That rare unicorn match of a lucky beta male?

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I have to say, this is kind of a mystery to me as if you were to first see these people walk into a room...you would not think they are together.

He's a photographer, she's a model...and when they walk into a room together, you'd think they are just together...professionally only.

Not the case, they are an actual long term, 8 year couple (not married). You rarely see what he looks like online as he purposely covers his face in some fashion and wears the brim of his hat low. He's shy of his own photographs as it's even become a running joke on social media.

He usually covers his mouth with his hand in a speak-no-evil kind of fashion, wearing sunglasses and a hat worn low.

Her...she's plastered all over Social media as he's the photographer and her...the model. She's actually a belly dancer and he posts much more pictures of her (professionally done modeling photos of her in her bra and panties or other lingerie type outfits.

It's like he puts her on a pedestal by posting these photos, tends to get carried away, but apparently...she loves being put on the top of the pedestal by him, whereas most say it's the worst thing that you can do...but...they'd been together for 8 years, so she's stuck around through thick and thin and they have both expressed this online.

You could guess him to be in his mid-50s...her, mid-30s. She's got a rock hard solid body, works out all the time...you know, because she's a professional belly dancer.

Also, he doesn't dress to kill when they go out. He wears baggy jeans, a polo-shirt with his business logo on it and of course, the baseball cap. He's not even in shape...has a gut.

Not saying he's quasimodo or anything, just someone that you know wouldn't usually be caught dead with a woman like that.

Her, she's dressed to the nines in a little black dress, high heels, long dark hair, and an ass like an onion, swaying with every step. Sometimes she'll not walk in with him, but in front of him. They'll catch up together a little later, but he's usually off to the side, going through his camera equipment.

The tall, dark, handsome blokes try to chat her up...her basic equivalents in the beautiful people pecking order...then they are floored when they truly find out who she came with.

Okay, someone here may state the cliche'd "He's probably good in the sack" or "Has money"...but lets elimate those options, esp. the "Good in the sack" because she'd actually have to WANT to sleep with him in the first place.

So I am guessing they have this Celine Dion/(and whomever her husband was) that was much older. A mother/daughter thing going on? Maybe she feels validated by dating him with him always putting her on a pedestal and NOT getting the typical backlash from that?!
 

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He sees the person who lives inside the beautiful body. She is a person to him rather than an object. Everyone focuses on her beauty. He focuses on her.

You guys don't realize how important this is.

Also as a photographer he is constantly around beautiful women. He's way past being bowled over by external beauty. He sees her internal beauty. The beauty that will be there when her physical beauty fades.

This doesn't surprise me at all. He's much harder for her to replace than she is for him trust me.
 

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He sees the person who lives inside the beautiful body. She is a person to him rather than an object. Everyone focuses on her beauty. He focuses on her.

You guys don't realize how important this is.

Also as a photographer he is constantly around beautiful women. He's way past being bowled over by external beauty. He sees her internal beauty. The beauty that will be there when her physical beauty fades.

This doesn't surprise me at all. He's much harder for her to replace than she is for him trust me.
This sounds like bull**** to me.

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I have to say, this is kind of a mystery to me as if you were to first see these people walk into a room...you would not think they are together.

He's a photographer, she's a model...and when they walk into a room together, you'd think they are just together...professionally only.

Not the case, they are an actual long term, 8 year couple (not married). You rarely see what he looks like online as he purposely covers his face in some fashion and wears the brim of his hat low. He's shy of his own photographs as it's even become a running joke on social media.

He usually covers his mouth with his hand in a speak-no-evil kind of fashion, wearing sunglasses and a hat worn low.

Her...she's plastered all over Social media as he's the photographer and her...the model. She's actually a belly dancer and he posts much more pictures of her (professionally done modeling photos of her in her bra and panties or other lingerie type outfits.

It's like he puts her on a pedestal by posting these photos, tends to get carried away, but apparently...she loves being put on the top of the pedestal by him, whereas most say it's the worst thing that you can do...but...they'd been together for 8 years, so she's stuck around through thick and thin and they have both expressed this online.

