The 100 Eye F*ck Challenge

[G_Govan]

Got on the train a bit further down from this couple and they happened to sit facing backwards, and facing me. Go about my business as usual, checking suave, emails and taking my Kindle out to revise the 48 Laws. then I happen to look up again and this blondie is STILL looking straight at me, right with her bloke there.

I haven't come up with a reason yet, maybe someone can chime in.

I've encountered women on a number of occasions who will make eye contact with me while they're with their (presumed) boyfriends, literally staring, but these same women will be quick to either avoid eye contact or look away quickly when by themselves.

Maybe it's some kind of insurance against a future instance of cheating. They'd blame you for knowing they had boyfriends and pursuing them anyway. "Remember that guy that looked at me while I was with you? It's his fault!"

I don't know...

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Not much to report lately. Let's say chicks 12-25 have been over the course of the last week. Have found myself not really bothering to actually check women out (until this morning when again I was standing at the station and all of a sudden, a veritable torrent of fine beauties just appear out of nowhere; all different - a couple in gym gear, a milf, a nice looking black girl who did the usual going-to-look-but-not-at-the-last-second, couple of nice business types). Finding myself being drawn to Italiano-looking brunettes lately.

Got on my train as is my way and got in to a bit of reading. When I got to the stop, I got up and turned back down the carriage; a blondie (7ish) opposite I had a little check of, but couldn't catch her eye. Then as I look up, I look one way, there an (8) brunette looking straight at me, then I look the other way, and there's another doing exactly the same!

Conclusion:
-I have always had a bit of an issue with eye contact, with men and women. Have always thought it was a very mild Asperger's-y type thing, of which I do have other mild tendencies (such as verbosity, as some may have noticed), though not really debilitatingly so. But am really focussing on this lately in all interactions and it is making things easier.
-Women are actually checking me out more. I am carrying myself much better and though I am not in the kind of shape as the likes of Espi or Guru (yet!), I am starting to fill out again. Legs, lats and delts definitely expanding thanks to a combination of fartlek, pull-ups and Brandon Carter's work. Gym next week.
-A persistent air of indifference/amusement definitely helps.
-Need to stop getting so smashed when I go out at night because I might actually get somewhere when I and these women are more relaxed and in leisure mode, opposed to going to work mode.

 

[om1xr]

TheMoneyKing the secret is in

-The way you carry yourself (confidence and being comfortable in your own skin)
-Looks and type of body
-Style. Clothes say a lot about who you are.
-Embracing your sexuality (sexual manly body language); this is really the biggest key. Try to watch some Marilyn Monroe early interviews and you will see what I'm talking about. Marylin wasn't a really beautiful girl but she was a sexual bomb, the way she talks, walks, smiles, express herself..etc.

Now think how a man can be sexual and you will get to a next level sh¡t. Think of Sean Connery or Clint Eastwood

A few days ago I went out for a walk and I noticed something really interesting, when I see a hot girl walking and getting close I don't hold eye contact but I look through her or above her and when she gets closer (like a meter or 1.5) I look at her and I catch her eye ****ing me then when I catch her looking she looks away immediately but mostly look down and that tells you a lot. And then I just smile and get amused and see how girls show interest in a very subtle way. It happened with a lot of hot and beautiful girls (between 18-26. I'm 24).

So working out is going to help but getting more comfortable in your own skin and loving yourself is going to make making eye contact become natural.

I really like the fact that you are developing your day game when most guys are staring at their screens with all this online stuff. I'm not saying that online dating isn't good but day game and social circle game where the most amazing girls are but again being outcome independent and being at peace with whatever happen during the interactions and dating and hold frame and going after what you want without apologizing is the essence of this so called game.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Really appreciate the feedback from everyone.

TheMoneyKing the secret is in

-The way you carry yourself (confidence and being comfortable in your own skin)
-Looks and type of body
-Style. Clothes say a lot about who you are.
-Embracing your sexuality (sexual manly body language); this is really the biggest key. Try to watch some Marilyn Monroe early interviews and you will see what I'm talking about. Marylin wasn't a really beautiful girl but she was a sexual bomb, the way she talks, walks, smiles, express herself..etc.

Yeah, I've never really had a lot of problems attracting women (keeping them past a year is more the issue for me! But not bothered about a relationship right now anyway). Suppose I'm just shifting back in to the mind of my 20yr old self. Between the ages of 19 and 23, I probably got with about 50 odd-women. Then decided that LTRs were the way to go, largely to my own detriment - turned in to SUCH a nice guy! What an idiot.

Just re-learning what used to come quite naturally. I virtually said nothing as an 18yr old and had women falling over each other to get near me. That's what I am aiming for again.

