Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
I recently read a post on a dating forum about living without sex. This can be read at http://www.bbc.co.uk/cgi-perl/h2/h2...1.thdo.bbc.co.uk>&board=health.dating&sort=Te
The idea is that instead of spending your life ruled by your labido, simply do not bother having sex. You will have MUCH more time to achieve something constructive with your life, rather than simply sucuming to sexual desires.
As DJ's, I feel that our ULTIMATE purpose is to achieve something worthwhile in our lifetime, leave our mark in this world so to speak. How then, can one do this when our sexual desires are so strong? What is more important.....life goals and ambitions, purpose etc....or getting girls?
Personally, I am really enjoying doing pickups and so on. It's fun, and it makes life pleasurable and fun. I feel that one needs a balance between life purpose and getting girls though. I am not sure I'd want to live without sex, although I can definitely understand the benifits of a celebate lifestyle.
Another thing I now realise is that if you can get girls, it frees up your mental energy so that you CAN focus on your life goals. David DeAngelo discussed this concept in his latest newsletter and I totally agree.
So my final opinion.....life goals/purpose/your own life comes before getting girls. BUT that does not mean you have to live without girls and sex. Simply get good at getting girls, and then because you will not have to worry about how to attract women any more, you can then focus on life goals and still have girls.
The idea is that instead of spending your life ruled by your labido, simply do not bother having sex. You will have MUCH more time to achieve something constructive with your life, rather than simply sucuming to sexual desires.
As DJ's, I feel that our ULTIMATE purpose is to achieve something worthwhile in our lifetime, leave our mark in this world so to speak. How then, can one do this when our sexual desires are so strong? What is more important.....life goals and ambitions, purpose etc....or getting girls?
Personally, I am really enjoying doing pickups and so on. It's fun, and it makes life pleasurable and fun. I feel that one needs a balance between life purpose and getting girls though. I am not sure I'd want to live without sex, although I can definitely understand the benifits of a celebate lifestyle.
Another thing I now realise is that if you can get girls, it frees up your mental energy so that you CAN focus on your life goals. David DeAngelo discussed this concept in his latest newsletter and I totally agree.
So my final opinion.....life goals/purpose/your own life comes before getting girls. BUT that does not mean you have to live without girls and sex. Simply get good at getting girls, and then because you will not have to worry about how to attract women any more, you can then focus on life goals and still have girls.