BackInTheGame78
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I'm starting to dissect things much quicker and able to discern women's intentions by their actions well before we get to them flaking...I still follow through on my end just to see if what I am seeing is right and so far I haven't had one time where it was wrong...
Latest one:
Talked to this chick online, sent a few messages back and forth, told her I'd like to grab a drink sometime...she responded "I'd love to, here is my number, text me and we can set something up".
Red Flag one: chicks that give you their number this easiliy without you asking typically are AW's that enjoy talking to guys for validation and ego boost, will agree to dates and then flake.
Keeping this in the back of mind, I still proceed as normal, text back a forth a few more time, then I ask her what her schedule is like...she says she is free Thursday til 10pm(babysitter), I suggested to meet up at a place around 7:30 and expect her to agree and then flake. So I set up another date with a different chick at the same time, and then also made plans with my FB for after the date...so no matter what happened with the first chick I was cool.
What happened was exactly as I expected...other than her not agreeing to it and then taking 28 hours to respond the day of the date about 4 hours prior "Hey sorry, today isn't good". I laughed then shot her a text about 30 minutes later saying I had already made other plans but thanks for the heads up. Then I deleted her number.
So if a chick gives you her number in a hurry on OLD without you asking you can have a pretty good idea that she is gonna be an AW or a flake...isn't gonna be 100% of the time, but there is a good chance she will be...
Latest one:
Talked to this chick online, sent a few messages back and forth, told her I'd like to grab a drink sometime...she responded "I'd love to, here is my number, text me and we can set something up".
Red Flag one: chicks that give you their number this easiliy without you asking typically are AW's that enjoy talking to guys for validation and ego boost, will agree to dates and then flake.
Keeping this in the back of mind, I still proceed as normal, text back a forth a few more time, then I ask her what her schedule is like...she says she is free Thursday til 10pm(babysitter), I suggested to meet up at a place around 7:30 and expect her to agree and then flake. So I set up another date with a different chick at the same time, and then also made plans with my FB for after the date...so no matter what happened with the first chick I was cool.
What happened was exactly as I expected...other than her not agreeing to it and then taking 28 hours to respond the day of the date about 4 hours prior "Hey sorry, today isn't good". I laughed then shot her a text about 30 minutes later saying I had already made other plans but thanks for the heads up. Then I deleted her number.
So if a chick gives you her number in a hurry on OLD without you asking you can have a pretty good idea that she is gonna be an AW or a flake...isn't gonna be 100% of the time, but there is a good chance she will be...