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The 3.5 year 'War of Commit'

hardboiled85

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Yet here you are writing a post moaning about how she is with her new "Tinder" boyfriend?
Also not exclusive, as you just indicated, she was seeing other people.
Well yeah she gave me 100% exclusivity of her body and soul for 945 days of her twenties, until I hit harder times, then I told her I was leaving, as a last test of her nice girl legitimacy, so she tried and failed to branch swing revealing and confirming my suspicions all along lol, her loss i guess, but she gained alpha widowship.
 

TitusRamsies

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Well yeah she gave me 100% exclusivity of her body and soul for 945 days of her twenties, until I hit harder times, then I told her I was leaving, as a last test of her nice girl legitimacy, so she tried and failed to branch swing revealing and confirming my suspicions all along lol, her loss i guess, but she gained alpha widowship.
Dude stop fooling yourself:
1) She was a plate, lived an hr away from you, you were noncommital, and she lied about being a virgin; what makes you think she was even 40% exclusive with you. There were probably days where your **** was touching the semen of guys she smashed on the same day,srs.
2) You in no way "alpha widowed" her, you guys were not in a committed relationship to begin with. If you were alpha she would have flown to another country to be with you per your invite. Being alpha is being able to lead yourself and those you care about, regardless of circumstances. You live with your parents and are jobless, you think you are close to her best option, hence why she left and tries to use you for validation. She may have seen you as alpha at one point but by the time she "started" talking to other dudes you had lost that title bro. She was not alpha-widowed but instead moved on from a beta failure. You have to look at it from a female perspective.
3)You developed one-itis for a plate, why do you even care about her.



Get over her, focus on yourself and never look back .
 

hardboiled85

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Dude stop fooling yourself:
1) She was a plate, lived an hr away from you, you were noncommital, and she lied about being a virgin; what makes you think she was even 40% exclusive with you. There were probably days where your **** was touching the semen of guys she smashed on the same day,srs.
2) You in no way "alpha widowed" her, you guys were not in a committed relationship to begin with. If you were alpha she would have flown to another country to be with you per your invite. Being alpha is being able to lead yourself and those you care about, regardless of circumstances. You live with your parents and are jobless, you think you are close to her best option, hence why she left and tries to use you for validation. She may have seen you as alpha at one point but by the time she "started" talking to other dudes you had lost that title bro. She was not alpha-widowed but instead moved on from a beta failure. You have to look at it from a female perspective.
3)You developed one-itis for a plate, why do you even care about her.



Get over her, focus on yourself and never look back .
"Being alpha is being able to lead yourself and those you care about, regardless of circumstances."
I think you might have a skewed perspective on what an alpha / alpha widow is. Thanks for this opinion however.

Alpha enough to push pull for 3 years, 110% submission, my sexual needs were her main concern + anal + you're wrong.

"You live with your parents and are jobless,"- well naturally dude, in a once in a 200 year pandemic that sends the world into depression and recession ... haha

"AHEM - An alpha is a rich man with a boat and Bentley."
"nooooo you can't care about women you know, if you do you are beta chump see"
 
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If I hear her affirming her virginity that's cause to walk, truth or falsehoods aside
 

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Op, so this girl became hooked. You stayed in the relationship for multiple years. She didn't get the commitment she wanted from you and she left. End of story. Move on and find a job. All of that other stuff doesn't matter.
 

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hardboiled85

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No I left, but yes I didn't commit but kept her as a plate until circumstance came along.
 
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