Tall women

[Die Hard]

I'm sure I've read some other threads on this but the search function won't help me out, so...

Whenever I'm in the club and some hot tall chick sends me IOI's, I automatically disqualify her because of her length and I neglect her. I feel like I should change my attitude but I have these stubborn thoughts that won't let me.

I just feel too clumsy with them, like I can't properly handle their bodies, lol. Dancing, kissing, the whole physical aspect, a man should always be able to lead a girl's body as he pleases. But with these tall girls, I feel like I'm not in control, I even feel kinda intimidated by their physical appearance (just like you would when some guy challenges you to a fight and stands an inch away from you, towering over you because he's much taller than you).

When she dances in front of you, her ass is rubbing against your belly instead of your d!ck, and if you try to put your head next to hers, you can barely get your chin over her shoulder lol. I mean, WTF?! Same goes for kissing, you actually need to make an effort to kiss her properly... It shouldn't be like that! If she's standing next to me and I decide to kiss her, I should be able to do that effortlessly, without having to pull her down to my level....pfff!

I've been dealing with this stuff in the past and at one point I just decided to give up on tall girls, they make me feel uncomfortable. But at the same time I feel like a huge moron for passing up on them... Sometimes, a REALLY HOT girl is flirting with me in the club, I could pick her up just like that, but I simply "decline her offer" and write her off because she's too tall.

So how do you guys handle this "problem"? When I think about it, I can tell myself: "Who cares about all that stuff? The moment you lie on top of her, banging her brains out, all of that won't matter!" But as soon as I approach a tall girl, I just feel like a fish out of water...

 

[amoka]

How tall are you?

 

[zekko]

For myself, I just don't find tall girls attractive. I know a lot of guys do. But there's something about the shorter lasses that turn me on. I suppose looking down on them makes me feel more dominant. If a woman is as tall or taller than I am, it just doesn't feel right for some reason.

 

[search1ng]

Not meaning to hijack, but i have the same 'problem'.

I'm 5'8

 

[Die Hard]

I'm average height, so we don't really have the same "problem", Search1ng . Most of the girls are not taller than me, but it does happen now and then.


Zekko, that's exactly what I mean! It just doesn't feel right for some reason.. If the girl is smaller or even the same height, I feel like I'm dominant over her but when she's taller than me, it feels like she is dominant. And that's just the psychological side of it... Like I explained before, the practical side is probably the bigger problem. If the size difference is too big, it becomes difficult to dance, kiss, etc. Even just the fact that I'd have to get on my toes a little everytime I talk in her ear (with the loud music in the club), makes me feel uncomfortable. Like I need to do my best to be at her level, which is true in a physical sense but at the same time influences me in a psychological sense.

But hey, I guess it's all in your head anyway. If you're a real DJ, you won't feel uncomfortable because of her size but instead, you'll make her feel uncomfortable because of her size. "Damn, it's difficult talking to you..get down here if you wanna keep my interest coz I'm surely not getting on my toes to talk in your ear!" Just reverse the roles, it's HER problem that she's taller than you, not the other way around.

I happen to go to the club tonight and I think I might make it my mission to pick up a tall girl, lol. I need to find a solution for this "problem" coz even though it doesn't happen that often, sometimes the girl is smokin hot and it would just be a terrible shame to give up on her just because she's taller than me!

EDIT: As a matter of fact (dunno why this didn't occur to me before), the first girl I ever kissed and banged (yes, I had my first kiss and my first sex with just one day in between. Kinda cool, huh?) was taller than me! That was the first time I ever picked up a girl in the club, anyway goddamnit! So if a size disadvantage didn't bother me then, why would it now?

 

[zekko]

Like I explained before, the practical side is probably the bigger problem. If the size difference is too big, it becomes difficult to dance, kiss, etc. Even just the fact that I'd have to get on my toes a little everytime I talk in her ear (with the loud music in the club), makes me feel uncomfortable. Like I need to do my best to be at her level, which is true in a physical sense but at the same time influences me in a psychological sense.

