The Awakening.

[A-Unit]

I'm a bit of a skeptic. I believe things operate quite simply and effectively, and for some reason, whatever that reason may be, we've sought to complicate our lives. The more I search, the more validation I get confirming this "belief."


For instance, I'm an avid golf of 13 years, and had I focused more during my high school and college years, i might have made it to the minor league competitive levels. In golf, 995 of current instruction is regurgitated bullshyt. For anybody who has golfed, you know this to be true. You never hear anything new, yet you know it's NOT that hard to hit the little white ball which rests on the ground and to do so while everybody and everything is perfectly silent. Baseball players manage to hit with more control while it's moving over 80 mph in a screaming stadium.


On that same vein...


The same exists in bodybuilding. A simpler solution ALWAYS exists, but to the mind, a COMPLEX solution gives more comfort because IT must work better than a simple one, right?


-A complex investment plan must be better because it's well thought out.
-A complex workout plan must workout because it's well laid out.
-Complex dating techniques MUST work better than simple ones.


Sure the logical brain wants to believe that, but it's not true. It's not what works. SIMPLE always works. Why?


-You can correct quicker.
-You're not so arrogant as to believe you're right when you're really wrong.
-You take action quicker since you're not PLANNING so much, i.e. you get ahead faster.
-You don't get complex.
-People can focus and listen better when you're simple and straight to the point.
-Leaves room for adjustment.


With that in mind...


None of this is hard. None of this is necessary. I've dated enough women, and met enough women, to know that we're the creatures to be feared. I'll go out and be brass and arrogant as to say, dating websites aren't needed. Why are we to be feared?


-we're cold and calculating.
-we can remove emotion to do what we must even though we feel we can't or don't feel good doing it.
-we have mental strength and toughness.
-we have physical strength and toughness
-we have biology on our sides.
-we have the logisitics and faculties to survive.


You see, young and old alike, guys see these women, all decked out, in skirts, and hormones go racing. They want to know how to lay her. How to get her. Well, the minute you've asked that you've failed. Women don't go for the guy that seeks to chase them. Romance them yes, chase them no. There's a difference.


Think of it guys, you have youth on your side, you can get anything you want younger than your parents...and the one thing you desire most is an emotional, flighty, unstable woman? I'm not bitter, I'm being real here. Even as women age, they're still emotional.


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In my opinion, the glory of the romance has been lost. I believe in pure, good, true love, but in exhange for the femininity that makes love and women worth it. A girl who's decked out like a true blue slut, showing way too much skin and bearing way too many tattoos looks more like a poster child for MTV or for society's goals, than a person who is her own.


If women are so independent, why are their styles, attitudes, and choices predetermined by society and others in power to choose FOR THEM? How many girls are truly unique and DO NOT dress alike?


From a realistic perspective, I see women as a perpetual test of manhood. From the minute they shake their azz, they seek to see if they can seduce and destroy you. Once they have you, they test you to see if you're worth being with, or if there is someone stronger they should be with. Even if she's fawking you, it does not mean she will not test you. She will do it more so.


The sake of improvement put forth here and on any website should be done for your own sake, not theirs, not to get women. Women are a NATURAL by product of men. Without each other we would not exist. This is not like saying...


"i want the Porsche Cabrerra which is $484,000, they're limited edition and so few exist."


Women are not limited anything. They're a natural resource. And getting and keeping one and seducing one is nothing about her, it's all about you. About who you are. The more man you are to yourself, to your life, to your goals, the MORE she will seek to romance, seduce and pleasure you.


Case study:


I went to visit a girl @ her college during her spring party weekend. I couldn't get on campus so my buddy and I rented hotel rooms nearby, hooked up the XBOX, played some music, and drank. When the girls arrived, they were so bombed, they ended up passing out and getting sick. Sure, I was a litle upset, but I also chose to drive the distance and see her, risking this. What did I do?

Took care of her. When we woke up we had sex. Later on, she "promised" as a result of her actions that she would "make it up to me by fvcking my brains out later at my place" and drive the 1.5 to do so. Did she? Absolutely.

Did I use lines, NLP, ****y and funny, or anything else? No. I was completely immersed in the moment. I never second guessed myself. Never do.


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My belief is simple...

