The art of timing (an underrated topic)

[rakishness]

Scenario:
You go to club or bar with your friends. It's a friday night....everyone is having a great time. One of your friends introduces you to a HB. As soon as you meet her you KNOW immediately that she is not only HORNY but she wants YOU. She is touching you,giving you great EC etc. Do you think this girl cares about your "inner thoughts about yourself" or "your body language". OFCOURSE NOT!!!!! She is HORNY...she wants your d**ck.
You were at the RIGHT PLACE at the RIGHT TIME. PERIOD.

Now what if you I met this same girl somewhere else maybe in a college setting. BUT....30 minutes before she met you she found out her dog died...or she bombed a test(or something). Do you think this same girl would be into you? MOST LIKELY NOT. You see. Same girl.....Two DIFFERENT TIMES.....Two DIFFERENT OUTCOMES.

It's all about timing. Timing is everything.

 

[rakishness]

This post may seem obvious....but is is amazing to me how many people on this board are dellusional to how much luck, circumstance and timing play into their success. If you guys still wanna believe that "you inner thoughts" "kino" and "****y and funny" actually work...then fine by me. Whatever floats your boat.

 

[MisterNigma]

Tic Tac, Tic Tac, Tic Tac

This post may seem obvious....but is is amazing to me how many people on this board are dellusional to how much luck, circumstance and timing play into their success. If you guys still wanna believe that "you inner thoughts" "kino" and "****y and funny" actually work...then fine by me. Whatever floats your boat.

Without a question timing plays a huge role. Timing isn't everything though. As far as luck, I don't believe in luck. Coincidence, and statistical anomalies, yes, but luck, no.

If you guys still wanna believe that "you inner thoughts" "kino" and "****y and funny" actually work...then fine by me. Whatever floats your boat.

These things are important too. Next time you're out, don't use any kino, don't use C+F, and see how far you get. If you get anywhere, I'm impressed.

Basically, timing is important, but it isn't everything. In your first post you mentioned "BUT....30 minutes before she met you she found out her dog died" you can user that to your advantage, she is emotionally vulnerable . . .



-E.Nigma

 

[~attrACTION~]

So, basically what you're saying is that we have no control over what happens to us in life?

Tell me, how often do you score with this sort of attitude on life? How exactly can you improve if so much is up to luck or coincidence?

Perhaps it is not THAT negative, but it feels that way. I know timing is important, but thinking about this sort of thing seems counterproductive.

 

[rakishness]

Hold ON guys. I am not negative. This post is a 100 percent positive. I am offering you guys a new way of thinking. A more positive way of thinking. The reason why "bad boys", black guys, and players sarge so much and succeed so much is because they don't care about REJECTION. Why U ask? Because they know that with enough practice and
perseverance, you can work any kind of chick if you happen to find her at the right place at the right time and if
she's in the right frame of mind.

 

[~attrACTION~]

^ I see. I apologize if I was quick to judge. Although I still do not agree much, I think you have a different perspective that maybe I can't grasp yet.

 

[rakishness]

I hope everyone reads my posts on confidence and timing....and starts to rethink the game. Hopefully if you read my posts closely....things will start to make sense. I am not some "know it all" who thinks his ideas are far superior to anybody elses. This is just my perspective on the game.

 

[BlackJackal]

I get what Rake is saying completely. Timing plays a role in all aspects of life. You can have all the skills in music, pua whatever. If you're not at the right place at the right time, then your skills are useless.

 

[Rastaman]

Why are you mentioning race in your "not so intellectually inclined post"? Race got nothing to do with pickup skills. Timing is only significant if it helps you prepare a suitable game plan, if not it will accelerate your doom.

 

[LA_Chico]

yea bro, dont be racist man

 

[rrrrr]

No, this was the guy that was saying confidence does not matter... now he is saying the only reason blacks, players, and PUAs and such get the ladies is because they go out and hit on women, and get the random success when a girl is down on her luck. Why do you even post on here? According to you, all you need to do is go hit on women all day and you'll meet someone.

 

[rakishness]

I am black. I'm not a racist

 

[rakishness]

"now he is saying the only reason blacks, players, and PUAs and such get the ladies is because they go out and hit on women, and get the random success when a girl is down on her luck." I never said this....LOL. And obviously if you persevere you will eventually succeed.

 

[rakishness]

I love how....all these idiots can do is call me racist and dumb instead of "intellectually" (LOL) disputing my perspective. Thats why I can't take you guys seriously. Notice how most of my posts have included examples. And all you guys can do is call me names. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[Cod3r]

I'm still confused why everyone thinks black guys get girls more than any other race ??

I know PLENTY of black guys that have nothing and are as confused as anyone else out there... who came up with this crap ??


-Cod3r

 

[rakishness]

Honestly, I should have never said black guys(I'm black). Because race is a touchy subject. Black, white, red, yellow....the bold man eventually prevails. Did you guys notice that I put bad boys and players as examples as well? A bad boy can be a man of ANY race. Thats not the POINT of this thread at all. This thread is about TIMING.

 

[Freddy1]

Going back to the topic in hand. I do believe timing plays an important role but its NOT the ONLY aspect of the game.

Yes body language does play a role. Ive personally experience that more women notice me more. Yes your attitude around women (eg ****y and Funny) does play a role in her finding you attractive. This is from personal experience and the experience of others.

 

[ValleyDJing]

I'm still confused why everyone thinks black guys get girls more than any other race ??

I know PLENTY of black guys that have nothing and are as confused as anyone else out there... who came up with this crap ??


-Cod3r

yeah man...its that hip hop image. People think all black people are like 50 cent and Ice Cube. lol! I have some black friends that listen to coldplay and s.hit! haha!