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Her (My GF): I Love you

Me: errr Thank you

What was i meant to say huh? it was the only thing that ci could come up with "thank you" "THANK YOU" i mean i could have said something else but..........

Well as you could imagine sheee didnt take it very well actuly she got pretty angry and started crying. She basicly kicked me out (she asked if i could leave because she needed "space")

So what do you guys think?

AND

What are some better replies without saying "i love you to"?
 

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Well 1stly, why cant u say "i love you too?" .. there is nothing wrong with saying that to her. (if u DO love her)

and secondly, a far better reply if u REALLY dont want to say "i love you too" would be "awww, thats so sweet of you my baby:) *kiss her* you are so special to me, never forget that" ... Or something along those lines.


Laterz...
 

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I dont really like her anymore i honestly thought the realationship was dying out. Now she drops "i love you". So obviously she is happy and sees the realationship going further.
 

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Well then the best thing for you to do now is tell her that you don’t really like her and see her in the same way that u saw her in the past and that you think that you would rather be single again. The apologize to her for "breaking her heart", and walk away. The longer you stay in this relationship, the more you will hurt her in the long run.


Laterz...
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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What are some better replies without saying "i love you to"?
Ok maybe not for this case, but for future reference:

You: (smile) I know. (kiss her)

You: Can't say I really blame you

You: Hell I would too in your position
 

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Man. If she said "I love you", and you think the relationship is dying out, I think you're in a world of trouble. If either party doesn't feel the same way, and it's been a considerable amount of time, (you decided what "considerable" means), then I think it's time to break up. Why waste your time in a relationship where you don't love the girl?
I don't know if any of you guys agree with this, but I think that after about 4-5 months, (or if you really do love her), you are going to have to tell her sometime. I've known girls that simply won't say it first since they've been hurt so bad in past. You may as well say it first after a long period of time, because either way, you then have good reason to either breakup or take it to the next level. If she doesn't say it back, you know it's probably time to end it. If she's reluctant but says it, you know it's probably time to end it. If she's ecstatic, then bingo, you know you can take it to the next level.
Many will probably disagree, but this is just what I believe. It comes from the saying, "Why waste your time in a relationship where the other person doesn't really love you?".
 

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Originally posted by nishbuk
I don't know if any of you guys agree with this, but I think that after about 4-5 months, (or if you really do love her), you are going to have to tell her sometime. I've known girls that simply won't say it first since they've been hurt so bad in past. You may as well say it first after a long period of time, because either way, you then have good reason to either breakup or take it to the next level. If she doesn't say it back, you know it's probably time to end it. If she's reluctant but says it, you know it's probably time to end it. If she's ecstatic, then bingo, you know you can take it to the next level.
Many will probably disagree, but this is just what I believe. It comes from the saying, "Why waste your time in a relationship where the other person doesn't really love you?".
Actually I never thought of it that way before, its good logic.. I agree.
 

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I don't know if any of you guys agree with this, but I think that after about 4-5 months, (or if you really do love her), you are going to have to tell her sometime. I've known girls that simply won't say it first since they've been hurt so bad in past. You may as well say it first after a long period of time, because either way, you then have good reason to either breakup or take it to the next level. If she doesn't say it back, you know it's probably time to end it. If she's reluctant but says it, you know it's probably time to end it. If she's ecstatic, then bingo, you know you can take it to the next level.
I wish I came up with this groundbreaking material!


Chill im JK.

listen fyckers....he is right..just say how you feel..its called COMMUNICATION.....its not AFC to tell her how you feel when its time to tell her how you feel.IF YOU ARE A REALLY IN LOVE...you will KNOW..and she will KNOW!
 

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This has been a really f**ked up day. I just had this HB9 tell me she........(her exact words)

"i have very strong feelings for you and i want to hookup with you not just in a sexual way but in a luving way to"

This was on MSN i know her from real life not the net. Its strange that she just came out and said that i mean i have been talking to her for months now on phone and MSN just being myself now she comes out and says she has "strong feelings"

She lives in a diffrent state but she is moving here at the end of this year. I basicly said to her:

HER:I have very strong feelings for you and i want to hookup with you not just in a sexual way but in a luving way to

Me: Are you serious?

Her: Yes..... how do you feel?

Me: Look you are a nice girl and all and you deserve to have a nice guy thats going to treat you good and im not a nice guy.

Her: (she got mad at this point and said some **** about my GF then) I dont want to ruin what we already have just forget i said anything.

Me: I cant forget you said it, its a pretty big thing and it has nothing to do with my GF. Listen i got to go well talk about this tomorrow.

I LEFT

She called me two times 20 or so min after i left.

Thats f**ked

Why does all this sh*t come at once?
 

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Typical interaction with my gf:

Me: haha, you love me
Her: shut uuuuuppp
Me: aww it's ok don't be shy *hug*
Her: *warm embrace*
 

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Let me get this straight:

Your girlfriend says "i love you" and u just say "thank you" while deep down u want to get rid of her...(ball-less), then a HB9 (note that it is a 9/10) offers a nice little shag here and there with a chance for another relationship (more sex) and u turn her down.


ARE u GAY?
 

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LOL
 

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Your girlfriend says "i love you" and u just say "thank you" while deep down u want to get rid of her...(ball-less), then a HB9 (note that it is a 9/10) offers a nice little shag here and there with a chance for another relationship (more sex) and u turn her down.

a couple points:

is she really in love with you?

if so....what kind of person are you to let let someone fall in love with you and you not feel the same?

and in the same day another HOT HOT women came to you...wanting ur nuts and love?


ok black italian
 

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errrrr i have the MSN convo logged.

Don’t judge me Frivolous when I was first dating my GF I liked her allot but I slowly stopped liking her it crept up on me. Now that I finally realized im not happy with her im breaking up with her. She obviously still likes me even though I thought we were growing apart. Or maybe its her last ditched effort to save the relationship.

STOP talking about this black Italian fag I don’t want to here any more **** about that fag there are 24 000 000 people in Australia its more than f**king likely that out of 24 million people 2x19 year old guys can find this website. I am from the same country as they guy THAT IS WERE IT ENDS so shutup about that sh*t.

but you guys are right about turning down the other girl that was a stupid move on my part. Its not too late I can still fix that I left that option open.

Frivolous you said you slept wit 20 girls and some were HB8-9s but its hard for you to believe a HB9 is interested in me? :rolleyes:

I had respect for you before but I am slowly losing it............
 

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Frivolous you said you slept wit 20 girls and some were HB8-9s but its hard for you to believe a HB9 is interested in me?
its not that i dont believe you..its that you post like him...and you showed up 2 days after he was banned.

its like asking if Bonds took steroids....
 
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