Texted her by accident!

[Ian Gots Game]

Last night I was at her house, and she was amazing. The conversation was great, it was like old friends. We understood each other, and loved to be with each other. We made out before I left, and everything was great. Then I meant to text my best friend 'nope. dont like her anymore. NEXT' as a joke, dont ask me why. And I texted it to HER! She texted back 'oh youre moving on to your next victim huh? nice'.
How should I respond? I want to keep seeing this girl a lot.

 

[jason86]

game over.

 

[Javelin44]

10% she thinks you're joking.
90% you're done.
take your pick.
odds aren't with you.

 

[familyguyfan]

Pretend like you were talking about another girl, and that after being with her last night, you forgot all about that other girl.

That's the best I can think of. It's not guaranteed to work, and odds are you're still screwed, but it's still worth a shot.

 

[undesputable]

hahah....thats great man, dont worry about it. you have a 50-50 chance of "making" her like you again....ask her with a smile what can she do to make you like her again.

 

[Fitch]

Originally posted by Ian Gots Game
Last night I was at her house, and she was amazing. The conversation was great, it was like old friends. We understood each other, and loved to be with each other. We made out before I left, and everything was great. Then I meant to text my best friend 'nope. dont like her anymore. NEXT' as a joke, dont ask me why. And I texted it to HER! She texted back 'oh youre moving on to your next victim huh? nice'.
How should I respond? I want to keep seeing this girl a lot.

Ironically, this it's good that you did this!

I will keep this post brief, since I have to get going. But, my desire to help you comes first.

Go along with the text. Go with the flow. Then suggest a date as a second chance for her. Joke about it.

Get the idea? Play it to your advantage.

If you need details, PM me. I have to go.

 

[motleycrue085]

ur screwed

 

[arutha]

Try to pass it off as a joke.. Just don't get back to her about it straight away or it will make you look guilty, could work. Depends on how much you've been joking around and doing stuff like that before, if I did it then it would likely come off as a joke but thats the kinda thing she might expect me to say anyway based on other things I've said.


Oh yeah, actions speak better than words remember. If you ask her out again then it will seem like you still like her. Actually that may be better, just wait a couple of days then ring her up and ask her out. If she questions it, then act like it was a joke, if not then pretend it didn't happen.

 

[WesCottII]

Text her again....

"yeah, I enjoyed myself, but you only got me half convinced. A date should convince me you're worth hanging out with".

 

[JSH]

Originally posted by jason86
game over.

SHUT UP

Familyguyfan is right, its something thats easily pulled off. I do it the whole time, texting girls about themselves, even my girlfriends. Pass it off, you were discussing something/someone else.

However, there is an interesting idea advocated by WestCott, use it as an opening to make her escalate.

There is always a third option. Tell the truth, but bend it. Its an in joke that you never stay with girls you like. Therefore you do like her and want to stay with her, but know ull screw it up. You need to be arrogant to pull this off though.

 

[Uber noober]

Kill her.

 

[Ian Gots Game]

Turns out the game wasn't over. I just kind of ignored it (and her) for a few days, she saw me out w/ a hot girl (9.5, no exageration), and called me that night asking what she had done wrong. I told her that I'd give her a second chance. Now how do I respond to this:

Her favorite topic and the one I try most often to avoid is her telling me I'm a player. She always says stuff like, "Why don't you just go talk to your girlfriend. I'm sure you have tons to talk about". And I'll say "who" and she'll say, "any of them, you have so many."

She won't go out w/ me tonight and wont tell me why,
HER: Why don't you just take out of your other girlfriends, that would be easier wouldn't it?
ME: Then why are you trying to miss your chance.
HER: Oh my hell!
ME: You have more bfs than I have gfs.
HER: Whatever

 

[penkitten]

i dont understand

if you liked her and want to see her

y would you text message your pal and say you dont like her??

im not so sure she is gonna just understand this.

you are gonna have to be really smooth and say you were talking about another chick because you like her more .
but dont act desperate, say it in a joking manner.

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

An almost identical thing happened to me. I just told the girl the truth. I would consider a serious relationship with a girl, but she would have to be the right girl. I'm currently looking for the right girl. It just so happens that quite a few are interested in me, so I have to date a few of them and see if any fit. I'm not trying to play the field or anything like that, i'm just trying to find the right girl.