kraytkiller
Don Juan
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- Oct 1, 2008
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I've noticed in a lot of threads where text game is brought up, the majority of people here express the opinion that its useless, if not dangerous to use for a prolonged amount of time when gaming a girl.
This is something I disagree with completely. Text game is a tool I personally use to build moderate to large amounts of comforts mainly in my ONLINE game. Meeting a girl in REAL LIFE however, the guys might be right. Every time I've seen someone that met a girl face to face and then got her number and text dumped her, it didn't end well.
Why? I have some theories that I've developed through personal experience and observing. It seems like when you meet a girl in person and get her number, your already creating enough comfort and rapport for the girl to go on a date with you, by showing her your not a creepy ****, and you have some interests. Therefore, text bombing her afterwards would generate an overly-interested impression and she'd think your clingy and get creeped out.
On the other hand, if you meet her online talk to her and get her number, which if you do it any way like I do, is usually within 5 messages. Now you start texting her, and do it the Don Juan style. Short ****y intro, maybe a neg or whatever your style is. Then you schedule her a activity and time, and tell her you'll be going out.
This is a scenario which in my experience, led to a high amount of flakes or really awkward meet ups or even, honestly, some bad experiences with fat chicks. Ugh. Also, flat out rejection happens a lot more.
However, if you were to in that same scenario, implement a LITTLE bit of text game to the mix to create INTEREST, COMFORT and KNOWLEDGE then
not only will she be more comfortable and open when she meets you, but if you are a skilled conversationalist you now have a endless supply of topics to stop **** from getting weird when your meeting up for the first time.
Also, getting to know them a bit, what they like to do, listen to, what kind of personality they have (naughty or nice?) and other such topics will make her feel more comfortable with you. However it's important to do it in a certain way where things don't get boring. For example, if I'm trying to seduce her for probably a ONS I will try and make as much stuff sexual and innuendo-us as possible without being a pervert, lol.
Anyways, long story short, I have personally used text game to secure a meetup with a few chicks who were 'unsure' and probably would have flaked or flat out didnt seem interested to meet up before I talked to them. All of these meet ups resulting in lays (20+) and all of them were excited by the time we met up
This is something I disagree with completely. Text game is a tool I personally use to build moderate to large amounts of comforts mainly in my ONLINE game. Meeting a girl in REAL LIFE however, the guys might be right. Every time I've seen someone that met a girl face to face and then got her number and text dumped her, it didn't end well.
Why? I have some theories that I've developed through personal experience and observing. It seems like when you meet a girl in person and get her number, your already creating enough comfort and rapport for the girl to go on a date with you, by showing her your not a creepy ****, and you have some interests. Therefore, text bombing her afterwards would generate an overly-interested impression and she'd think your clingy and get creeped out.
On the other hand, if you meet her online talk to her and get her number, which if you do it any way like I do, is usually within 5 messages. Now you start texting her, and do it the Don Juan style. Short ****y intro, maybe a neg or whatever your style is. Then you schedule her a activity and time, and tell her you'll be going out.
This is a scenario which in my experience, led to a high amount of flakes or really awkward meet ups or even, honestly, some bad experiences with fat chicks. Ugh. Also, flat out rejection happens a lot more.
However, if you were to in that same scenario, implement a LITTLE bit of text game to the mix to create INTEREST, COMFORT and KNOWLEDGE then
not only will she be more comfortable and open when she meets you, but if you are a skilled conversationalist you now have a endless supply of topics to stop **** from getting weird when your meeting up for the first time.
Also, getting to know them a bit, what they like to do, listen to, what kind of personality they have (naughty or nice?) and other such topics will make her feel more comfortable with you. However it's important to do it in a certain way where things don't get boring. For example, if I'm trying to seduce her for probably a ONS I will try and make as much stuff sexual and innuendo-us as possible without being a pervert, lol.
Anyways, long story short, I have personally used text game to secure a meetup with a few chicks who were 'unsure' and probably would have flaked or flat out didnt seem interested to meet up before I talked to them. All of these meet ups resulting in lays (20+) and all of them were excited by the time we met up