Texting breakdown - how can i attract this milf?

[BackInTheGame78]

If she already went out on 2 dates with me, that means there is interest. Or not?

The only way you'll know is if she fvcks you. Until then she isn't interested enough.

 

[anour]

It's not like you couldn't bang at night and show up on time at work the next day.....

Perhaps follow the advice of being patient and trying to set up a date once she's back and then escalate at the date to sex. Until then hold your horses from any further texting..

I have no idea about sexting but most of the game books (like Mark Manson) always say to use texting only for setting up dates. The goal is to get sex, not a friend you text with 10 times a day (even if its about sex).

If she's not interested for a date..well then cut your losses and move on i guess. You bungled it. **** happens. There will be other opportunities and milfs.

Logistics is a bit ****ed up. I live 20 mins away with the bus from where the date was, in the city that is.
I also follow this principle of using texting to setup the date, some people say that if you follow it literally there is no chance of rapport building, therefore girls might be resistant to meeting up.

 

[anour]

The only way you'll know is if she fvcks you. Until then she isn't interested enough.

I’m going to text her next week friday. Set up the date, if she says busy ah well **** happens, if she down for the date then you know it’s on!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I’m going to text her next week friday. Set up the date, if she says busy ah well **** happens, if she down for the date then you know it’s on!

You don't know anything until you get her alone and try to escalate.

I've been on 3-4 dates with a woman and been alone with her, had her stroking my c0ck but wouldn't go any farther and things fizzled out after that.

A woman knows how far she is willing to go with you sexually. That's your job to find out.

 

[anour]

You don't know anything until you get her alone and try to escalate.

I've been on 3-4 dates with a woman and been alone with her, had her stroking my c0ck but wouldn't go any farther and things fizzled out after that.

A woman knows how far she is willing to go with you sexually. That's your job to find out.

I will let you know how it goes once i see her. I Appreciate your response!

 

[anour]

I was thinking of waiting till thursday/friday. Her schedule should be out then, if she doesn’t text, i will text and be like are you back to holland?
if she says yes i am
I will say “now you can take these off”

I’ve teased her before because she is in ukraine rn and i told her to wear knee elbow protection and a helmet for little kids when they want to learn how to drive a bicycle for the first time.

I wS thinking of sending this. What y’all think? @BackInTheGame78 @CAPSLOCK BANDIT @DoofusDonutDude @All_Kindz_Of_Gainz

 

[anour]

@AmsterdamAssassin @AureliusMaximus @SW15 @Dr.Suave @BillyPilgrim @soulforge

 

[SW15]

Your game is bad and this is a dead interaction.

I saw you double and triple texted. You need to keep your interactions to logistics only. No conversations.

Also, lead your interactions. You were somewhat passive in your texting.

 

[BadBoy89]

somebody tell me of a way where i can lock this milf down where she become an exclusive FWB

Wrong forum. Sosuave does not give advice on single mothers, fat women, or menopausal women.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

For the love of God, was she really texting you what appears to be the "woman symbol"?

Massive red flag you missed OP. I don't see how this isn't a sign of toxicity.

Can you imagine a combat veteran talking about killing villages of kids while in a warzone, and then using the "man symbol" to justify it? Not that these women are killing kids, but civilization is a pretty important thing as well.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

She’s milf and i heard an advice that milf love sexting. But i’d like to hear your opinion. Can you share what is a better move here? So no talking about sex through texting ever or just before actually having it?

You can if you do it smoothly, but this appears to be a screening failure. Feminists are not good targets, and in other news the sky is blue.

 

[anour]

Your game is bad and this is a dead interaction.

I saw you double and triple texted. You need to keep your interactions to logistics only. No conversations.

Also, lead your interactions. You were somewhat passive in your texting.

How exactly was i passive in texting? How can i lead interactions about texting?

 

[anour]

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For the love of God, was she really texting you what appears to be the "woman symbol"?

Massive red flag you missed OP. I don't see how this isn't a sign of toxicity.

Can you imagine a combat veteran talking about killing villages of kids while in a warzone, and then using the "man symbol" to justify it? Not that these women are killing kids, but civilization is a pretty important thing as well.

