Tell tale signs of in the "friend zone"

[The TallOne]

Looking for a laundry list of phrases/actions that girls do that has you know.. that you're in the dreaded zone.

I am looking to compile a list for a document I am writing, looking for people's input, would be appreciated.

I know of a few.


1. She calls you/you call her all the time.

2. She uses you as a emotional tampon. "Oh, my b/f does blah blah."

3. Talks about other guys she is interested in.

Thanks guys.

 

[rgeere]

I never really had thought to keep a list.

The only indication that I use to know that I am in the friend zone is when she treats me like a friend on "her terms" and not my terms...

It's not bad to be friends with girls, just make sure that the girls know through your actions that 'friendship is earned' and that they can blow that at any time by the way they treat you.

 

[JasonR]

1. Not fvcking her.
2. Not fvcking her.
3. Not fvcking her.
4. Seeing her underwear, and not fvcking her.

 

[The TallOne]

Originally posted by rgeere
I never really had thought to keep a list.

I think its more or less a good thing to have.. that way you aren't falling into the traps.

You see the list.. and you can see what to avoid, at all costs.

 

[rgeere]

No, actually I don't see it as important because I only make friends with girls on my terms, meaning that there is going to be sex involved. Otherwise I just blow the girl off or use her as social proof; no way in sams hell am I going to be friends with a girl on solely her terms.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by JasonR
1. Not fvcking her.
2. Not fvcking her.
3. Not fvcking her.
4. Seeing her underwear, and not fvcking her.

Actually, its quite possible to be friends with a girl and fvcking her socks off. It's what they call a fvck-buddy or sometimes within an LTR. It's just that with a fvck-buddy or LTR you both have decided that sex is going to happen along with some sort of friendship or just sex.