The 100 Eye F*ck Challenge

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The game is simple, as you're going about you're daily schedule, you see hot women out on the street, as you pass them, you give them the come to bed eyes.

The one rule being, you MUST NOT break the gaze before she does.

I started this game again today and it really works. The very first pair of girls, I gave the hottest the look; she looked away. I heard them giggling as they walked away behind me; something along the lines of 'He was looking at you'.

To make it to 100 might take anything from a weekend, to a month depending on where you live. To be honest, I could probably do it on one sunny Saturday in my area....

A few tips:

1) Don't stare at chicks who are walking with guys. It's un-brotherly and you don't know what the relation is nor what his reaction will be.

2) Give a look, but don't stare like you're gonna mug her. Practice not looking like a rapist in the mirror if you have to.

3) Give an amused smirk if she looks back for more than a couple of seconds. Those that look back are usually looking with intent.

4) Say hello if the encounter seems to go well. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.


This is excellent exercise for building confidence and manly aura, for newbies and not so newbies and makes you realise how many chicks are actually checking you out.... usually more than you think.
 
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I don't stare at them. They are used to that.

I look for women who double take on me, it shows interest and makes it easy...
 

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I'm in. So just look in her eyes until she looks away, smirk if for more than couple seconds, say hello if she smirks back. How the hell do I make come to bed eyes?
 

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backseatjuan said:
I'm in. So just look in her eyes until she looks away, smirk if for more than couple seconds, say hello if she smirks back. How the hell do I make come to bed eyes?

Have a boner while you look at her...
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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I'm gonna add some sexual staring advice, and count me in as well.

When you look at the girl gently squint your eyes like you're focusing really hard on something BUT you're relaxed about it. Then slowly look down her body and then back up to lock her eyes again. You can pair this with a smirk as well.

But the smirk isn't really necessary. It's mainly about the eyes.
 

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yes, yes, yes, I love it. Count me in.

People try to make goals that are way too dramatic, like "bang 10 hot girls this summer". If you can't do the basics, then you're sunk.

Plus it's surprisingly fun and satisfying to do this.
 

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I'm in. Going to do this starting today- London will be easy.

Any advice on the 'come to bed' eyes?

Assuming you say hello and a convo starts do you go into flow or just be like 'you're cute, i'd like to take you for a drink sometime- what's your number'
 

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Lozboss said:
I'm in. Going to do this starting today- London will be easy.

Any advice on the 'come to bed' eyes?

Assuming you say hello and a convo starts do you go into flow or just be like 'you're cute, i'd like to take you for a drink sometime- what's your number'
This guy has the right idea.

The others have explained about the eyes - not squinting like you're peering at her but not popping out their sockets either. The easiest way to describe it is like when you just woke up and your eyes are still half glued shut by eye-boogers. Then you realise it's Saturday morning and the corners of your mouth reach up toward the outer corners of each eye.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Morning commute, nothing happened. Spotted a couple of half-decent chicks and one that was 8ish, but the trouble at this time of year is everyone's got shades on. All in all, didn't bother checking anyone out. I'm not my best before morning coffee anyway.

Conversely, evening commute kicked off.... got off the train early to go via the super-market.

Chick 2 (we'll call the one I mentioned in the OP Chick 1):
A nice professional-looking blonde, bit tall for my taste, but good figure and pleasing face. Noticed a lot of war paint as I passed her though, possible dubble chin also. She clocked me from 10metres and as I passed her I prepared for the gaze, she went to look up, but kinda jerked her head and didn't. Shy, demure, lacking confidence, decided she shouldn't look (another bloke on her conscience), whatever. Another benefit of this is to revise non-verbal cues.

Chick 3:
In the shop, only walked passed and she checked me briefly. Caught her eye, she turned away. Brunette, probably a standard 7. I include this because it's occurred to me that this basic behaviour starting to become a reflex again.

Chick 4:
I'm nearing home and crossing the rail bridge at my local station. This Polish looking chick is climbing the stairs as I am descending. I'm hardly paying attention, but as we pass again I reflexively look her in the eye and she's already looking. drops her gaze after a second or so.

So not a brilliant catch for the first day, but almost more importantly, in the first 24hrs I have realised the following conclusions, at least for myself:

-This kind of thing actually doesn't have much to do with confidence, certainly things like this should be an instinctive behaviour, as we see with the last two chicks, not really to dominate them, but to communicate with them non-verbally, "Check me out checking you out".

