telling her you want more

[morepoonplease]

So i've got this fvck buddy.... awesome in the sack, we both agree that its good to keep it where its at, however i feel like i want to start dating this chick, she turns me on so hard, i need this type of thing! is there a way to tell her that i want more than just the sex aspect without ruining what we have?

 

[Aazman]

well what's the reason why she's looking for a **** buddy?

 

[morepoonplease]

i don't know? is that a rhetorical question?

 

[1 Bad Dude]

Then get more..... from someone else.... AT THE SAME TIME you keep fvck buddying her.

 

[everywomanshero]

This sounds like something a woman would ask

 

[Yeah OK]

So i've got this fvck buddy.... awesome in the sack, we both agree that its good to keep it where its at, however i feel like i want to start dating this chick, she turns me on so hard, i need this type of thing! is there a way to tell her that i want more than just the sex aspect without ruining what we have?

You're having sex with this girl with no strings attached, congratulations. Good work. You currently have something a lot of guys on here would love to have for themselves as well.

As for the actual question, I would attempt to answer it if I felt it wasn't so misguided.

Wanting to date a girl you're already f*cking because "she turns you on so hard" makes no logical sense. Does this girl actually possess any qualities other than having sex appeal? If not, going for a relationship would be an enormous mistake.


Girls who only have huge sex appeal: You only f*ck them. Which is what you're already doing.

Girls with huge sex appeal that are also quality women with great personalities who have something to offer outside of the bedroom: Pursue for a relationship.


What--other than making you horny--makes this girl worthy of being your girlfriend?

 

[iliketennis]

don't say or do anything like that. are you nuts? if you give her any suggestion you want more for the relationship she will think you're a ***** and drop you like a bad habit

 

[ChalengeGuyFan]

So i've got this fvck buddy.... awesome in the sack, we both agree that its good to keep it where its at, however i feel like i want to start dating this chick, she turns me on so hard, i need this type of thing! is there a way to tell her that i want more than just the sex aspect without ruining what we have?

You HAVE this type of thing! :yes:

And don't you think that the feeling would change if you'd get in a proper relationship?

 

[kingsam]

you have to wait for her to bring it up...other wise shes not thinking it, and you will push her away

 

[Biggie]

There are so many threads about this already! Bottom line is NO do not tell her you want to be more than what you are. Wait for her to bring it up. Case closed.

 

[Joe Stud]

Kelly, Can you cook? Wanna get married to an older sugar daddy? LMAO

 

[909pua]

So i've got this fvck buddy.... awesome in the sack, we both agree that its good to keep it where its at, however i feel like i want to start dating this chick, she turns me on so hard, i need this type of thing! is there a way to tell her that i want more than just the sex aspect without ruining what we have?

Then you are defeating the purpose of joining this forum if you are asking that question.

 

[Donnie Darko]

If you want something more with her, then you need to start dating and fvcking other girls and become somewhat unavailable.

You should be taking full advantage of the situation anyway since she is just a fvck buddy. Honestly, she has to have other qualities to make her worthwhile than just being great in bed.

If you are cool and giving her good sex just watch what happens when you start diverting your attention.

If you ask her for something more, then you are probably not going to have anything with her anymore because she is going to think that you are falling in love with her. Make her fall in love with you and ask you for something more.

Enjoy the fvck buddy relationship for what it is and don't expect anything more. You need to care less than her. So stop caring about her and go out and have some fun and become the best man that you can be.