@marmel75 fair enough. If you've found something that works for you keep doing it I guess.
@Masculinity If you've already made out with her, and she's constantly texting you, then she doesn't view you as an AFC. But her attitude towards you can swing the other way, depending on what you do. There is a difference between sending a nice guy text --> "Happy Birthday! What are your friends like?" And leaving a happy birthday voicegram on her voicemail. It's a matter of calibration. It's all a learning experience, I agree with you there. Your calibration will improve with experience. There'll always be another girl.