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Testosterone/Masturbation/Rape/AHHHH

jeffthechef

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I'm sure most of you have visitied the Archives and have seen the Masturbation thread. Well, i read that a couple weeks ago...

1st week..stopped for 5 days...then the weekend came...and bam my streak ended

2nd week..same thing..weekend came and fuked me up

now, i know the advice most want to give...keep yourself busy..exercise, go out..bla bla...the problem is...after i stop for 2-3 days...i can definitely feel my testosterone levels going up...almost wanting to rape a lady...and i'm not a fan of casual sex...and my fb's dont live nearby so they are occasional solutions...and let's be honest...you can't be busy every single minute of your life...you're bound to find some free time..ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE STARING AT A HISTORY BOOK..HOLY ****

my problem now is focusing on work...i'm taking summer school and yes it sucks...but whenever i have hwk...and haven't jacked one off in a while...i go crazy...

my game with the ladies is better during the day...but then i struggle cause i'm getting hard at the slightest things now haha...and i can't focus as well now

so what's a steady solution...i tried listening to music while i work...or watching tv..but then that becomes the distraction...so what now?

the only possible solution i can find right now is a ****buddy that lives nearby that's in my class...but i need a viable solution for now...

Thanks..and my HUMONGOUS buddy :D says thanks too
 

S.Y.L

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See, I just don't see how this could help me sometimes. At party's, not a chance this would, I'll try this during school though.
 

jeffthechef

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yeh, i didn't think it would do much...but after the first week...i was more motivated...i would approach more...and everything came easier...

hmm..if you stopped for a week or more before a party...it might help...after that first week...and the second week...i could feel the differnece...it was shooting out like a hose...and things were hard as a rock....and bigger like an inflated balloon...

usually a girl ruins my streak which is fine..but if there were absolutely no girls...which hopefully never happens...i doubt i could exceed 2 weeks
but definitely try it out sometime especially before ****ing or anything related to sex...you'll notice the difference
 

shadowfox

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It gets easier after the 2 week mark (your brain chemistry starts to balance) just make sure you dont look at porn.
 

WCF

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Umm, excuse my ignorance, but why would you want to do this again?
 

Analyzeit

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I'm with WCF except maybe i'ma go a little deeper in explaining it.

Some people may hate me saying this but oh well.

So you might get a little more testosterone and maybe it helps you think with your **** a little but really, how the **** is not masturbating going to help your game?? I've read it and the whole masturbating thread is just a placebo, and yeah it may help some people but it's not true, i mean honestly guys if you have heaps of testosterone and sh!t game your just going to be a guy thats more hornier with sh!t game. The only way if this testosterone stuff is true, is that it should make you approach more girls and maybe try and escalate quicker (Escalating quick can be the wrong thing to do as well)

You only notice the difference because you think its there = Placebo

And really if your a dj you should be able to approach anyway, also if your a dj you should be having sex anyway and losing that added testosterone so what's the point exactly, i sure don't see it. I want sex just as much as if i had masturbated or if i hadn't.

Fact is, is a little testosterone that your going to lose from having sex like you should really going to help your game?? ask yourself that.

Thats just my opinion after all it is a discussion thread, and before you say i haven't tried it i have.

Also school is more important then sex and women... sadly so if it helps you do your work, have sex or masturbate and get it done.
 

TheEnergizer

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now i'm only 15 so i'm just guessing here but because teenagers get a LOT more testerone spurts during the day than adults so i think that whole mb abstinence thing is more for older guys who need to save up their testosterone or something. us young guys should be overflowing with testosterone in comparison.

but from my personal experience doing that does absolutely nothing for me. i even tried it for about 2 weeks (i at least have the willpower to do that.. how do you commit to something then break it that easily? come on guys you can do better) and i didnt feel any different. even now some weeks i do it once or twice a day and other weeks maybe like once the whole week. it depends on what i feel like. and on either of those two weeks is no different bearing on how i feel. really i agree with analyzeit its really just a placebo, but my theory is that if you mb you'll *think* youve wasted all your testosterone away and youre gonna have a slow day. me i dont think mb will make you feel any different at all, and guess what it doesnt for me.

but thats just my pe... keep worrying about all this if you really must... the fate of your days will lie in this tiny activity rather than youre conscious decision but hey have it your way
 

CaptainJ

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Masturbating does not reduce testosterone levels. It's been proven in research. The effect you get from not masturbating is simply psychological. When you masturbate, signals are sent to your brain which quell the whole "hornyness" impulse.

In fact though, things like getting a boner and watching porn will increase testosterone levels.
 

Groovy

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It's not worth to stop masturbating.... MAsturbating is awsome. If you're worryed that your T levels will drop after MB, they won't drop much. A while later you're going to back to normal! And if you're stopping masturbating to increase T levels, there are much better ways to do that.
 
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