Talking about SoSuave

[FCB]

There is nothing good that can come from sharing that you are on this board with a girl.

 

[penkitten]

I did once and it was a major mistake.

<<<< This is not my original username.

I remember. Good times yo!

 

[HoneyHitter]

Never have, never will.

The power of SoSuave.net is mostly anonimity. Men can discuss topics that are shunned, shamed or makes them vulnerable in everyday life.

I also frequent many other forums for different reasons, so if anyone asks I never really go into a lot of detail.

There are personal things you are better off not sharing with too many people if anyone at all.

Being open about too many personal things is not always intelligent. When people know your life is terrible, they avoid you. When people know your life is fabulous they envy and try to use you. I rather have people like or dislike me for my attitude. It takes a long time to get to know me because I sparingly volunteer personal information. As a result it's easier for me to keep greedy parasites at a distance.

 

[wifehunter]

Never talk about to anyone... Though would have been good to get my friend on here. (He's going through a separation/divorce). Too bad, guess he'll have to fend for himself

It's a good secret to have!!!

 

[El Payaso]

Absolutely do NOT ever tell any woman about this website.

 

[RangerMIke]

I look at Sosuave as a philosophy, something a life coach might teach. I really do believe that if more men acted like 'MEN' at least my country (the USA) would be a better place. As far as getting women, heck I'm not a fool I know that is why most guys come here, but it really is more than just that. It is a recognition that when you act like a man, women just come to you through serendipity.

Women are game players... therefor they ALWAYS assume you are playing game with THEM. When you don't act like society says you should, AND a woman feels attracted to you, her automatic assumption is that you are working some kind of magic on her. It's not, it's just you being the very best you can be and acting like a natural man.

Many in the US everyone is absolute befuddled by Donald Trump, he gets on TV and says some pretty outrageous stuff. He doesn't try to hide that fact that he has billions, in fact he goes around an brags about it. He lives his life, says what he wants, and he isn't going to let anyone tell him how to live his life. The politically correct mainstream hates the guy, many Republicans say if he wins the GOP nomination, they will vote for Hillary.

Trump is just AMOGing the entire field, people like him because he is authentic... this works with women as well. Too many guys are afraid of pi$$ing off women, when the truth is that she will be MUCH more attracted to you if you stay on purpose, and don't give into her. If she says something you don't agree with, challenge her on it, don't just sit there and nod your head hoping that you can 'nice' the clothes off her.

There are no techniques here other than be the best you can and be yourself, always strive for what you want, and always go after what you want. But recognize what is possible and what is impossible, and allow reality to drive your agenda.

The PUA stuff is played out... that sh!t only works on really young or really stupid women.

 

[NSX-R]

I look at Sosuave as a philosophy, something a life coach might teach. I really do believe that if more men acted like 'MEN' at least my country (the USA) would be a better place. As far as getting women, heck I'm not a fool I know that is why most guys come here, but it really is more than just that. It is a recognition that when you act like a man, women just come to you through serendipity.

Women are game players... therefor they ALWAYS assume you are playing game with THEM. When you don't act like society says you should, AND a woman feels attracted to you, her automatic assumption is that you are working some kind of magic on her. It's not, it's just you being the very best you can be and acting like a natural man.

Many in the US everyone is absolute befuddled by Donald Trump, he gets on TV and says some pretty outrageous stuff. He doesn't try to hide that fact that he has billions, in fact he goes around an brags about it. He lives his life, says what he wants, and he isn't going to let anyone tell him how to live his life. The politically correct mainstream hates the guy, many Republicans say if he wins the GOP nomination, they will vote for Hillary.

Trump is just AMOGing the entire field, people like him because he is authentic... this works with women as well. Too many guys are afraid of pi$$ing off women, when the truth is that she will be MUCH more attracted to you if you stay on purpose, and don't give into her. If she says something you don't agree with, challenge her on it, don't just sit there and nod your head hoping that you can 'nice' the clothes off her.

There are no techniques here other than be the best you can and be yourself, always strive for what you want, and always go after what you want. But recognize what is possible and what is impossible, and allow reality to drive your agenda.

The PUA stuff is played out... that sh!t only works on really young or really stupid women.

Words of wisdom. Hats off to you.

 

[zekko]

Trump is just AMOGing the entire field, people like him because he is authentic..

I agree, people like him because he refuses to just say the right thing to make people comfortable, like he is supposed to, and everyone else does . Only thing is, and I haven't seen any statistics to back this up, I have a feeling that most of his strong supporters are probably white males. I don't imagine he has much chance of actually getting elected.

 

[RangerMIke]

I agree, people like him because he refuses to just say the right thing to make people comfortable, like he is supposed to, and everyone else does . Only thing is, and I haven't seen any statistics to back this up, I have a feeling that most of his strong supporters are probably white males. I don't imagine he has much chance of actually getting elected.