No man she dindn’t she sent the shrugging emoji, when you want to express its out of my hands

 

[BillyPilgrim]

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No man she dindn’t she sent the shrugging emoji, when you want to express its out of my hands

Lol you used the "woman symbol" in your OP instead of the shrugging emoji

Female - Wikipedia

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[anour]

Lol you used the "woman symbol" in your OP instead of the shrugging emoji

Female - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Yeah that i do know bro, because i copy pasted the hard-coded chats from whatsapp zip file to here. It auto translated it.


Regarding the post

I was thinking of waiting till thursday/friday. Her schedule should be out then, if she doesn’t text, i will text and be like are you back to holland?
I was thinking of waiting till thursday/friday. Her schedule should be out then, if she doesn’t text, i will text and be like are you back to holland?
if she says yes i am
I will say “now you can take these off”

I’ve teased her before because she is in ukraine rn and i told her to wear knee elbow protection and a helmet for little kids when they want to learn how to drive a bicycle for the first time.

do you think this is a good approach

 

[Bingo-Player]

Why are you so invested in this single mother ?

IDK wtf Is going on because I can't understand half of what you've written

but look you need to chill out

Women are very aware of men that are over eager and your messages scream desperation

She knows she can have you at any second this isn't a good frame to be in with a woman at the best of times

Its a terrible Frame to be in when you just want to have sex with her

 

[DoofusDonutDude]

Why are you so invested in this single mother ?

IDK wtf Is going on because I can't understand half of what you've written

but look you need to chill out

Women are very aware of men that are over eager and your messages scream desperation

She knows she can have you at any second this isn't a good frame to be in with a woman at the best of times

Its a terrible Frame to be in when you just want to have sex with her

It happens. Sometimes you will come across a woman that have ... a certain appeal that is extra attractive you. Key is not get overinvested and keep your head straight otherwise you'll either simp or develop oneitis.

He does need to chill out and be more suave.. Op chill man. I get that feeling of "HAVE to get this one in the sack" but nothing will kill your game more than that feeling taking control of you.

You're overcooking the chicken by turning up the flame to max the whole time. Let it simmer for a while now and only turn up the heat at the right time as others have said.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Low interest and you are texting her too much, sometimes less is more.

 

[anour]

Why are you so invested in this single mother ?

IDK wtf Is going on because I can't understand half of what you've written

but look you need to chill out

Women are very aware of men that are over eager and your messages scream desperation

She knows she can have you at any second this isn't a good frame to be in with a woman at the best of times

Its a terrible Frame to be in when you just want to have sex with her

So do i go no contact and wait for her message?

Why are you so invested in this single mother ?

IDK wtf Is going on because I can't understand half of what you've written

but look you need to chill out

Women are very aware of men that are over eager and your messages scream desperation

She knows she can have you at any second this isn't a good frame to be in with a woman at the best of times

Its a terrible Frame to be in when you just want to have sex with her

I was thinking of waiting till thursday/friday. Her schedule should be out then, if she doesn’t text, i will text and be like are you back to holland?
if she says yes i am
I will say “now you can take these off”

I’ve teased her before because she is in ukraine rn and i told her to wear knee elbow protection and a helmet for little kids when they want to learn how to drive a bicycle for the first time.

I wS thinking of sending this. What you think? And for the frame what is the best frame of mind to have in these situations?

 

[Bingo-Player]

So do i go no contact and wait for her message?

I was thinking of waiting till thursday/friday. Her schedule should be out then, if she doesn’t text, i will text and be like are you back to holland?
if she says yes i am
I will say “now you can take these off”

I’ve teased her before because she is in ukraine rn and i told her to wear knee elbow protection and a helmet for little kids when they want to learn how to drive a bicycle for the first time.

I wS thinking of sending this. What you think? And for the frame what is the best frame of mind to have in these situations?

The best frame of mind to have is when you are able to text multiple women , date multiple women and sleep with multiple women

this will stop you from sending stupid messages and worrying what any one woman is doing

There are so many girls out there do not idolise them