Testing or Leaving?! How do I know?

[Made.To.Be.Great]

My main question is:

How do I know if a girl is testing or really leaving me?!

The story:

I met a girl. I seduced her (-thanx to sosuave-). I fvcked her. But after a few weeks she called me and told me that her feelings are not strong enough and that we should not see each other anymore. I said: ok. A few days later she called me again in order to let me know that she missed me and that she would like to see me again. I said: we'll cee. After that day she called me again a few times and she wrote me some mails. I talked to her, but I never called her first or send her a message. But after two weeks I did send her a message (big mistake?)... I asked her how her exams were goin' because she was mentioning that she might be in big trouble. I thought that wasn't wuss-like... but I guess I was wrong. Until today (4 days later) she did NOT reply to my message. She called me once on my cell, but only let it rang for two times... so we didn't talk at all. (> maybe she was drunk?)

Now, is she still testing me or did she already leave me? Maybe for another man?

Holla back! Thanx in adavance!

PS: I know I sound like a stupid wussy and I know I'm not a pimp yet, but that's why I'm here!

 

[NewMan]

First of all, It really doesn't matter what the hell she was doing.

I think your trying to read to much into what she is doing.

You shoul djust do your own thing. If she calls back and talks to you then try and hit her up again.

remember just do your thing and have other chickies your working on.

One other thing - there is a fine line between not caring and blowing a chick off.

It's my belief that your running that very thin line....

If she calls you up and tells you she missed you etc.. that's an opportunity for you to hook up with her......

 

[Made.To.Be.Great]

Originally posted by NewMan
One other thing - there is a fine line between not caring and blowing a chick off.

It's my belief that your running that very thin line....

If she calls you up and tells you she missed you etc.. that's an opportunity for you to hook up with her......

Thanx for your help so far!

It's very interesting that you mention this thin line and I guess it's true that I'm running it, but I assume that I should not call her on my own terms anyways?! I assume I should wait for her?! Is that right?

 

[NewMan]

Wrong.

What women say and what they do are 2 different things.

So,

Call her up on your terms - but don't call her just to say HI - and to find out how her exams went.

If you call her, call her to go out - have a plan to hook up.

This chick has given you some indications that she'd hook up with you again - so why not?

But, at the same time, you don't want to be calling her on a weekly basis.

Call her - if she say's she's busy or whatever - tell her to call you when she's available.

Don't text or email her. CALL HER.

 

[Made.To.Be.Great]

She called me yesterday and we talked for about 1 or 2 hours (maybe too long for a pimp, but anyways...)!

She was all over me... I was talkin' about my future and about some philosophy-emotional-society-suicide-sh*t, and she loved it! She said that I'm talkin' out of her soul and that she loves to listen to my words!

I was pretty satisfied with my 'phone-game', but now I'm a lil' bit scared because maybe I crossed the 'friendship-zone'!?! Oh oh....

...well, she also mentioned that we have not seen each other for a long time (about a month) and I strongly assume that she was expectin' me to reply: "That's right, we should meet each other again soon!", but I said nothing and started another topic, because I didn't want to seem desperate! I'm waitin' until she asks ME out!

 

[Player_Supreme]

Sup Gatz. At least you could change the posts words when you post up on another site holmes.







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Young Buck


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Posted: Tue Jun 29, 2004 4:07 pm Post subject: Testing or Leaving?! How do I know?

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My main question is:

How do I know if a girl is testing or really leaving me?!

The story:

I met a girl. I seduced her. I fvcked her. But after a few weeks she called me and told me that her feelings are not strong enough and that we should not see each other anymore. I said: ok. A few days later she called me again in order to let me know that she missed me and that she would like to see me again. I said: we'll cee. After that day she called me again a few times and she wrote me some mails. I talked to her, but I never called her first or send her a message. But after two weeks I did send her a message (big mistake?)... I asked her how her exams were goin' because she was mentioning that she might be in big trouble. I thought that wasn't wuss-like... but I guess I was wrong. Until today (4 days later) she did NOT reply to my message. She called me once on my cell, but only let it rang for two times... so we didn't talk at all. (> maybe she was drunk?)

