groom each other, they lick. We as humans are not that much different. Touching is essential in dating. You should find as many opportunities to touch her as you can.
This does not mean to be perverse. Infact the first date you should stay away from the red zone unless you feel she is really into you. Touching can send the wrong messages if used incorrectly.
The first date red zones are:
-breasts
-her butt
-her crotch
-upper thigh.
*** If you feel the chemistry is strong, and you can one night her, disregard. Go for it hard. If you want her to be more of an LTR or KNOW she won't one night you, follow the red zone rules.
You should avoid these areas until comfort is established. You'll know comfort is established because she will start to touch you as well.
A few good examples of touch usage would be:
-Always greet with a hug.
-When changing locations, grab her hand gently and lead her.
- When possible, instead of sitting across from her, sit beside her. Let thighs and shoulders touch.
-When she is walking infront of you, put your hand in the small of her back.
-Touch her shoulder when telling a key part of a story.
I also want you guys to start incorporating touch in your cold approach. For several reasons.
One it shows an abundance of confidence. "I don't know this guy, but he feels confident touching me"
When you exchange names, always reach for a handshake. When you depart, ask for a quick friendly hug. Here is a out of the box reason why:
We all know that scent is the sense most tied to memory, right? We also know that a mans strongest sense is sight and a woman's is scent. If you get close enough that she can get a good smell of you, she will remember you longer and more vividly. Touch also arrouses women. When you touch her and she is attracted to you, it turns her on. So if you are looking to get laid you should definitely touch her more often.
You should always think they are attracted to you., however when she starts touching you its a guarentee. Women do not touch what they do not like. Once she starts reciprocating and finding reasons to touch you, you know you are on the right track.
You should also pay attention to her hugs. There are different types of hugs. The one hug you want to pay attention to is the hug accompanied by pats on the back. This hug may be acceptable on your initial cold approach, however if you get that hug on a date that's s bad sign. This means she is not comfortable with you hugging her. Its a huge red flag.. you want a nice firm hug similar to a handshake.
The way you touch her is also essential for staying out of the friend zone. For instance, if we are out with a female "friend" we are generally not going to put our hands in the small of their back. Touch shows interest. So make sure if you want more than a friendship you touch.
Colas super tip: Train her by using touch as a reward system. When she does something good, or is behaving well she gets a touch. When she's not behaving well, withdraw touch. Make her earn her touches. This is another way of grooming them. Once you know she likes your touch use them like a treat for good behavior.
Touch is the way to go for sexual escalation.
Once she is isolated you start to touch her. Take baby steps. Say your home watching a movie. Put your arm around her.
You get up to go to the bathroom, gently touch her thigh as you get up.
As your arm is around her pull her close to lay on your chest.
While she is laying on your chest start gently rubbing her rib cage.
If she has a shirt on gently rub on her stomach.
Colas super tip: Treat it like a game of ping pong when trying to escalate sex. You touch her stomach, WAIT for her to subtly touch something on you. She may put her hand on your thigh. This means ADVANCE to the next move.
You keep escalating till it turns to a make out. Makeout turns to sex.
I can go on in more detail, but I want to keep the basic editions very basic. So I'll end it here.
As always if I helped one person it was worth writing and
Feedback is welcomed.
Thanks
