Quiksilver
Master Don Juan
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Hey, I need to know the best way to talk to a girl who totally wants me to fvck her, without making her feel like a *****.
the backstory: I asked this girl out last year, and she flaked. I don't know whether I was just too unattractive back then, or she was too immature, the point is I asked her out and she bailed. I stopped talking to her altogether, and essentially Next'ed her.
the lead-up: Back in september 06, I was single. I guess her friends told her about me or something, but she started getting all chatty and stuff..You know? Like, she goes to a school like 50 miles away, and she starts talking to me even though I was only an acquaintance even when I asked her out.
Now: So I just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. I had it listed on facebook and everything that we were dating for awhile, and I took it off when we broke up. The girl that flaked on me actually tried adding my gf on facebook, so I knew there was some interest still. Like, if you were interested in a girl who you knew was going out with somebody, would you try to get to know him?
Anyways, so I broke up with my gf, and today she sends me a txt: "Heyyy its been soo long since ive seen you! Hows it goin?"
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That tells the story basically, and it isn't too hard to see what she's really "saying".
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she's comin back out here in about two weeks, and I wouldn't mind tappin that. I know she wants it, but usually when I talk to a girl about relationships, it's pretty direct and absolute. I don't beat around the bush, more of a direct approach. I just don't want to make this girl feel like a slut by asking when she's coming back and if she wants to "hang out". If anybody has any ideas for a smooth reply or something less direct to make her feel more comfortable, that would be cool.
Any advice?
the backstory: I asked this girl out last year, and she flaked. I don't know whether I was just too unattractive back then, or she was too immature, the point is I asked her out and she bailed. I stopped talking to her altogether, and essentially Next'ed her.
the lead-up: Back in september 06, I was single. I guess her friends told her about me or something, but she started getting all chatty and stuff..You know? Like, she goes to a school like 50 miles away, and she starts talking to me even though I was only an acquaintance even when I asked her out.
Now: So I just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. I had it listed on facebook and everything that we were dating for awhile, and I took it off when we broke up. The girl that flaked on me actually tried adding my gf on facebook, so I knew there was some interest still. Like, if you were interested in a girl who you knew was going out with somebody, would you try to get to know him?
Anyways, so I broke up with my gf, and today she sends me a txt: "Heyyy its been soo long since ive seen you! Hows it goin?"
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That tells the story basically, and it isn't too hard to see what she's really "saying".
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she's comin back out here in about two weeks, and I wouldn't mind tappin that. I know she wants it, but usually when I talk to a girl about relationships, it's pretty direct and absolute. I don't beat around the bush, more of a direct approach. I just don't want to make this girl feel like a slut by asking when she's coming back and if she wants to "hang out". If anybody has any ideas for a smooth reply or something less direct to make her feel more comfortable, that would be cool.
Any advice?