Alright, Jayer beat me to kicking this sh!t off properly, good job
Preface:
Seducers are people who understand the tremendous power contained in (such) moments of surrender. They analyze what happens when people are in love...
This quote really sticks out to me. Seduction first and foremost is about observation and experience, an art and a science at the same time. Like Michael Jordan in high school, sometimes it is okay to sit on the proverbial bench and appreciate how things work and how you can be more efficient and creative. That does not mean that you should read the whole site or try and learn everything physically possible before going into the field, but rather that you should not be expecting results and should be more attentive then ever in the beginning.
Therefore one thing that the seducer should understand is people in relation to love: how they look when they are in love, compared to lust and also liking. Also, what mistakes people make when they are deep in love (one-itis, insecurity, etc and how we can capitalize off it) what you can get away with at what stages and when to reel back because you are pushing too hard
A seducer does not turn the power off and on - every social and personal interaction is seen as a potential seduction. There is never a moment to waste
A seducer is the prototypical hustler, always looking for a chance to capitalize and better himself. There is a guy @ my job who never turns it off. He always is chatting someone up, whether it is the waiting staff at the restaurant or the people who are at the bar, from entertaining the hot lesbian couple to buying shots for the vacationing 50 year old overweight ladies. You have to stay ready 24/7 and treat everyone equally. As a result you get social proof, looking like the life of the party and are more likely tobe in a good mood with your array of friends and invaluable ability to get friends in a heartbeat.
Seducers are never self absorbed. Their gaze is directed out-wards not inward. When they meet someone, their first move is to get inside that person's skin, to see the world through their eyes.
KEY POINT RIGHT HERE
You, as a person, do not factor into the equation. The only thing that matters is how you read your target, and how effectively you act on it. Seduction is fluidity, manipulating your appearance to help manipulate the target, highlighting what the target desires and hiding what is detrimental. It relates to another thing said in the book, that seducers "can be anyone and can assume many roles"
And also in repsonse to "Seducer are completly ammoral in their approach to life." I have to quote Nietzsche who was no doubt an influence (he is in the page notes on both sides of the page where that amoral quote is)
Friedrich Nietzsche said:
My demand upon the philosopher is known, that he take his stand beyond good and evil and leave the illusion of moral judgment beneath himself. This demand follows from an insight which I was the first to formulate: that there are altogether no moral facts.
and finally, to sum it up. Something that really got me pumped:
...resistance to us is a way of saying, please seduce me
