Test Your Women

[Rollo Tomassi]

Back on topic: There's no reason to test a woman in this manner because you already know the answer. Women make an investment when they commit to a Man in the long term. When they fail to see dividends on their investment (prosperity, children, security, provisioning, etc.) over time they are more inclined to reinvest their emotion and intimacy in a better prospect according to their capacity to attract more options to do so. It makes little difference what the woman does for a living when the terms for her intimacy are based on a need for security.

Don't make the mistake of thinking that a woman's need for security is all about financial security. Security takes many forms; emotional, physical, dependability, loyalty, etc. It's not just the paycheck. A woman can hold down a 6 figure job and her financial needs may be completely met, yet she's an emotional wreck, or a power obsessed shrew because she's yoked to a beta male who wont step into the role he needs to in order to provide that security.

So stop devising juvenile 'tests' to see if she's dedicated to you - you already know the answer: given the proper set of circumstances a woman IS going to leave you. NOTHING is unconditional, so don't pretend to be uncovering some horrible truth with a silly test. Simply be pragmatic about it; expect the best, but prepare for the worst. You cannot get comfortable, you cannot get complacent - you MUST stay on top of your game, get used to it. Stop being Alpha and she'll find a new guy who is, and all the money in the world wont make her want to ƒuck you any more. Abdicate the role of authority in your home and she'll eagerly step into it and run you like a child, and/or she'll leave you for a guy who is in the role of authority.

 

[SXS]

They believe that masculinity and femininity are culturally defined, thus they can *change* and of course, it is their right and privilege to *define* what masculinity and femininity is.

The thing is: THEY ARE. Otherwise it wouldnt there be a need for this forum.

 

[The Message Boy]

Trader says,

I didn't say a guy without muscles could not get girls. I never said that a girl will like a guy solely because of his muscles.

I NEVER said you DID either lol.

Trader says,

All I said was the simple point that girls find muscles to be attractive. If he has no other good qualities, then she will probably pass on him.

Haha, THAT'S what I said too! Did you READ my post??

Trader says,

Did I ever say that a man without money cannot get a girl? No.

I Nev-er said you DID either???

Trader says,

High school girls and college girls do not place as high of a value on a guys' money for two reasons

1) They are all about having fun, not marriage. Marriage requires money, fun does not

2) Even if a girl at that age places a high value on money, she will look to a guy's potential. If he has no money but has high potential, i.e. a law student, she will give him credit for that.

I disagree with number two. From what I've experienced most girls at that age are ONLY focused on who's the "funnest" or "coolest" and are thinking NOTHING about the future earning potential of the mates. It's why ALOT of girls get stick up by the jocks or the frat boys because those are the cool guys and that's really what it's all about at that age, from my experience they aren't thinking NOTHING about the future earning potential of the guys they are hooking up with, HENCE, all the deadbeat dads between ages of 17-30.

Trader says,

Are you a girl? Do you have any sense of logic at all, or are you so emo that you can't even think straight when discussing issues with people?

Trader says,

Why do you reason like a girl? Seriously, talking to you is like talking to a girl - you are using total chick logic.

LOL, dude what's your problem? Some of you guys are too sensitive on these forums, lol, dude no one was even trying to fvck with you.

And what's up with all the "are you blank blank like a girl" stuff? You sound like you are in high school, aren't you 27?

And can I ask, WHY are you dissing women?? LOL, you say am I using "chick logic" to indicate that women are stupid.

You "American Women svck" guys are nuts! It's a wonder why you EVEN like women at all?? If "Foreign" women are so much better, then hell, move to Italy! I'll take all the American women.

Trader says,

Masculinity and femininity is about the INNER NATURE of men and women - not what is popular in society.

Trader says,

I am embracing NATURE. There are laws in physics, and similarly there are natural laws for what it means to be a man.

:yawn: *cough*, POOK, *cough*.

Trader says,

This is my last post to you.

Dude you need to relax lol. It's just a discussion forum. BTW, I disagree with about 80% of what you said, MOST of it was just crap you got off these forums, in other words, it's nothing but IDEOLOGY.

I understand that masculinity and feminity are not tied to movements, but what YOU don't understand, while you are reviewing every "don juan" thread on this forum, is that the stuff you just SPIT out COMES FROM THE MEN'S MOVEMENT CROWD. That **** you just spit out comes from the brainwashing of the Men's Movement Crowd which in some ways, dominates this forum or at least the Mature Man portion of it.

Let me ask you a question, where did you READ or LEARN the information that you just typed above? What book did it come out of? What post did it come from?

Just like sheep, you just TAKE what someone passes off as truth and run with it without examining what the HELL they are telling you.

 

[Pandora]

as usual great post Rollo.