Of course she blamed everything on you. That is what spoiled brats who are used to getting their way do. They never takw responsibility for their bad behavior. They always blame.Did it on the phone tonight, everything is just over her head as she is so selfish she does not have the ability to even comprehend how her actions, terrible behavior have resulted in this situation. Her complaint is that she wants more, my complaint is that I dont move to the next step with someone who is so unreliable, mad and causing trouble all the time. Of course she blames it all on me and acts like I am the guilty party, I just stayed composed and just took it to get off the phone. Last thing she said to me was she will not be talking to me anymore, then five mins later I get two fb messages in which I will not read. Good God, what does it take to find a good woman these days? I put myself through college while raising my son alone, am successful professionally and have wonderful friends and family, but cant find a quality woman to save my life.
That is why i said don't get into why. Just dump. Just tell them it's over and your decision is final.
As for her never speaking to you again then fb massaging you minutes later, you are going to hear from her many many more times. Remember she is used to getting her way. This is just the beginning.
Block her on fb. Block her number. Block any attempt she can contact you and go 100% no contact or else she will be pissing you off every 5 minutes for the next 6 months.