-We don't have to pay attention to everyone, not even people we know, especially people we don't necessarily have a lot of time for. No need to look or even face them. Again, communicates a message without having to say it - "I have little or no time for you at the moment". This actually does breed confidence, making us more independent from the opinions of others, free-ing up energy for those that count.

-If these are my conclusions after 24hrs and four women, it seems there may be more to be learned than first meets the eye (pun intended).
 

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I'm definitely going to get on this. I've been on a bit of a roll recently so hopefully this should keep it going. On the streets during the day IOI's are so much more subtle, this should be fun.
 

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I do this naturally and subconciously but the problem is that girls are cowards when it comes to flirtation game and they do it subtly.

I like it when I make eye contact with a beautiful girl and you can feel that sexual tension in the air between you two and the game go for another 5 or 10 seconds when logistics are harmonious and you either choose to approach or to go on with your life.

But again you should be more aware of your surrounding to enjoy this fun game but you also have to be a certain sexual level to have more action. What can I say? Life isn't that fair.
 

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Day 3

Day 3

Had a lazy-ish day, first day of a long weekend, played a bit of ball in the park, which allowed me to walk up and down the High Road a couple of times.

Chick 5:
Kinda hill-walking, hippy looking type. Had a decent looking figure at distance, under the stonewash jeans and baggy fleece jumper, so thought I'd give it a look.
She was literally staring at me as I walked passed. Alas she was about forty and probably has a VERY hairy fanny. Had to turn away at that one

Chick 6:
Very similar situation to Chick 2; we kinda clocked each other at distance, I actively prepared for the gaze, she went look as we passed, but didn't at the last minute. Shame; she was more my type than Chick 2, more of a natural beauty, no war paint. Really kind of innocent looking.... ya know when you look at someone and you know they're just totally f*cking genuine and nice. Probs had a BF, but blatantly wanted to look. Solid 8.

Chick 7:
Another solid 8. Unfortunately I nearly bumped into her as I was busy staring into a boutique furniture show room at some poor sap who's credit card was being drained by an average looking blonde. Let's just say he didn't look like he was enjoying it. And his stupid attitude and stupid selfish missus made me miss out on checking out this fit bird, nice body, lovely rack.

Chick 8:
Damn, this one was a 9. Clocked her from 30-40metres away (yeah, one of those that catches your eye from middle distance). Alas she crossed the road 10meters before we crossed paths. [Only included because I stared at her at least, until she was a good 20metres behind me!]

Chick 9:
She was properly dolled to go out on the town and pickup some guys; thick eye-liner, bright scarlet lipstick, ya know that kinda look that just says, 'I'm gonna suck your brain out through your d!ck'. Silky patterned jump-suit outfit. Another kinda Eastern Euro/Russian-looking. Absolutely I don't find them unattractive from that part of the world, but just not my preference. This one, probably mid-thirties, she double-took me, lovely piercing baby blue eyes. Kinda thin hair. Don't think she'll find it difficult to get laid tonight though


To conclude today:
-I have to agree with om1xr; being aware of one's surroundings is paramount; I suppose learning to pay attention to what we want to (as per yesterday's conclusion) and paying attention to the middle distance, otherwise you might miss a 9!

-As per my experiences with Chicks 2 and 6, it has occurred that may be this kind of woman is generally the type that is left on the shelf - I'm talking the high 7.7's to the 8.9's of this world. They don't get as much attention as the pure 9's and 10's - but I believe this is unwarranted, they are probably a lot of the time more grounded and nicer people for it. They probably are generally more likely single than 5-7's because these are the category that high-performing betas will settle with, as their balls melt infront of anything above an 8.
 

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Day 4

Not much to report on today. Been running around attending to errands and fitness regimen. But I did spot a couple of 8.5-9's while I was on my travels :yes:

Chick 10:
This kind of willowy blonde, probably about 6'3 in heels wandered over the road in my direction, seemed to double take me, then started walking in my direction. TMK thinks he's gonna make a bee-line for this one. Then she coyly avoids eye-contact (like some of the others) and heads in to the Town Hall where, quelle surprise, there's a f*cking wedding fair taking place. Sh!t man, TMK coulda shown her a far more entertaining afternoon than all that carry on, ffs.

Chick 11:
Kind of a younger, more lithe Sarah Silverman. This one actually looked me in the eye, albeit for a half second. Then kinda looked askance in the opposite direction, her eyes darting around all over the place like she was shocked, confused almost, by the fact I looked at her. May be she was turned on; it would come as no great surprise.

