The problem is, especially with OLD is these girls will text your eyeballs off. I mean for hours about BS, even before a first date some of them.Great stuff. Text game is definately where it's at today. If your text game can stand out from the 99 other text she has with "Hi, how are you?" or "Hey beautiful" or "Hi want to fvck" or "nice smile" or "<d|ck pic>" then you will move on to the next round.
Its very easy:How do you deal with this when they go overboard?
It's nice that guys do that sh1t because it makes it easy to stand out.Great stuff. Text game is definately where it's at today. If your text game can stand out from the 99 other text she has with "Hi, how are you?" or "Hey beautiful" or "Hi want to fvck" or "nice smile" or "<d|ck pic>" then you will move on to the next round.
They always seem to want to chat at an inept time. The problem is if you cut them off too fast they might thinking you're brushing them off or losing interest and will move on to 5 other Tyrones they're talking to then you just lost that one likely. Last two OLDs texted me constantly while I was at my part time night job. Luckily it's just cleaning and such and I'm in back so I can still text and work but it's still annoying multi tasking and trying to do your job and text and be thoughtful in the messaging.Its very easy:
"Im busy"
"Im working"
"Im going for a walk"
"Im going out"
"Goodnight"
Since when do women reply in a timely manner? hmm?
Always be the one to exit the convo first. Its text, you haven't met, there is no expectation.
You have a life... even if you dont. I say this all the time, and usually are not busy... exit the covo. (LEAVE ME ALONE)
What went through your pea brain the last time a woman said...
"Im busy"
"Im working"
"Im going for a walk"
"Im going out"
"Goodnight"
hmm? You pea started to spin...
"is she with someone?"
"does she like me?"
"Why doesn't she respond?"
Got a new match? Wait an hour to reply, six hours, wait a day.
Weekend and you are home all day scratching your sack?, dont respond between 11-6. (I'm busy)
Near dinner time when she texts, wait two hours.
Near bedtime? Wait until morning.
In the morning? Wait until you are just out the door...
"hey, just showered and put on cologne... all fresh, gotta run to work, text me later"
dont be available
dont be needy
dont supplicate
and for fvck sakes, dont say - "im going to the flea market to sell phone cases"
so fvcking what? Move on.They always seem to want to chat at an inept time. The problem is if you cut them off too fast they might thinking you're brushing them off or losing interest
Bumble is even worse. Even if you two match you can't even message her first. She has to.I think the issue a lot of guys have with Tinder is GETTING the matches in the first place....
You can't message them unless they match with you.
Gold that mate. You are connecting with her. I have studied this thread for about 3 hours over the last 24 hours. Seems like this shi* works HaHa. I just used it on pof and she was loving it!!! This material will work in real life too. Good stuff.#6 - Tinder
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I think it's the type of dating app too. A website like Match for example profiles and such focus more on content and messaging. I noticed even if messaging a check that's too old for you for example I messaged a hot 47 year old. She wanted someone mid 40s on up but she still sent a nice reply back explaining why she wants older guys instead of just ignoring if you sent a one lined message.Gold that mate. You are connecting with her. I have studied this thread for about 3 hours over the last 24 hours. Seems like this shi* works HaHa. I just used it on pof and she was loving it!!! This material will work in real life too. Good stuff.
Beforehand i would have been scared to text women this kind of stuff. I would have thought that they would think me a wussy.
You should try being a poet mate!! Mr wood the poet!
These kind of threads are great for me because i mostly meet women through tinder and pof.
People will say that one dose'nt need to worry about "what messages they send" because its all about pictures. I agree that it is mostly about pictures, but like you say this kind of messaging is a WHOLE lot better than the usual drab people send women.
I remember you telling us that you live in an area where there is'nt many women, therefore i can understand why you're putting effort into your messages.I think it's the type of dating app too. A website like Match for example profiles and such focus more on content and messaging. I noticed even if messaging a check that's too old for you for example I messaged a hot 47 year old. She wanted someone mid 40s on up but she still sent a nice reply back explaining why she wants older guys instead of just ignoring if you sent a one lined message.
If you live in NYC for example you have larger quantities and can simply cut and paste and write shorter mesages simply due to the large supply and have better luck because more single women.I remember you telling us that you live in an area where there is'nt many women, therefore i can understand why you're putting effort into your messages.
I think you're right in taking time to think about the what you're sending. A lot of girls are flakey though and dont like a guy who puts in to much EFFORT! The dating world is SO fu*king cruel so be careful.
One of them I'm talking to the nurse who's 55 miles away said she gets tons of messages and most guys she says send boring and dull stuff like what's up babe or hey hottie or HI and other one line stuff.I remember you telling us that you live in an area where there is'nt many women, therefore i can understand why you're putting effort into your messages.
I think you're right in taking time to think about the what you're sending. A lot of girls are flakey though and dont like a guy who puts in to much EFFORT! The dating world is SO fu*king cruel so be careful.
Sometimes they're too long. Like a cute 44 yr old teacher on old has a profile locally that's about 5 pages long with so much jargon too much. Then I see her on there every single night too. She has high demands for personality and compatibility listed.Sometimes you can gauge how much effort a chick is putting in. during your interactions with her. Try and match it.
Yes i agree, if she has a big profile and she seems a freindly woman, then it is good to give her a good message. I think these women are just happy that you have actually made the effort to read their profile. Some bitc*es just complain and rant on their profiles. though
55 miles away pffft quite a distance my friend.
Oh, and remember judge a chick by her actions, not her words