Tangled Web - Advice Wanted

[Stubbylong]

OP, first by asking about him to the roomie when they had dinner, and secondly by telling the friend exactly her plan!

changing for simplicity Friend (girl) = Mary


HB had dinner with Mary not AFC. She tells AFC different story.


HB flaked on AFC on coming to the house last night, I wonder if its because she heard thu Mary I wasn't going to be there. Or if she really had to pick up her sister.

I've been entertaining the idea of emailing HB and telling her to be straight with AFC. Any thoughts on this?

 

[cordoncordon]

changing for simplicity Friend (girl) = Mary


HB had dinner with Mary not AFC. She tells AFC different story.


HB flaked on AFC on coming to the house last night, I wonder if its because she heard thu Mary I wasn't going to be there. Or if she really had to pick up her sister.

I've been entertaining the idea of emailing HB and telling her to be straight with AFC. Any thoughts on this?

Oh she likes you no doubt. Stubby I don't get it. You are 38 right? Why go through all these games? Sounds kinda high schoolish. Is all this worth it?

Do you like this girl? Is she someone you would be interested in hanging out with and getting to know, just you two?

If so, then call her, or email, and say "look, the whole thing the other day was kinda awkward. I thought, and I think you did too, that our mutual friend had brought us there to hang out and see how we vibe, and instead it turned into this little ordeal with my roomie and our mutual friend. So I was thinking you and I should go get a drink, just the two of us, and get to know each other without the outside distractions."

Bam! End of drama, end of games. Tell your roomie to F off if he complains too. He never even should have been in the picture.

 

[DMEDFISIK]

Maybe I'm the AFC and he's the DJ, I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone!!!! Somebody please WAKE ME UP from this Nightmare.

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