Text to remind her of tomorrows date

[zekko]

Personally, I like to get confirmation on things, especially if it was planned awhile in advance. I'm not applying this to women here, I'm just talking generally. I think you're much more likely to get a flake if you don't confirm.

When it comes to women, I can see the point that you are giving them an opportunity to back out if you call them. But if they're into you, they're not going to flake anyway, right? And I don't see confirming as needy, just as being polite. Everything in life is not necessarily a pickup strategy. But that's just my personal preference.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

I agree with zekko. People are making too big a deal out of this.

Let's say I have a date tomorrow that I'm uncertain about, and my buddies are inviting me to go on a road trip...I'd want to confirm this date with the chick, so I know whether or not to jump in on this trip with my friends.

Sending out a text like "See you tomorrow." isn't going to make a girl turn up her nose at you. It'll either prompt a response of "Yep. See ya then.", "sorry, can't make it"...or nothing at all. Couldn't imagine a girl dropping her interest level because of that kind of text. It's not like a love poem.

 

[Serg897]

I guess it depends on the circumstances - if the date was scheduled several days in advance then a text problably doesnt hurt.

But really, if she is interested, she wont forget.

 

[Tazman]

Use her ability to remember this date as a test of her interest. If she's as interested in you as you are in her, she's going to remember.

Why isn't SHE concerned about it?

 

[Tiguere]

This thread has FLAKE written all over.

 

[Danton1975]

Call me crazy, but I am in sales, and we always confirm the appointment the day before just not to waste our time. I would definitely send a text that is nice, polite, but has no neediness:

" Susan, this is Danton. Look forward to seeing you tomorrow. I should be there on time but if anything comes up I will let you know."

 

[Rescue Mission]

there is only 1 thing that you need to do to confirm this date - call her about 30 min before the date, and say "hey babe im runnin late by 30 min, but ill be there at 7:30 for sure (assuming date was set for 7)"

 

[mrRuckus]

DON'T TEXT ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It'll show you care too much and ruin any attraction you had.

Yes, i'm sure she's sitting there thinking of you and fingering herself and then gets a text from you being polite to confirm a date like a fvcking man and then she just dries up for weeks.

What the hell is with the anal retentives on this board?

 

[Alfie]

Come on!!! Why do you care so much? It s only a date.
If she has some interest in you she will remember because she´s been probably thinking about what to wear the whole week.
Take it easy, and enjoy the date. Be cool.

If you were Brad Pitt, she d not forget. So then you should aim for the same respect, build confidence. Dont just fake it!

 

[Thatfeel21]

Yes, i'm sure she's sitting there thinking of you and fingering herself and then gets a text from you being polite to confirm a date like a fvcking man and then she just dries up for weeks.

What the hell is with the anal retentives on this board?

I completely agree with you. This board is non sense a lot of the times. These don juans say either send a ****y n funny text or no text at all, like those are the only 2 options. Man if you want to txt her to confirm as to not waste ur time then text her!

 

[r0cky]

I completely agree with you. This board is non sense a lot of the times. These don juans say either send a ****y n funny text or no text at all, like those are the only 2 options. Man if you want to txt her to confirm as to not waste ur time then text her!

Exactly.
BTW. If she flaked because he didn't text her I will die from laughter.

 

[Jitterbug]

The younger guys on this board are a bit too obsessed with C&F. Tone it down a little.

If she is going to flake on you, a confirmation text (or lack of) won't do sh!t.

If you want to TXT her, send something exciting related to the place or event you're going to that makes her WANT to show up. Not putting some kind of sales / job interview pressure on her.

 

[MeteorMash]

I usually text because like others have said I don't want to waste my time.

I don't see why it's so bad to send a reminder, as long as it's not something needy.

And guys, lets get real. Any chick you will meet will have a life of her own too, so respecting each others time is a good thing. I say sending a text would mean that you have time that you value and don't want it wasted. There is nothing wrong with reminding her. I Mean you wanna date her don't you? otherwise you wouldn't have asked her out in the first place, so drop the fake "not caring" BS.

If she is so ill mannered to not show up even after you text her, then she is not worth your time anyway

 

[DonJuan11]

- Do you guys text a girl the day before a first date? If so, what do you text?

No, you don't talk to a girl after you set the day and time for the date.

