I've read about these neg hits of yours and it got me thinking about an ability I already have. I'm the king of back handed complements. I can you how great you look but you also look like crack hoe. If my friend broke up with his girlfriend I could say something like "You can do way better then that ugly b1tch. Besides you two would have horrible looking kids." That's an extreme example but would something not as harsh work well as a neg hit?