Ratiocinative
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 27, 2016
- Messages
- 92
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- 55
- Age
- 38
So I messaged this hottie online last week. We sent a few messages back and forth and she seemed pretty cool and easy going. Then when I asked for her number she asked to have mine instead so I gave it to her. Bad idea? Then she said good night.
I figured she wasn't interested. Then a few days later she sent me a message online at like 3:30am saying she hadn't forgotten about me? lol. I responded that night with a time a place for us to meet up later that weekend. A few days later she responded back saying she had to go out of town for work. No counter offer so I figured no interested and just told her to call me when she knows her schedule.
A few more days later, tonight, she texted me. I didn't try to make any small talk, just said hey and called her a nickname since she never told me her name, and said we should meetup Saturday. She just responded "it's Ashley". Not sure if she was upset with the nickname, but either way she ignored my question so I just ignored her.
Then an hour later she responded again, saying "oh btw I'm not looking for a hookup if that's what you're into". I didn't respond for several hours, then I joked about that not being what her tinted windows were for since she had made a joke about tinted windows in our first conversation. She replied back "no it's not" almost instantly before I could even finish putting my phone back in my pocket lol. Didn't say anything else since I already asked her out twice.
Anyway. Is this **** testing or does she just have a bad attitude? I've been trying to have more confidence and go for hotter women, but I don't have much experience yet. It his normal for a woman who is a 9 or 10? Would you guys have done anything differently? Seems to be her own issues, since I never even made any jokes about sex until she brought up hookups. Maybe that was a test to see it I was avoiding the topic?
I figured she wasn't interested. Then a few days later she sent me a message online at like 3:30am saying she hadn't forgotten about me? lol. I responded that night with a time a place for us to meet up later that weekend. A few days later she responded back saying she had to go out of town for work. No counter offer so I figured no interested and just told her to call me when she knows her schedule.
A few more days later, tonight, she texted me. I didn't try to make any small talk, just said hey and called her a nickname since she never told me her name, and said we should meetup Saturday. She just responded "it's Ashley". Not sure if she was upset with the nickname, but either way she ignored my question so I just ignored her.
Then an hour later she responded again, saying "oh btw I'm not looking for a hookup if that's what you're into". I didn't respond for several hours, then I joked about that not being what her tinted windows were for since she had made a joke about tinted windows in our first conversation. She replied back "no it's not" almost instantly before I could even finish putting my phone back in my pocket lol. Didn't say anything else since I already asked her out twice.
Anyway. Is this **** testing or does she just have a bad attitude? I've been trying to have more confidence and go for hotter women, but I don't have much experience yet. It his normal for a woman who is a 9 or 10? Would you guys have done anything differently? Seems to be her own issues, since I never even made any jokes about sex until she brought up hookups. Maybe that was a test to see it I was avoiding the topic?
