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Telling a gal you like her without going AFC

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Jizz

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Need some pointers on this, obviously the main one is kino and kissing but this is for a gal online who you only speak to on the phone/msn/text

i wanna tell her i like her, but dont wanna sound afc, or even better i wanna know if she likes me and not give away the fact i like her, anything i could ask or say to do this?

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Buy her a diamond necklace. Spend at least $1000.
 

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Originally posted by Jizz
...i wanna tell her i like her, but dont wanna sound afc, or even better i wanna know if she likes me and not give away the fact i like her, anything i could ask or say to do this?...
don't

how do you know you like her? how can you know you like her? you're on the internet. internet don't count, only face to face does. you can't know didly based on the internet, that's just a fantasy you're grooving on

get off the internet and get together with her in person, that's when you'll get real info

tell her by eye contact, smiling, etc.
she'll do something similar

but then, ask why you find it so important for the next step to be to tell her you like her and you want to see reciprocation?

think about that for the moment.

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Ok, doubt you did take time to think about that for the moment, so just the way you phrase it makes it sound you're following the well well-grooved AFC trail down into Let's-Be-Friends Valley (aka Death Valley aka Lonely Wanker Valley aka Sad Puppy Howling At the Moon Valley aka...)

Sure - at some point you give indication you like them (eye contact, smiling, asking them for a date, etc.) and they give indication to you (smiling, eye contact, saying yes to a date) but this "I like you, do you like me?" is for kids.
 

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I have met her and she is intrested, but some other guy wants her too who lives closer to her than me, shes reluctant to meet up with me again atm because of lack of money but i need to get ahead of this other guy,

how do i let her know im intrested in more than just hooking up with her? how do i let her know im a better option than this other guy
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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your still thinking afc

go out, make mistakes, come back in a couple years
 
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