telephone convo; should i worry?

[ChasinReveries]

I've hung out with this girl a few times, and im definately falling for her. i shower her with attention, i let her ramble on about whatever. i've hung out with her in person about 3-4 times. A few weeks ago i invited her to a party, but she couldn't come. she began asking me questions and kind of flirting with me over the phone. she said "well, we've gotta hang out next weekend." Then, i ended up seeing her (at work) the next night and she basically ignored me the whole night, so i didn't call her to hang out the next weekend. Then on sunday she gave me PLENTY of mixed signals, so i was really confused, and at one point she said something about her bf or EX bf, i wasn't paying close enough attention to remember which one (i was talking to two people at once)..so i called her monday night and smoothly clarified. she said "he's not my boyfriend ANYMORE (stressing the anymore.." Then as we were hanging up she said "i'll call u tomorrow ok?" i said fine and that was it.

well tomorrow was yesterday and she didn't call. Im get the sense that she is into me buit im not sure how to proceed. Even tho she never called me should i call her back on friday and tell her to come hang out with me? Or should i just wait to see her at work on sunday and jokingly pretend taht im "hurt" that she didn't call back. or should i just ignore it completely and pretend like i don't remember?

 

[ChasinReveries]

can any1 help out plz???

 

[dbot]

don't try to figure out what she's thinking, you're just wasting your time. Don't shower her with attention or else she'll get bored with you. Just assume she's into you and play it like you would any other time

 

[Sax God]

Looks to me like she's using DJ techniques on you. Read the Bible, and stay off the phone. Then, you'll be on the right track.

 

[punkrockpylot]

yeah...you are showing desperation and shes eating it up...shes dangling a carrot and you are falling for it perfectly...

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

shut up you AFC c*nt. why don't you read the DON JUAN BIBLE and maybe the HOLY BIBLE as well before you post stupid sh*t on here boy!

 

[ChasinReveries]

**** off, i did read the bible...she called me back and apologized for not calling back sooner, and we are gonna hang out this weekend

 

[flava]

do not go. you are feeding her too much attention. RTFB!

 

[heteropedro]

I wouldent stay on the phone for more than like a minute.

 

[GrimReapaLifeEnda]

I would make sure I hang out wit her, then dont call her back after that. If she calls say you busy. She'll be on your ****, esp if she had a good time. Around Friday u can call her and when she start talkin about what yall did last weekend, u talk her into seeing u again dis weekend but avoid soundin like u desperate or it'll mess **** up.

 

[Gold Heart]

don't take the date, say you're busy and reschedule for the next day. make it the best time she's ever had and then disappear out of sight for a week, or until she calls. first call, don't pick up. 2nd call, pick up but let the phone ring a little and sound busy.

but always remember that what's better than sounding busy, is actually BEING busy. and follow your gut.

 

[GrimReapaLifeEnda]

Yea he is exactly right. Be busy.

I told u to hang out wit her then not call all week on the assumption that she was the only gurl you were focusing on, a "primary target", which is a DJ no-no. I don't think you want to waste 2 weeks just to get her on yo **** even more so if shes the only one u like and dont wanna waste your time u can still listen 2 my original post but I strongly recommend listening to GoldHeart and find and holla at some otha gurls u feelin as well.

 

[ChasinReveries]

thanks, i ended up calling her, and she promised to call me back on saturday so we could hang out then....but she didn't call back until wayyyyyyyyy later on in the night (she said some friend from college came down to visit)...i pretended like i forgot she was gonna call anyways...but she apologized for like 5 minutes aboutnot calling me back the otehr day also...

but basically im not gonna spend any time pursuing her anymore...she's too flakey

i KNOW that she is somewhat into me, but she doesn't pursue for some reason, oh well, she doens't know what she is missing out on.....thanks for the help every1, much appreciated

 

[GrimReapaLifeEnda]

Originally posted by ChasinReveries


but basically im not gonna spend any time pursuing her anymore...she's too flakey

i KNOW that she is somewhat into me, but she doesn't pursue for some reason, oh well, she doens't know what she is missing out on.....thanks for the help every1, much appreciated

Good job, and u know that in a week or two she'll be on your **** right?

 

[ChasinReveries]

hha, of course she will...if she knows what's good for her anyways