First, don't get me wrong... I am NOT a Trump supporter, truth is that I am so turned off by American politics I honestly do not care a lick who becomes President... I am however concerned anytime one party in the US controls all of Government... typically when that happens logic, reason, and common sense goes out the window... and you get stupid wars that should not be fought, no oversight of financial markets, bond markets, and securities... along with a meltdown of our fiscal and monetary system... Not to turn this political, but I do want to answer this assumption. You are correct, women are breaking for Clinton something like 52-38%, Men break for Trump 48-42% but a strange thing happens when women are responding anonymously. There is a 6% shift to support of Trump, they still go with Clinton, but it's only 49-41%, which mirror's men... in anonymous polling men shift to Trump as well, but it's only 3% 49-40%.

Not surprising, women tend to be more attracted to Trump, but don't really want to admit it. If it's Trump v. Clinton in the general election, it's won't be women that push Clinton over the top it will be the ethnic minority vote... that is IF they show up and vote like the did for Obama.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The chair of the DNC is Hillary's old campaign manager and is obviously in Hillary's back pocket, if not her lesbian lover as well. Hillary wants the election to take place with as little talk as possible beforehand. So the DNC chair only scheduled a fraction of the debates that the Republicans had, as well as placed them at times when they would get the lowest TV viewership. The less people hear the message of Sanders, or any other candidate, the better it is for Hillary, so the DNC is going to make it happen. The Clintons own the power structure of the Democrat party. That's what will defeat Sanders, not his radical ideas, many of which are actually quite popular.

The political power structure in the US is also built around the electoral college. It's all about not having to give a sh!t about how those red state dumb fvcks vote. Just win the 12 states where the civilized people live, and you can be president, even if numerically, and geographically, most people hate you.

 

[Yewki]

A dang shame you guys can't tell your women about the resources you're using to attract them.

Uhh... what? Literally have 0 desire to do that.

 

[Vivacity]

I look at Sosuave as a philosophy, something a life coach might teach. I really do believe that if more men acted like 'MEN' at least my country (the USA) would be a better place. As far as getting women, heck I'm not a fool I know that is why most guys come here, but it really is more than just that. It is a recognition that when you act like a man, women just come to you through serendipity.

Women are game players... therefor they ALWAYS assume you are playing game with THEM. When you don't act like society says you should, AND a woman feels attracted to you, her automatic assumption is that you are working some kind of magic on her. It's not, it's just you being the very best you can be and acting like a natural man.

Many in the US everyone is absolute befuddled by Donald Trump, he gets on TV and says some pretty outrageous stuff. He doesn't try to hide that fact that he has billions, in fact he goes around an brags about it. He lives his life, says what he wants, and he isn't going to let anyone tell him how to live his life. The politically correct mainstream hates the guy, many Republicans say if he wins the GOP nomination, they will vote for Hillary.

Trump is just AMOGing the entire field, people like him because he is authentic... this works with women as well. Too many guys are afraid of pi$$ing off women, when the truth is that she will be MUCH more attracted to you if you stay on purpose, and don't give into her. If she says something you don't agree with, challenge her on it, don't just sit there and nod your head hoping that you can 'nice' the clothes off her.

There are no techniques here other than be the best you can and be yourself, always strive for what you want, and always go after what you want. But recognize what is possible and what is impossible, and allow reality to drive your agenda.

The PUA stuff is played out... that sh!t only works on really young or really stupid women.

Good post. This is what you need to know. In many aspects of life, game-playing will not take you further, and this applies to girls and dating as well.

We are all born in different races, different colors, different religions, and with different personal characteristics (physical, mental, emotional), and we cannot change certain things. All we can do is to accept that certain things do not change and remain the way they are. All we can do to maximize results is to be the best version of ourselves. Be honest, straightforward and true to yourself. Those who like you the way you are will come and stay with you, game-players can leave.

 

[f(x)]

Big mistake. Don't do it. Based on my one experience during an ltr, it was a mistake. No need to elaborate. Unless you're really skilled it can be used against you.

 

[Atom Smasher]

There is no good reason whatsoever to tell a woman about this site.

Part of becoming an intelligent, well-seasoned man is learning life tactics and strategy. These pursuits should always, without fail, be played close to the vest. To do anything else is self-defeating.

Like f(x) says, it can be used against you in a multitude of ways. Many men have a tendency to share way too much with their women. She doesn't need to know anything except how you present yourself to her. She doesn't need to know how you got to be that person.

Your frame, your life, your kingdom. Need to know basis only.

 

[Reykhel]

It'd be like showing your hand AND revealing your strategy at poker....

 

[Speculator E]

Mike that's a very frank view. If not quite saddening.

AGREE 100% that being a DJ isn't about being an assh*le or a scumbag who uses their skills to the detriment of others. ALWAYS conduct yourself with integrity and don't be a cheat.

I think in the end you can find a 8/9 and date them in a LTR but it requires you to be ON top of your game constantly. That means as Corey Wayne says- constantly subconsciously reading interest levels and adjusting your behaviour.

If I'm honest- 97% of men do not have the mental stamina to be constantly vigilant and adjust.

I believe if you are a true alpha, you won't need to be on top of your game. Game is really for normal guys to mimic the real alphas.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Every time I get into a semi formal relationship with a woman the same question pop up.
So ,why have you ever been married?
The answer is simple.
I worked for three years at the family/divorce court house.
Women hate when you know about their true nature. Info is power and there is a reason gov. around the world keep info in secret. Use the info and your knowledge to your own advantage.