Techniques

[harhar]

I've spent a long time fixing myself, making myself more confident and letting go of insecurities.

I've started getting results, few hook ups at parties etc., but im not yet at the point i want to be

i haven't really focused on techniques as much as i have on mindset and raising my confidence, i feel im now at a stage where i can start using techniques as ive got a solid foundation.

so i was just wondering what are the techniques a "Don Juan" would use, specifically in high school. I've done a a few searches but havent found any threads with a list of them.

Ive heard of:
****y and funny
Push pull
Kino

but thats about it.

I'd appreciate anymore techniques that people could tell me so i can read up on them.

 

[hockeyplayer]

Im new here but ill give a few words you can take or leave...

i was in your position a few months ago before i started reading these e-books and whatnot, and eventually my confidence sky rocketed... heres what i did:

i got my teeth whitened, 400 bucks but well worth it, i was able to smile A LOT more and its VERY attractive to girls if you have a nice smile

i dressed a bit nicer

bought better cologne

styled my hair a bit better

and most of all, just stopped being shy, i started memorizing peoples names, which is a very good thing when you can refer to people by their names and not HEY GUY or hey whats your name again? just started introducing myself to lots of people, and most of all just be a real fun person to be around. always smile, always seem interested and always ask a LOT of questions

people love to talk about themselves and when you ask questions it gets them talking and it makes them remember you more because they had a conversation with you where they were interested... but its because they were talking about something THEY were interested in, even if you werent you just pretend

theres a few other things ive done i cant remember, but just be yourself pretty much!

hope that helps!

 

[harhar]

Thanks but i've already done that stuff, i was actually referring to techniques i could use on girls as opposed to techniques to improve my look.

Cheers though

 

[War Against Betaism]

Techniques are actually built so that you can develop confidence. Techniques are essentially training wheels to get you confidence because in the end, it's not being ****y and funny, having great push and pull, that will get you girls, it's having confidence. At parties nowadays I don't even use those techniques, all I do is just talk to girls. Yeah, literally carry a normal conversation with them and because I'm so confident in myself (though the alcohol really helps too), I get a lot of hook ups at parties.

Since you're working on mindset and building confidence, I say continue with what you're doing right now instead of working backwards.