I'm not sure you read me correctly. In my case, I am simply not interested in the girl. I don't find tall girls attractive. I would have no interest in dancing with her or kissing her. I don't want her. I like them shorter. It's personal taste I guess.

Why do you feel you need to have taller women? If you like shorter women, just go for them.

 

[L B]

I'm 5'9 and I prefer women around 5'4-5'5. Easier to hold and more comfortable physically to be around. I like hugging and cuddling (not gonna lie).

I have dated women 5'7-5'10. They look good and fun to show off, but not as fun to hold.

 

[Die Hard]

Zekko, you make no sense.

If a girl's face is beautiful, it's beautiful.
If a girl's tits are beautiful, they are beautiful.
If a girl's ass is beautiful, it's beautiful.

In your view, all of those things stop being beautiful the moment the girl is taller than you... That seems quite ridiculous and impossible to me. What seems more plausible to me, is that you convince yourself all of those things are not beautiful to you if the girl is taller than you. That's called self-deception and I don't do that sh!t .

 

[JustLurk]

^ above, dating someone over 6 inches taller than you are could plausibly turn the guy off, even if she is hot.

 

[Die Hard]

^

Why's that?

 

[JustLurk]

^

Why's that?

I dunno, it just seems like it would cause difficulties...
I personally like tall women, btw.

 

[Die Hard]

Well, fuck difficulties! They are there to overcome

I say to myself: If you can't handle a woman that's taller than you, you know what you are....an AFC! There you have it, TA-fucking-DAA

 

[JustLurk]

Well, fuck difficulties! They are there to overcome

I say to myself: If you can't handle a woman that's taller than you, you know what you are....an AFC! There you have it, TA-fucking-DAA

It could be a matter of preference. *shrugs* What I say is to each their own.

 

[Die Hard]

Hence:

I say to myself: If you can't handle a woman that's taller than you, you know what you are....an AFC! There you have it, TA-fucking-DAA

 

[Lexington]

I'm 5'7. Just from my experience: yes, most tall girls prefer guys who are their height or taller. But, if they are giving you IOIs, there is no reason not to go for it. If it's not a problem for her, it shouldn't be a problem for you. A girl I'm seeing right now is 2 inches taller than me. Don't reject yourself, leave that to her.

If there is one thing I've learned, it's that you can't make assumptions. Many times, I have been surprised to find that girls who I considered "out of my league" were quite into me, whereas broads who I thought would be an easy score rejected me. I've met super religious chicks who turned out to be superfreaks.

And super tall chicks are actually very friendly because a lot of them rarely get approached. There was a chick I know from college was originally from Norway. She was 6'4 and a model. She was really nice to look at and super nice, but no one would approach her because she was so tall. Well, she ended up fvcking a short, nerdy, portly professor and ending his marriage.

 

[backbreaker]

my woman is a good 2 inches taller than me without shoes, so about 5'10. i'm closer to 5'9 than I am 5'8 so she's closer to 5'11.

i've dated a 6'2 woman before, i mean women are women. i like tall women, they have long legs and i like leggy women.

 

[sodbuster]

personally like them tall. Course I'm 6'2". BUT there is a 6'5" girl I think I'll need to move on. Tall girls are easier to date for me-even IF they are taller. At 6'2", 240,how big does she think I need to be?

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear DieHard,
I am 6foot and generally give up on ladies <5foot 2 and>5foot 7...I find it hard to dance well with girls outside that criterion.....On my dancing scene there are two remarkably tall girls,one is Latvian,the other from Moscow.....both these girls are say 6foot2 and both aggravate their problem by wearing 4inch heels....crazy....both are extremely attractive,but neither has a fellah.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I don't like tall girls either. They're more weight in the bed and I can't toss them around. Tall women get the nix for me.

 

[Zarky]

I have dated women 5'7-5'10. They look good and fun to show off, but not as fun to hold.

I'd have to agree. I'm 5'8 and have dated 5'10 and 6'0 chicks. And you're right, they look cool but being physical with them is just weird. I was with a 4'11" girl and it was amazing. Tiny little package. I like 'em petite, myself.

If I were 6'5 250lbs I might feel differently.