-Women have always loved men, its society and the media that want to make it complex for profits and for stories.
-The feminist brainwashing of independence benefits nobody, including women. When women were supposedly oppressed, the men were being shipped off overseas by the thousands and working slave labor type jobs, women gained access to work then, and now can do anything they want. Feminism seeks to put a rift between the sexes and destroy culture, that worked so long ago.
-Strategy and tactics are counteractive to the natural you that wins out everytime.
-Women are nuts and are supposed to be, a man becomes a man, and a better man by making tough choices, dealing with awkward situations, and handling a wild woman. To think a woman is different is to be foolish and seek defeat and a life of loneliness.


Lastly...Youth is truly wasted on the young. If I were 10 years younger...I'd have completely forgot about chasing pvssy, even in college. Here's why...


-As a 'smart' man you have the choice to learn and do things now that elders regret not doing. If I were in HS college, I'd have continued following my dreams ignoring all else. If a woman found value in me, great. The common misperception is to be all into 'getting pvssy.' For most guys, this is where their lives went astray. Not that dating and fvcking shouldn't happen, but I would not persue it like my dreams and goals.


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I started out this post talking about 'simple solutions' and conventional wisdom. The trend and majority of society is all about women, and dating, learning pickups, but none of it matters. Most times when you end up with a girl, or a relationship, nothing tactical was ever used. Normally, it occurs because:

-you were taking care of yourself and were dressed well.
-you were confident in yourself because you were content and happy with your life and happy with who you are without any desire to be somebody else
-that you had no fear of loss, because the woman before presented nothing of value to BE LOST.


See...my last comments to be...a true man, the 'ideal' man, the one a woman wants to bang all the time everyday is the epitome of the 'characteristics' listed and imitated. NLP calls this modeling. Many guys try to model a successful guy, like trying to wear a fake t-shirt suit to a wedding. Instead, realize it's all natural. In a follow-up post, i'll state why it hasn't been.




A-Unit

 

[A-Unit]

Why It Hasn't Been The Way It Was.

Talking to guys who are older, you'll realize our generation is not quite what it used to be. Men aren't quite men, and there's a lot of reasons for that, not just 1, and no one's to entirely BLAME, until you swallow the pill and open your eyes. THEN, you're to blame because you KNOW, and didn't do anything.


Lack of Responsibility


With college being the predominant life path after 18, many guys DEFER growing up. From 18 to 22, unless you foot the bill for college or maintain a job during college, or some position of leadership, you have 1 big Jimmy Buffet party trip through life with the assumption "it's ok, I'll grow up some time soon."


Our parents had Responsiblility thrust upon them at a young age. Our fathers typically went in the military at 18, or had kids younger. Moreover, they were born with many more siblings, so parents couldn't provide what they could. Lastly, they were kicked from the house and education was usually paid for by children, not the parents, so immediately, you had to grow up and made responsible real choices.


The blame here is on the change in society and nobody seeing it. Parents working 2 jobs and using Technology as the babysitter. Kids deferring any responsibility until completely impossible. They engage in the game of sex and dating, which require mature players, but have not even had a checking account, car payment, or cleaned their own room, or lived on their own. They're too immature to buy condoms, but will engage in oral, anal, or vaginal sex.


The first step to becoming a man and bucking the trend is TAKE RESPONSIBILITY. TAKE OBLIGATION. TAKE CHARGE.

Read: Leadership Lesson from West Point. See what these guys go through at 18 and what sets them apart.


Society


What you see as society is conglomerate of purported ideas, values, and beliefs, of groups trying to get along in a fake way. Everybody's afraid, they're all afraid of each other, yet nobody admits it. They put in laws, and assumptions and all the BS to label, objectify and control people.


Society is the belief in a common ideal, that if we progress society, we progress a better life for all, while sacrificing only a few. Hardly. Society as you see it is NOT your values. Nobody as you what you believe, and society doesn't care what you believe. Its at best a fashion trend that changes, and if you bother to follow it you'll end up Schizo @ a lock down clinic.


Society has it that men are bad. That men oppressed women, because we had power to do so. Pure BS again. Its confused people so badly nobody knows what to do, and most times, people judge your actions and choices according to some "average" yardstick and by diverting from it you're labeled.


The truth is...we were put here fine on this planet. People lived fine. Sure, some people were oppressed, but we've done a good job ridding the world of what can be done. I'd hardly say our progress isn't beneficial. Yet, the progress has been a digression.


Society tells women what's ok and not ok. Guys fawn over women they see everywhere without considering what values in a woman they look for.