It was thursday that we organised to meet on monday so I think I should send her a small reminder,

"Hi Cindy. I just wanted to make sure you haven't forgotten about our date on Monday. Can you text me back to make sure you haven't forgotten so I can relax and focus on my work for the rest of the day?"

Come on bro, its not sexy to do that and you are giving her an out. You have to let her come to you if she's going to cancel.

I was thinking something along the lines of 'hey, don't be late tomorrow, last one to arrive buys the first round! '

What do you guys text the night before you are meeting a girl?

If you make a date, you disappear until the date. You are not going to make her fall in love with you if you talk to her before the date. It's up to her to cancel and / or reschedule if she needs to.

 

[Thatfeel21]

If you make a date, you disappear until the date. You are not going to make her fall in love with you if you talk to her before the date. It's up to her to cancel and / or reschedule if she needs to.

You cant talk to her at all till the date?! No wonder ppl stay confused on this forum.
A lot of these so called rules on this site are meant to be broken. Im not saying you should text her, jst dont go acting like you need an instruction manual everytime you interact with a woman you're interested in.

 

[Rescue Mission]

If you make a date, you disappear until the date. You are not going to make her fall in love with you if you talk to her before the date. It's up to her to cancel and / or reschedule if she needs to.

whatever you do, please do not take advice from this guy.

I looked at his post history, he is a guy with no experience with women - in fact he does not even know how to talk to them correctly, let alone send a text before a date:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141551

back to your question, you are a confident man, its up to YOU if you wanna confirm the date or not........you control the situation, not her - have some goddamn balls and do whatever you want in the situation!!

text her if you feel like it
call her if you feel like it
don't text her or call her if you feel like it

STOP WORRYING ABOUT THINGS THAT CHICKS WORRY ABOUT

p.s. make sure to have backup plans (aka a date with a 2nd chick or booty call) in case this one doesn't go through

cmon dude, a real playa knows how to be ready for everything, why are you making a thread like this and proving to all of us that you still think like an AFC?

 

[Thatfeel21]

whatever you do, please do not take advice from this guy.

I looked at his post history, he is a guy with no experience with women - in fact he does not even know how to talk to them correctly, let alone send a text before a date:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141551

back to your question, you are a confident man, its up to YOU if you wanna confirm the date or not........you control the situation, not her - have some goddamn balls and do whatever you want in the situation!!

text her if you feel like it
call her if you feel like it
don't text her or call her if you feel like it

STOP WORRYING ABOUT THINGS THAT CHICKS WORRY ABOUT

p.s. make sure to have backup plans (aka a date with a 2nd chick or booty call) in case this one doesn't go through

cmon dude, a real playa knows how to be ready for everything, why are you making a thread like this and proving to all of us that you still think like an AFC?

:yes: Donjuan11 is a prime example of an inexperienced poster giving advice on a topic they themselves have no success on.. SMH

 

[Accension]

Yes, i'm sure she's sitting there thinking of you and fingering herself and then gets a text from you being polite to confirm a date like a fvcking man and then she just dries up for weeks.

What the hell is with the anal retentives on this board?

People read the theory here and just suck it up by the letter.

I wish guys like Pook never came here with their grand ideas because I swear it makes every noob think they are quite literally a diamond (despite being virgins).

People need to write things in a realistic way here.
It might not be as elegant to read as Pook's magestic metaphores but fuc>..

 

[cletus]

Yes, i'm sure she's sitting there thinking of you and fingering herself and then gets a text from you being polite to confirm a date like a fvcking man and then she just dries up for weeks.

What the hell is with the anal retentives on this board?

LOL............If it was as simple as being polite then there would be no need for this message board.......If she likes you she'll be there, if not she won't. Theres no need to text. It can only make you look bad.

 

[Johnny_Kage]

LOL lots of responses. In my opinion (and experience), it's better to CALL the girl. To me, scheduling a date 4 days in advance and then not checking in to see if they're still coming is a little ridiculous. People have things going on in their lives. Just because she forgets doesn't mean she's not interested (****, I forget things all the time....dates, meetings with friends....not because I don't wanna see them, but because I'm disorganized lol).

As far as calling instead of texting, it's easier to rebuild the spark that you guys had. To me, texting is a bit impersonal. Just my view on it and what has worked for me.

Since it's Tuesday and you were supposed to hang out with the girl on monday, just out of curiosity, what happened?

JK