Technique That I'm Trying

[Chosen1]

Ok, I got to make this quick because I have stuff to do today. I've thought of a technique to make me a little more confident with women. Most of you guys out there might have already tried this,but I like to think that this is orginal.

So I'm looking at a cute girl I think is too good for me right. I start thinking,"she will never go for me she is too good". Then I say fvck that she ain't too good for me. From there I start thinkin about us being together. How the relationship would work and all that stuff. This is basicaly fantazing but the next step is taking it to reality. You basically think about the good stuff your good stuff and what her good stuff might be. It's kinda like the theory behind anchors and I believe with enough practice this could make men more confident.

 

[Sean O]

I guess there's no harm in giving it a try, but I think that if you depend on that method too much, you might make yourself more prone to one-itis. Instead, try reminding yourself that the worst case scenario is that she tells you to **** off and you never see her again. What have you got to lose? :

 

[jakeyboy]

um. tried this before. just makes you build up expectations. which is bad. try coming up with a method that requires you not to expect anything from the interaction. because if you mentally visualize all you mentioned above. you're gonna be crushed if she rejects you. and anchors are usually about yourself.. to boost your confidence about YOURSELF. cheers mate.