tellling a girl you "want her" and telling her nothing?

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There seems to be mixed opinions on this, Corey wayne is very opinionated on being bold and upfront, "I want you" "get over here and let me give those lips some attention etc"

Yet i get the feeling on here your all against this

However tbf Coreys advice has been 99% cement solid so far to my mindset

Whats peoples views?
 

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I would say it only if you have a connection with her.

However, if you tell her " i want you " and do nothing about it... What does that tell her?

Actions speak louder than words.

Action over word
 
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I agree that the system that Corey Wayne's stuff is built on is all good. My problem with his stuff is he has spun it so far away from the meat and potatoes that its borderline creepy and beta. He has done this to invent "newer and better" stuff to sell. The problem is the wheel didnt need invented.

Some guys can pull off the "I want you" with some girls. The average guy doing it to the average girl would be a disaster.

I think that walking up to a girl that you dont have a decent amount of rapport with already (sexting, sensual flirting, etc) and saying "I want you" would be very detrimental.

I can walk up to a woman and within 5 minutes of talking to her I can make her know that "I want her" even though I dont physically say it. I can do that through my look at her, our conversation, etc. And if she is still hanging around and is asking buying signs and being very flirty back, I know she wants me too.

It took me a long time to realize that men respond to things better in an OVERT way. Women respond to things much better in a COVERT way.

If you know a woman wants to smash and tell her that you know she wants to smash, there is a good chance it wont happen because you are too overt.

If you know a woman wants to smash and you reconfirm her decision to smash you in a covert way (kino, flirtatious looks, leading them, etc) you will smash her. Why? She only has to respond to your covert signals and go with the flow and her anti-sloot defense wont go off like someone just robbed the Federal Treasury. Being to OVERT will make her feel slutty and she will run from the chance to smash, even thought she was all for it before you were to overt about it.
 

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If you're hot, it will work.

If you're ugly, it won't work.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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