Long story short. I have been with my current girlfriend for 8 months and before we met she booked an overseas holiday. I have just spent a month of that holiday with her and returned home a week ago and I'm about to move to a new town for work. She has another 6 weeks of travel with a girlfriend before she comes back and moves to where I will be.
I have been fully supportive of her travels and have been keeping myself busy and having fun since I have been back. Now, I'm not stupid and I know there is always a chance that she could cheat, but I trust her and she knows she is replaceable so I'm not worrying about that.
I would just like some advice on how to handle the distance, relationship wise, as being physically absent from eachother is probably going to somewhat detach her from me emotionally.
I have found that I can take things too far at times regarding the mindset that is learned on here and I tend to over-analyze. I'm just not sure how much attention to give her, what details to give about my day/nights out, if any at all, how available to be, if she knows I'm going out do I ignore her texts all night or reply to them etc..? I want her hamster to spin but I also don't want to drive her away if I am not fulfilling a need. Basically how to keep pressing the right buttons while I can't physically be with her? This has been harder than I thought to explain what I'm trying to ask, but I hope you guys can point me in the right direction as this whole temporary LDR thing is new to me, although I'm probably just over-thinking things.
I have been fully supportive of her travels and have been keeping myself busy and having fun since I have been back. Now, I'm not stupid and I know there is always a chance that she could cheat, but I trust her and she knows she is replaceable so I'm not worrying about that.
I would just like some advice on how to handle the distance, relationship wise, as being physically absent from eachother is probably going to somewhat detach her from me emotionally.
I have found that I can take things too far at times regarding the mindset that is learned on here and I tend to over-analyze. I'm just not sure how much attention to give her, what details to give about my day/nights out, if any at all, how available to be, if she knows I'm going out do I ignore her texts all night or reply to them etc..? I want her hamster to spin but I also don't want to drive her away if I am not fulfilling a need. Basically how to keep pressing the right buttons while I can't physically be with her? This has been harder than I thought to explain what I'm trying to ask, but I hope you guys can point me in the right direction as this whole temporary LDR thing is new to me, although I'm probably just over-thinking things.