The problem here in lies in the person who doesn't differentiate and turn away from it, and observe it like a system of control more than anything.


Feminism


Sure, give women equal rights. They're never equal. If we were meant to be equals, however we got here, through evoluation or God, there'd be 1 sex, not 2.


Yet it's gone so far as saying "we're a separate sex, we don't need you, you need us." It's made men wussies by saying one thing and doing another thing. This problem is made further worse by guys who can't walk from a woman once she gets unruly. On education and experience will enlighten you to her wiles and problems.


Getting a job and being a housewife/mother are NOT mutually exclusive. It's expected a woman should exert some talents and production, BUT, it is not an ALL or one thing. But in life, we can but focus on very few things. Would tiger be so good if he also tried tennis during college??


Lack of Male Leadership and Role Models


With corporate corrution on the rise, priests molesting hoards of boys, politicians and leaders lying, what do young boys do for role models??


Athletes get paid vast sums of money, sleep with countless women, and buck the system, but in what way are these role models? With no one stepping forward to be exemplary, young boys and teens have nothing to go on. With broken homes on the rise, the father is gone, the mother is tired and hurt, and nobody exists to show a role model. See...only a male figure can "bring" a boy into manhood. It doesn't happen like it does for women. A transition must occur. A rite of passage.


Part of the issue most guys have few if any men to see as "village elders." And, the new ideal is to just "play women." View them as rags. Engage in promiscuous sex which rips apart emotions, endangers your financial future and health, and diverts your time from meaningful activities, like sports, health, your life, your family, and countless activities which lead to fulfillment.


See: Iron John. Learn how men of yesteryears had fathers and role models, and town elders, and coaches who were reputable, trusting, and so forth that gave men a rite of passage into adulthood.


Self-sufficiency is a trait of a man. He learns to be on his. Trust himself. Do we see any incidents of that on this site, or any site, or is it just a bunch of young boys seeking validation through countless escapades with women???


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I'm not deflecting blame here. But now you can see and learn. We all must be responsible for our own lives. For our own choices.



The great investor George Soros wrote a book titled "The Alchemy of Finance." IN it, he talks about 'why' the belief in equilibrium does not exist. Equilibrium in investments being the belief that there's a value which a stock is definately worth and it will get to some day.


However, since the system changes, and the "mark" or target constantly moves, no base price will ever be reach. The players in the investing game change, they're emotional. Information changes. Time progresses. The information that would have made a stock worth one price is now old.


The same is true of dating and women and life. It's not a fixed system where learning CF or anything else is your guard. There's other factors. You aging for one thing. As you get older, women naturally seek you out. You get mature. You get over it. Talking to younger, legal girls is easy, b/c it's like talking to your sister or a cousin. They're young, immature, and impressed by you, and always will be.


If anything, I'm a realist about my interactions with women. I firmly believe I have things to do in life, and if a woman seeks anything with me, don't interrupt my intentions. Congratulate, don't hate. I believe all women are meant to test men, in every facet, just as a strong, violent ocean will test a captain. Those who don't see it for what it is, get lost at sea. They don't believe it can be violent. It's the OCEAN, it's pretty, it gives life. IT MUST BE GOOD. Yet, another ship (guy) goes down because he got too idealistic with women, too caught up, and lost at sea in a sea of dreams. Don't ignore the red flags.


A-Unit

 

[tmpgstx]

A very good post A-unit! Though i think George Soros is a little too caught up in money, so much to the point that it doesn't give the man any loyalty or patriotism to a country that allowed him to excel as much as he has.

Aaah yeah, the days when men were men! Out hopping trains looking for work, or walking several miles a day to get food and water for the family. Fighting world wars etc.

Now-a-days were more worried about whether we have smoking in resteraunts then anything of real long-term importance. It's alot of political and corperation corruption as you mentioned. This has been going on for a long time, but now the stakes are higher as more money is to be made and technology increases. One company can destroy another company in a matter of days, or over a period of time like Walmart has done and is doing to so many companies big and small. And for what? Because they get all Chinese made products produced in sweat shops for next to nothing so these products can be offered for much less? Not too mention with a large part of the profit going back to China and avoiding tax laws that other US companies have to adhere to? No loyalty .. all about money and greed.

In the dating realm of things, it's shaped by a society of superficiality. It's less about values and more about promiscuity. It's less about maturity and more about selfishiness.