Talking to this high caliber lady

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Believe it or not but I actually learned a lot of stuff from my exes. I am actually a better person than I was before meeting them

And even the bad things still are a lesson, as you learned not what to do or how to respond when some sh1t happens

That is why when I see guys saying that women are evil or sl8ts I am laughing and say to myself “ these guys do not get it “
Sometimes people who enter your life are only meant to stay in it for a period of time. Maybe to help you deal with something you are struggling with or perhaps to help teach you lessons you need to grow as a person.

If you have ever seen the movie La La Land, this is kind of exactly what happened...two people who had big dreams but nobody to push them to actually achieve them met each other and fell in love but in the process their pushing each other to achieve their dreams ended up causing them to go in different directions in their life and lose their connection with each other.

It was sad but realistic of how things work sometimes. Not all people are meant to be in your life forever no matter how much you want them to be and sometimes it's hard to accept this truth.
 

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Like I said earlier, my facebook picture profile and a new picture post was made. The pics were made for her but ended up in my social media instead. That was this past Sunday by the way. One can argue some personal growth happened there even on that level. At least my facebook page does not look as depressed.
 

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Sometimes people who enter your life are only meant to stay in it for a period of time. Maybe to help you deal with something you are struggling with or perhaps to help teach you lessons you need to grow as a person.

If you have ever seen the movie La La Land, this is kind of exactly what happened...two people who had big dreams but nobody to push them to actually achieve them met each other and fell in love but in the process their pushing each other to achieve their dreams ended up causing them to go in different directions in their life and lose their connection with each other.

It was sad but realistic of how things work sometimes. Not all people are meant to be in your life forever no matter how much you want them to be and sometimes it's hard to accept this truth.
I saw La La Land several times because of how much it resonated with my ex gf in 2012. That movie and Mamma Mia 1 & 2, and Eternal Sumshine of Spotless Mind all reframed 2012 memories with ex gf.

However the movies have lost resonation with 2012 as those memories are too faded and there has been no quality recent memories to fill the gap.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm playing with LLM chatbots for grins. It would be VERY EASY to set up a large language model chatbot to get a guy through months of chatting. Just wait for the stories to start showing up. You can point a chatbot at just about any communication medium.

This is a rudimentary chatbot:


Theres a sucker born every minute.
 
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