Now think how a man can be sexual and you will get to a next level sh¡t. Think of Sean Connery or Clint Eastwood

Weirdly I have actually been watching a few old Bond films lately and as I say, Connery's manner is very similar to how I was 10 years ago; just cool calm and collected. Become a bit hyperactive latterly.

A few days ago I went out for a walk and I noticed something really interesting, when I see a hot girl walking and getting close I don't hold eye contact but I look through her or above her and when she gets closer (like a meter or 1.5) I look at her and I catch her eye ****ing me then when I catch her looking she looks away immediately but mostly look down and that tells you a lot. And then I just smile and get amused and see how girls show interest in a very subtle way. It happened with a lot of hot and beautiful girls (between 18-26. I'm 24).

Too right. When we really get in to the optimum mindset - somewhere between very confident and not giving a f*ck - it's truly amazing the positive effect on your life. People are drawn to that energy because they want a piece of it, or to share their own with someone who is going to reciprocate.

So working out is going to help but getting more comfortable in your own skin and loving yourself is going to make making eye contact become natural.

Yeah, I'm pretty comfortable in general - owing to previous successes. If I could get away with being skinny and soft, I would. But it's not really what any of us want. I am abnormally strong for my size so I put bulk on very quickly, but keeping it on takes a lot of effort. But getting back to weights next week.

I really like the fact that you are developing your day game when most guys are staring at their screens with all this online stuff. I'm not saying that online dating isn't good but day game and social circle game where the most amazing girls are but again being outcome independent and being at peace with whatever happen during the interactions and dating and hold frame and going after what you want without apologizing is the essence of this so called game.

I've never really been one for 'approaching' in the classical sense - rather just heading out in the evening, but, as I say drinking too much to be successful lately. But it does start to make sense to embrace opportunities that might arise in the daytime too. Any time really.

Thanks again for the input.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

@Ruler

Absolutely you have a go on a 21yr old. When I was exactly your age, I was going with a 22yr old. Fill yer boots sunshine

Chick 26
-These two little brats came scooting past me on my way to the station. As they always do. Those f#cking scooters are everywhere.
-Anyway, I spied their mother in the distance who, though older, probs late thirties, was quite tidy. So I decided to test run om1's 'look through' method. Worked a treat. As I got a couple of metres away, I looked at her and she was staring. This, a mother of two kids, who lives and swans around in an up-market suburb, eyeing up younger men, while hubby probably slaves for 12hrs in the city.
-She immediately turned her head and looked across the road, exactly like she'd been caught out, kids in the meantime heading in the other direction.

Conclusion:
-Women will ignore their own kids to check you out.

 

[Eljuego]

The game is simple, as you're going about you're daily schedule, you see hot women out on the street, as you pass them, you give them the come to bed eyes.

The one rule being, you MUST NOT break the gaze before she does.

I started this game again today and it really works. The very first pair of girls, I gave the hottest the look; she looked away. I heard them giggling as they walked away behind me; something along the lines of 'He was looking at you'.

To make it to 100 might take anything from a weekend, to a month depending on where you live. To be honest, I could probably do it on one sunny Saturday in my area....

A few tips:

1) Don't stare at chicks who are walking with guys. It's un-brotherly and you don't know what the relation is nor what his reaction will be.

2) Give a look, but don't stare like you're gonna mug her. Practice not looking like a rapist in the mirror if you have to.

3) Give an amused smirk if she looks back for more than a couple of seconds. Those that look back are usually looking with intent.

4) Say hello if the encounter seems to go well. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.


This is excellent exercise for building confidence and manly aura, for newbies and not so newbies and makes you realise how many chicks are actually checking you out.... usually more than you think.

Fantastic post, love it count me in :yes:

This is just the kickstart I need to give to daygame....which I've not been given any attention to...well 40% of the time giving eye contact, 60% of the time...in a rush and switched off! or worse, not acting on the looks or smiles I get back....and like you say...you miss 100% of the shots you don't take :yes:

I'll remember your second tip while I'm given the look. should put an amused smile on my face :crackup: no rapist stare!!

Weekly reports to follow. Ok this starts in.....15 minutes!! :woo:

Good luck fellas!!

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Great Challenge I'm in. Let me ask you guys something tho. When we first look at them and they look at us are we suppose to be already smiling once she see us. Or once we get eye contact then do the smile grin? Once we do the smile grin has it happened that the girl does not give it back lol

 

[Wisconsin144]

This sounds like a great way to boost confidence. New challenge, count me in.

 

[playa99]

I'm in, great challenge, love it, fits right in with self improvement!