BadsnakeUK
Don Juan
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- Apr 25, 2008
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Hi all. Just got back from a date with a HB8 I met in a club on Sat. I'll save you the boredom of an in-depth, transcribed FR and get to the important bit.
What was unique wasn't that I said or did anything in particular, but that I've finally started to integrate this stuff into my personality rather than just acting like it. Normally a date with a HB8 or above would bring out every pvssyish AFC trait I ever had, which in the old days I used to indulge, then learned to suppress since getting into this stuff.
Tonight though, even the thought of seeing a woman brought out my alpha-male, real man side, completely effortlessly. All of what I've learned came naturally because of the understandings of the dynamics of it all. I've finally lost the PC bullsh1t about being a Nice Guy and was on fire as a result. Needless to say she was all over me!
So the point of this is really advice to keep going with this stuff, and don't waste time with learning canned routines, scripted DHV stories and all that cr@p. Get to learn, understand and see in everyday life the real dynamics underlying male-female interactions, then you will automatically say and do the right thing.
I'd be interested to hear from others who have finally killed that nagging AFC voice and have become something approaching a natural.
What was unique wasn't that I said or did anything in particular, but that I've finally started to integrate this stuff into my personality rather than just acting like it. Normally a date with a HB8 or above would bring out every pvssyish AFC trait I ever had, which in the old days I used to indulge, then learned to suppress since getting into this stuff.
Tonight though, even the thought of seeing a woman brought out my alpha-male, real man side, completely effortlessly. All of what I've learned came naturally because of the understandings of the dynamics of it all. I've finally lost the PC bullsh1t about being a Nice Guy and was on fire as a result. Needless to say she was all over me!
So the point of this is really advice to keep going with this stuff, and don't waste time with learning canned routines, scripted DHV stories and all that cr@p. Get to learn, understand and see in everyday life the real dynamics underlying male-female interactions, then you will automatically say and do the right thing.
I'd be interested to hear from others who have finally killed that nagging AFC voice and have become something approaching a natural.