Now, is she still testing me or did she already leave me? Maybe for another man?

Holla back! Thanx in advance!

PS: I know I sound like a stupid wussy and I know I'm not a pimp yet, but that's why I'm here!


You know I'm not a big fan of some of the heads on sosymp here.

 

[Made.To.Be.Great]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Sup Gatz. At least you could change the posts words when you post up on another site holmes.







Message
Gatz
Young Buck


Joined: 27 Jun 2004
Posts: 5
Location: Europe!
Posted: Tue Jun 29, 2004 4:07 pm Post subject: Testing or Leaving?! How do I know?

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My main question is:

How do I know if a girl is testing or really leaving me?!

The story:

I met a girl. I seduced her. I fvcked her. But after a few weeks she called me and told me that her feelings are not strong enough and that we should not see each other anymore. I said: ok. A few days later she called me again in order to let me know that she missed me and that she would like to see me again. I said: we'll cee. After that day she called me again a few times and she wrote me some mails. I talked to her, but I never called her first or send her a message. But after two weeks I did send her a message (big mistake?)... I asked her how her exams were goin' because she was mentioning that she might be in big trouble. I thought that wasn't wuss-like... but I guess I was wrong. Until today (4 days later) she did NOT reply to my message. She called me once on my cell, but only let it rang for two times... so we didn't talk at all. (> maybe she was drunk?)

Now, is she still testing me or did she already leave me? Maybe for another man?

Holla back! Thanx in advance!

PS: I know I sound like a stupid wussy and I know I'm not a pimp yet, but that's why I'm here!


You know I'm not a big fan of some of the heads on sosymp here.

Where's the problem, playa?!?! Why should I change the words?! That would be a waste of time and, besides that, I got NOTHING to hide! When I got a question/problem I try to get as many replies as possible... that's why I posted this topic here AND on pimphop.com! ...afterwards it's up to me to decide who gave me a good and real advice and who didn't! - I did not know that it was a crime to visit more than one forum... so don't get all upset about it!

LOL this is the AFC's biggest excuse for not asking a chick out. Justify it any way you want, but you have to take the reigns. Stop making excuses and ask her out. Do it now or else I will hunt you down.

Seriously...

...lOl... you are confusin' me! I mean, SHE was the one who left me once and now SHE is the one who tries to get me back... shouldn't I play 'hard to get' now in order to let her know that she can't play with me!? Otherwise she might leave me again next time because she thinks that I will always take her back?!

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Made.To.Be.Great
Where's the problem, playa?!?! Why should I change the words?! That would be a waste of time and, besides that, I got NOTHING to hide! When I got a question/problem I try to get as many replies as possible... that's why I posted this topic here AND on pimphop.com! ...afterwards it's up to me to decide who gave me a good and real advice and who didn't! - I did not know that it was a crime to visit more than one forum... so don't get all upset about it!

1. when you ask a pimp for his advice you will get a pimps answer correct. when you ask a pimp for advise you will tailor your question for that area.

2. Playaz University has several pimps as well as the owner and myself. Your post was tailored for over there. Notice how you left at the bottom of your post over here some shyt about not being a pimp. Wrong arena kid. These symps over here do not care about being a pimp. Most of them are virgins or just wanna get laid...you follow me.

3. My point was you should of tailored your post for this medium. sosymp (suave) is a much different place. Look at the quality of advice that you've gotten over here vs over there:

Posted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 3:06 pm Post subject:

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One of the biggest parts of the game is controlling your emotions when dealing with females.

Mr. Fabulous
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You see the difference kid.

In closing: You should of left the pimp shyt outta ya post for this site. Most of these heads don't like that word. Learn the basics of communications. Learn how to structure your message for each medium

Look at the way I write over here vs over there!