SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
I was having lunch the other day with a good friend and what he told me made me want to puke!!! This poor bastard works his butt off all the time and has two jobs. He used to live with a room mate and was able to save his money. Like a fool, he moved in with his girlfriend.
He said this to me," I wish I could make more money so I could take care of her. I am tired of working all of the time." Bear in mind, he pays most of the bills and bought her a car too. HE also is talking about he and his girl trying to get 2 kids from his girl's daughter. He is 49 years old and talking about raising girlfriend's grand kids with her. What a stupid a$$ idea because he cannot even get his $hit squared away.
My friend could do so much better even though she is 10 years younger than him, but his esteem is so shot, he does not see it and allows this woman to take from him.
This dude is the typical guy that never calls or wants to hang out when things are good with her. But when things are bad, you have to hear about it.
For the younger posters: Do not be this guy!!! I explained to my friend that he should be doing things for himself and to quit doing for her. Remember guys. YOU are responsible for your own happiness!!! You come first and if you do decide to give, make sure you are getting as good as you are giving!
He said this to me," I wish I could make more money so I could take care of her. I am tired of working all of the time." Bear in mind, he pays most of the bills and bought her a car too. HE also is talking about he and his girl trying to get 2 kids from his girl's daughter. He is 49 years old and talking about raising girlfriend's grand kids with her. What a stupid a$$ idea because he cannot even get his $hit squared away.
My friend could do so much better even though she is 10 years younger than him, but his esteem is so shot, he does not see it and allows this woman to take from him.
This dude is the typical guy that never calls or wants to hang out when things are good with her. But when things are bad, you have to hear about it.
For the younger posters: Do not be this guy!!! I explained to my friend that he should be doing things for himself and to quit doing for her. Remember guys. YOU are responsible for your own happiness!!! You come first and if you do decide to give, make sure you are getting as good as you are giving!