Today's conclusion:
-A lot of pretty decent looking women either don't have the courage to look you in the eye and/or are definitely more intimidated by you than you are them. As per chick 11, she may even have been confused by the fact a guy actually had the spunk to look at her with intent, because so few actually do.
-This exercise is actually making me focus LESS on women. I only bothered checking 3 out today (the third had a BF in tow and he had done very well for himself). As per yesterday's conclusion and to attest to om1xr's theory again, I am auto-focussing on women I see that appeal, rather than looking for appeal in every women.
 

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Pro Tip: If you're gonna lock eyes with some chick for an extended period, make sure your path before you is clear, and you don't trip over a sidewalk crack and end up falling chin-first into a pile of fresh dog shıt.
 
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I like to play this game. I've had some girls shoot me some serious eye fvcks lately, about three times in the last two days. Thing is, I was driving in my car at the time, so maybe they didn't get that good a look at me, lol.

Girls tend to look at me a lot, but they don't approach me. Well, they will talk to me, initiate conversation and all, but they don't usually come up and hit on me, not strangers anyway. I figure I look good enough to date but not good enough to go out of their way for. Ah, well. :)
 

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I have a few from this past week, most of them are from sorting things out at the DMV.

1. Tall brunette, tan, shorts, sandals, definitely older(26ish?), giving me the eye. We traded gazes back and forth but I didn't want to approach because of the people that I was with.

2. Still at the DMV there was this pale, short haired brunette, wearing tight white skinny jeans with a nice booty, looked about 23ish, giving me the eye. I exchanged and eventually had to walk by her so we exchanged smiles.

3. The next day at the DMV this tweaker looking chick starts giving me the eye and I return the favor. She was waiting in line and we were sitting down when the line got close to where we were sitting. She points out my buddies hat and we end up talking a lot. She also compliments my style and says that I have a "007 look going on" she then gives me a hug when we left.

4. Later on, me and the same group of friends end up going out and walking around at a busy part of time where night life is common. We were walking back from a park and I wasn't really paying attention but I walked passed a group of two girls and behind them was this brunette, my height, wearing red lip stick, a dress with a black coat, exchanged glances. She looked about 20 maybe 21. It was like a snap of attraction though, really caught me off guard and I regret not approaching at this moment.

It's not much and it makes me realize that I've been sort of a hermit these passed few months since I only go out with my friends but they won't approach a girl for a million bucks. When I was walking around that area, I saw so many great approaching opportunities but I felt like my friends were holding me back.

Oh yeah, style goes a long way. All I've recently done is get dress pants, two pairs of Oxford's, a watch, and a necklace and now I feel like women are trying to get my attention more often. I usually get compliments about the way I dress as well. I also feel like I'm attracting girls much older than me; and taller!

When I get my car I plan on going out and approaching solo. I seriously miss approaching and getting some tail, I saw some great booty on that walk and I felt so caged...
 

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Not much to report so far this week. Gonna pick up again at the weekend as am a bit fatigued right now from working out.

Will just regale with my experience this morning, not because this chick was anything special, but more her unscrupulous attitude:

Chick 12:
Was at the station this morning, waiting for my train, half asleep as usual. Some blondie (let's say a bog-standard 6) was standing on the platform in subdued silence with some guy - probably BF or hubby. I just happened to look down the platform and catch her eye. Didn't really think anything of it and being the brotherly guy I am, didn't step on this guy's toes, not directly in front of him anyway.

Got on the train a bit further down from this couple and they happened to sit facing backwards, and facing me. Go about my business as usual, checking suave, emails and taking my Kindle out to revise the 48 Laws. then I happen to look up again and this blondie is STILL looking straight at me, right with her bloke there.

It was early and she may have been in a daze, as I was. But she really seemed to be looking. Twice is one too many times to be coincidence. She obviously had the morning horn.

Conclusion:
Many women are very unhappy in their current situations. Even if you meet her and she says she's attached, give her your number anyway for her future reference. Beware of getting in to 'relationships' with women like this though, at least in the short to medium term; many have absolutely no qualms checking out other options right under the nose of their current squeeze.
 

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Frayzer said:
I'm gonna add some sexual staring advice, and count me in as well.

When you look at the girl gently squint your eyes like you're focusing really hard on something BUT you're relaxed about it. Then slowly look down her body and then back up to lock her eyes again. You can pair this with a smirk as well.

But the smirk isn't really necessary. It's mainly about the eyes.
Lol this is true. I do this without even realizing it and have found that girls do like it. I think it's because it conveys interest without showing how much and lets them know you are sizing them up to your standards. And the fact is, you were just looking at them after all so they don't know if you like them or not. Just gets them thinking about it.
 
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