You could guess him to be in his mid-50s...her, mid-30s. She's got a rock hard solid body, works out all the time...you know, because she's a professional belly dancer.

Also, he doesn't dress to kill when they go out. He wears baggy jeans, a polo-shirt with his business logo on it and of course, the baseball cap. He's not even in shape...has a gut.

Not saying he's quasimodo or anything, just someone that you know wouldn't usually be caught dead with a woman like that.

Her, she's dressed to the nines in a little black dress, high heels, long dark hair, and an ass like an onion, swaying with every step. Sometimes she'll not walk in with him, but in front of him. They'll catch up together a little later, but he's usually off to the side, going through his camera equipment.

The tall, dark, handsome blokes try to chat her up...her basic equivalents in the beautiful people pecking order...then they are floored when they truly find out who she came with.

Okay, someone here may state the cliche'd "He's probably good in the sack" or "Has money"...but lets elimate those options, esp. the "Good in the sack" because she'd actually have to WANT to sleep with him in the first place.

So I am guessing they have this Celine Dion/(and whomever her husband was) that was much older. A mother/daughter thing going on? Maybe she feels validated by dating him with him always putting her on a pedestal and NOT getting the typical backlash from that?!
Who cares? Live you own life.
 

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I'm not familiar with the modeling world, but I am familiar with the world of strip clubs and I see this similar dynamic play out where there is a huge mismatch between the man and woman. I see attractive strippers that date average looking guys that have nothing going for them. They'll pass up high value men all day long.
 

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He sees the person who lives inside the beautiful body. She is a person to him rather than an object. Everyone focuses on her beauty. He focuses on her.
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He's way past being bowled over by external beauty. He sees her internal beauty.
Agreed. The flipside to this is that a man does not really need to believe this, just make her think and feel as if he does.
 

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He sees the person who lives inside the beautiful body. She is a person to him rather than an object. Everyone focuses on her beauty. He focuses on her.

You guys don't realize how important this is.

Also as a photographer he is constantly around beautiful women. He's way past being bowled over by external beauty. He sees her internal beauty. The beauty that will be there when her physical beauty fades.

This doesn't surprise me at all. He's much harder for her to replace than she is for him trust me.

This sounds like bull**** to me.

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I have to say, this is kind of a mystery to me as if you were to first see these people walk into a room...you would not think they are together.

He's a photographer, she's a model...and when they walk into a room together, you'd think they are just together...professionally only.

Not the case, they are an actual long term, 8 year couple (not married). You rarely see what he looks like online as he purposely covers his face in some fashion and wears the brim of his hat low. He's shy of his own photographs as it's even become a running joke on social media.

He usually covers his mouth with his hand in a speak-no-evil kind of fashion, wearing sunglasses and a hat worn low.

Her...she's plastered all over Social media as he's the photographer and her...the model. She's actually a belly dancer and he posts much more pictures of her (professionally done modeling photos of her in her bra and panties or other lingerie type outfits.

It's like he puts her on a pedestal by posting these photos, tends to get carried away, but apparently...she loves being put on the top of the pedestal by him, whereas most say it's the worst thing that you can do...but...they'd been together for 8 years, so she's stuck around through thick and thin and they have both expressed this online.

You could guess him to be in his mid-50s...her, mid-30s. She's got a rock hard solid body, works out all the time...you know, because she's a professional belly dancer.

Also, he doesn't dress to kill when they go out. He wears baggy jeans, a polo-shirt with his business logo on it and of course, the baseball cap. He's not even in shape...has a gut.

Not saying he's quasimodo or anything, just someone that you know wouldn't usually be caught dead with a woman like that.

Her, she's dressed to the nines in a little black dress, high heels, long dark hair, and an ass like an onion, swaying with every step. Sometimes she'll not walk in with him, but in front of him. They'll catch up together a little later, but he's usually off to the side, going through his camera equipment.

The tall, dark, handsome blokes try to chat her up...her basic equivalents in the beautiful people pecking order...then they are floored when they truly find out who she came with.

