Text Message Her The "Wrong" Message

[Derek Flint]

Originally posted by ezilonman
Oxide.... The girl who the message was "supposed" to go to was legit. Me and her had our thing back in the day and she still calls me every few months.

It worked out that both these girls are next to each other on my contact list.

I did not just create some random contact.




That one thing is called a game. If you can tell me that you have never flirted with other girls you had little interest in infront of "her" because you knew she would get the "message" then I guess you are a real man.

Yes, I'm saying it's acceptable to flirt with other women in front of your own woman, but the phone thing is just childish.

 

[Jake-inator]

double post

 

[Jake-inator]

Yea it might be childish, but you'd be surprised how much further petty games like this get you than actual sincerity mr. nice guy.

Have you ever seen a jelous girl?
Jelousy is more powerfull than love for a h0.

 

[Derek Flint]

Originally posted by Jake-inator
Yea it might be childish, but you'd be surprised how much further petty games like this get you than actual sincerity mr. nice guy.

Have you ever seen a jelous girl?
Jelousy is more powerfull than love for a h0.

Nice guy?

If being a nice guy means not playing kids games, but still being a Man, not putting up with BS, calling her out when tested,not being afc etc...then I'm a nice guy.

Be a Man.
Be confident.
Have a strong frame.
Good Body Language.
Don't play kids games.

 

[fender85]

Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Do u think this would work with a networked Work Email system?

For this girl im trying to pull at work

Thanks

I dunno, I'd advise against it just in case things go sour, you don't really want her with email proof that you're trying to sex her in the work place. However I'm very strong in my anti-coworker relationship beliefs . . . I went through two of them before I realized it isn't worth it.

 

[ezilonman]

Call it what you will...childish, kid games, whatever...I really do not care as to what you think because its what the girl thinks that matters to me, and here is what she thinks:

Today I saw her again and she brought up the girl by name again.

We talked a bit and now we have plans for friday.

Any Questions?

 

[h2o]

i definitely don't mean to flame or anything...just positive criticism. you know it sounded okay, but more and more some tips are like techniques/tricks. and i'm a newbie/rafc too, but i've come to learn that you shouldn't rely on techniques really on the journey to becoming a don juan. this tip may be better received on sites like speedseduction or pua sites. i haven't been here that long, but i know this site is is more about just banging the chick...again, not that i'm that far yet, but it's just that this tip is like borderline manipulation. how would you feel comfortable using deception to pull chicks? i cringe when i used canned lines sometimes, i don't think i could ever do this...i mean, i would probably do it before i found this site, back in my afc days.

i hope you don't take this is negatively, i think you should just think about it a bit.

 

[NeverFear]

Lol. I do that on the phone

A similar technique -when your phone rings, quickly answer it
'hello lauren' ???

same deal

 

[Derek Flint]

Originally posted by ezilonman
Call it what you will...childish, kid games, whatever...I really do not care as to what you think because its what the girl thinks that matters to me, and here is what she thinks:

Today I saw her again and she brought up the girl by name again.

We talked a bit and now we have plans for friday.

Any Questions?

None, as long as you are happy with an insecure, low self-esteem girl who falls for such tacky ploys.

But someday, you'll want better than that.

You'll know when, and that's when you'll drop the games.

 

[Jay-X]

if you ever attract a hot babe 9 with this, gimme a call


no confident girl will ever put up with this stuff...

 

[ezilonman]

I tell you what...if this girl were to call the other girl and ask her about me, my story would be straight and she would never know.

This is not some fake made up BS I created... The other girl exists and we had our thing a while back.

It was a plot I made up on the spot to test the interest level of this girl. I am not telling people to create fake *****es to create interest. This "game" told me everything I need to know and now I have control in my mind.

Some of you guys act like the only thing worth value is a HB 9 or 10. That tells me you are so naive when it comes to life the only thing you look for is looks or sex.

If you can't find happiness in life without playin women or measure yourself worth based on how many women you can **** then you are NOT a man.

Based on everything I have read here from YOU guys:

The TRUE defintion of a man is: One who can go a lifetime without a women and be 100% happy.

Because according to you Master DJ's, a REAL man does not need a women to be happy.

This is such BS... You need to really look deep inside and look at what you are saying now because when all is said and done are the memories of your 20's going to keep you happy when your in your 40-90 year range all alone on your death bed wishing you had actually felt love in life? Life comes around once...the man who feels love from 40-90 will live a much happier life than anyone who ****ed 1,000 *****es in there 20's.

If you don't believe me, wait and see...
Memories fade in very dear time while being with someone for many years will leave your life till death with the greatest emotion even a MAN can feel....Love.

You can **** a 10,000 girls in your life and never feel love while another may only **** one and live a life YOU could only dream of.

 

[Derek Flint]

No one is saying that.

But what I'm saying is that tactics like those work mostly on insecure, low self-esteem women.

Not saying it won't work, but do you really want the type of women that will fall for those types of tactics?

Maybe for now, but eventually, you wont.

Especially once someone uses some manipulative tactics to take her away from you.

 

[ezilonman]

Originally posted by Derek Flint
No one is saying that.

But what I'm saying is that tactics like those work mostly on insecure, low self-esteem women.

Not saying it won't work, but do you really want the type of women that will fall for those types of tactics?

Maybe for now, but eventually, you wont.

Especially once someone uses some manipulative tactics to take her away from you.

You had me listening until the very end.

It was all constructive until your last line. That is where you pulled out your line just to argue for the sake of it.

I won't push this any further...but you and I know exactly what I am talking about...

I am new to DJ'in but one thing I have learned already... I am not interested in screwing a chick and then changing my number....

If you understand that and understand that "each his own"... then I believe we are capable of learning something from one another.

The worst mistake you can make in life is to think you are the **** and stop learning from others. You can always learn something from another person, it does not matter who they are or what they have done, every person carrys something unique...always.

I will not use this tactic again...but for a new DJ, thinking on the fly...it worked pretty damn good.

 

[Nocturnal]

What would the girl think of you if she found out what really happened? I Just ask because that's when she would see how you really are.

For a short term relationship where you don't mind exploiting someone for sex, sure this probably won't hurt. But if you're looking for LTR's or anything serious you're just shooting yourself in the foot when you do things like this.

 

[Derek Flint]

Originally posted by ezilonman
You had me listening until the very end.

It was all constructive until your last line. That is where you pulled out your line just to argue for the sake of it.

I won't push this any further...but you and I know exactly what I am talking about...

I am new to DJ'in but one thing I have learned already... I am not interested in screwing a chick and then changing my number....

If you understand that and understand that "each his own"... then I believe we are capable of learning something from one another.

The worst mistake you can make in life is to think you are the **** and stop learning from others. You can always learn something from another person, it does not matter who they are or what they have done, every person carrys something unique...always.

I will not use this tactic again...but for a new DJ, thinking on the fly...it worked pretty damn good.

No, the last line was added to prove a point: That girls who fall for those types of tactics will easily fall for other manipulations.

Again, do you want to be with women/girls who are so easily manipulated?

Like the poster above said, if it's a ONS or short-term, that's fine.

But that's not the type of woman you want to get involved with more than short-term.

No one here is telling you what to do or who to f***.

We are trying to share our experiences with others so they don't make the same mistakes we did.