While I agree that you should talk to many different girls, the problem with this forum is you got a lot of guys that can't even get one girl, never mind build a team. If a guy can build his confidence and get past that initial hurdle, it becomes easier to get a 2nd, 3rd etc. It's all a matter of being in the right place at the right time and simply being visible enough. To convince guys of this is the hard part - b/c of the internet & media many are all but convinced you HAVE to be of a certain look, drive a fancy car, have a certain income, as a prerequisite to get a f*ckin chick. It's the silliest thing i've ever heard when real life obviously shows this isn't the case. You go out and what do you see? Regular guys with hot chicks all the time. When you point this out you get people kicking and screaming like children.