Okay, someone here may state the cliche'd "He's probably good in the sack" or "Has money"...but lets elimate those options, esp. the "Good in the sack" because she'd actually have to WANT to sleep with him in the first place.

So I am guessing they have this Celine Dion/(and whomever her husband was) that was much older. A mother/daughter thing going on? Maybe she feels validated by dating him with him always putting her on a pedestal and NOT getting the typical backlash from that?!
Uhhhh...maybe he's got Game?
 

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I refuse to believe that a top-looking model has been 100% faithful to a man in a relationship of 8 years. That's baloney. She probably does stuff on the side. Maybe he actually is a decent dude, but keep in mind that he is a professional photographer so she DOES get a benefit by being with him. He promotes her. There's more than meets the eye. And normally I would agree with BeExcellent's post about seeing her as HER rather than someone to fvck, but quite frankly if you are posting lingerie shots on the internet, there's no way you can be completely pure; you flaunt your body for fvck's sake. Just ask bigneil, his stripper cheated on him with and without money, surprise surprise. She still loves him dearly according to him, but she still did it nonetheless. There's still something here that's not right here, focusing solely on inward beauty just gets you straight up friendzoned unless 100% of the people she talks to (minus 1, MAYBE 2 girl friends) see her as someone to fvck. But over the course of 8 years not one other person has viewed her as a person? I don't buy it. This is 8 years we are talking about right now. Maybe they're in an open relationship, but you can't possibly know that just by looking at pictures online.
 

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I refuse to believe that a top-looking model has been 100% faithful to a man in a relationship of 8 years. That's baloney. She probably does stuff on the side. Maybe he actually is a decent dude, but keep in mind that he is a professional photographer so she DOES get a benefit by being with him. He promotes her. There's more than meets the eye. And normally I would agree with BeExcellent's post about seeing her as HER rather than someone to fvck, but quite frankly if you are posting lingerie shots on the internet, there's no way you can be completely pure; you flaunt your body for fvck's sake. Just ask bigneil, his stripper cheated on him with and without money, surprise surprise. She still loves him dearly according to him, but she still did it nonetheless. There's still something here that's not right here, focusing solely on inward beauty just gets you straight up friendzoned unless 100% of the people she talks to (minus 1, MAYBE 2 girl friends) see her as someone to fvck. But over the course of 8 years not one other person has viewed her as a person? I don't buy it. This is 8 years we are talking about right now. Maybe they're in an open relationship, but you can't possibly know that just by looking at pictures online.
If you think a HB10 will act different than a HB1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10.... in at relationship... Hell no.

Personnally, I find ''top-model'' easier to approach...cause they never get approached lol (guys put her so high they scared to approach... ''out of my league syndrome'')

A girl will stick with a guy and be loyal: 1) If the sex amazing 2) if she emotionnally invested 3) the guy the same as the ''dating'' phase

All girls have issues... sometimes the ''extreme hot'' have has much issues as the ''ugly'' ones.

I see hot guys with average girls and vice-versa... you never know what goes behind the curtain (grass aint greener)... but Bro, if you see them holding hand... at least now you know you have a chance... just gotta approach them
 

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If you think a HB10 will act different than a HB1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10.... in at relationship... Hell no.

Personnally, I find ''top-model'' easier to approach...cause they never get approached lol (guys put her so high they scared to approach... ''out of my league syndrome'')

A girl will stick with a guy and be loyal: 1) If the sex amazing 2) if she emotionnally invested 3) the guy the same as the ''dating'' phase

All girls have issues... sometimes the ''extreme hot'' have has much issues as the ''ugly'' ones.

I see hot guys with average girls and vice-versa... you never know what goes behind the curtain (grass aint greener)... but Bro, if you see them holding hand... at least now you know you have a chance... just gotta approach them
OP said that there were much more attractive guys who were chatting her up. This throws out the 'they never get approached' argument. Also, what would make her attracted to him enough to have sex with him in the first place? If they don't have sex, they likely aren't emotionally invested either. Hotter girls DO have less issues than uglier girls. Ugly chicks don't have men to take care of them as much.
 
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